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writes:Hey, just a 'quick' question. This one's not about me thank god. Basically, one of my friends got completely wasted and ended up losing her virginity at 14 a couple of days ago. I've been sworn to secrecy, but (always a but) I have a small problem of my own. She drinks like a fish, which naturally gets me worried, and sleeping with someone at 14 isn't good. Here comes the 'but'. My mum just so happens to be the school nurse, relationships advisor thing and 'sexpert', which got me thinking if I should tell her. I want to help my friend, but I've been asked not to tell anyone, so I'm in a bit of a muddle. Anyone got an opinion, cos' I could really use some help. All I want is to protect my friend, but I haven't got a clue whether she wants it or not. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, shortone1  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 I would tell my mom too if i where you because its your best friend and although she trusted you, you could be saving her life and one day she will thank you. because alcohol is one of the most deadliest, it can ruin a persons life and soon enough people die from alcohol either by a car accident or sorosis of the liver or alcohol poisoning. i hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): It would be great thing if you told your mother. She may not want you to but if she is your friend and you care very deeply about her, then you should definately tell your mom. Your mom could probably help her get her life straightened out. Your friend may not like you very much after that but it could change her life. good luck!!
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (25 November 2009):
 Talk to her first before anything else and get her to try and talk to someone. If all else fails then you have to tell someone as if she gets addicted to this lifestyle it could potentially ruin her life.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 It sounds like your friend could really use some sensible adult input, so yes, it would be a good idea to let your mom in on what's going on. Friends look out for each other, even when they don't recognize that they need help.
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