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Was this a one night stand or should I take the lead in the next episode of our sexual encounter?

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Question - (25 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, I slept with this guy and we pursued each other not even 3wks. The pursuit was extremely intense and the sex was even more intense. However, he had sex with me, I held back a lot, because for me it way too soon. but he reaaaaaly went in...... I came alot..... He did not come and did a really good job of holding onto it......his vibe is a little less intense now, but he still showing a little interest. Should I consider this a 1 nite stand or to be continued as the second part of an intense sexual episode where I have to take the lead?

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A female reader, shortone1 United States +, writes (25 November 2009):

shortone1 agony auntthats all it seems by what info youve given is that you didn't really want to so you should have not. and that maybe he was just looking to get down. I know that is how men are they just want sex and with some one who will give it up to them without a fight.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (25 November 2009):

DoubleM agony auntNot a lot of information provided, but it sounds as if you might want to give it more opportunity. Especially considering that you "came alot." Still, we must wonder why he didn't.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009):

You said it yourself "he shows little interest". Looks like it was a one night stand. If it was too soon for you why did you go for it, made it too easy for him to get you.

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