Due a month before cousin's wedding, I'm maid of honor, can I back out?
Q. I'm due a month before cousin's wedding, and I'm maid of honor, can I back out? Currently it is late March. Two weeks ago my cousin asked me to be maid of honor for her wedding in early September. I'm due almost exactly a month before the wedding ...
A. 28 March 2010: Thanks so much for your responses. Sometimes you just need an unbiased listener to tell if you're overreacting. It's nice to see that I'm not being ridiculous about this situation. Thanks for the help!... (read in full...)
How to stop crying over a guy? Please help me I need it!?
Q. I hate myself, I'm hopelessly in love with a guy who will never be mine. He's far away and I've being crying for TWO ******* YEARS now. I feel a BIG HOLE in my soul, and nothing seems to cure it. I pray at night to God to make me forget him, and to ...
A. 6 December 2008: At this point I don't think you're crying over the guy anymore, you're probably crying over your life. You need to find something more worth while to spend your time thinking about. Find a hobby you love to occupy your time and hopefully meet ... (read in full...)
Does she love me or is she just fooling me.
Q. There is this girl I love, but I don't know if she loves me. I told her I liked her and wanted her to be my gf but she said no, that she was not ready to have a bf but that she would not forget me. She allows me to hold her hands, always looks at me ...
A. 26 November 2008: It does sound like she likes you quite a bit. I wouldn't go so far as to say that holding your hand and smiling at you means that she's in love with you though. You should talk to her. Ask her why she's behaving this way if she has no interest in ... (read in full...)
My girlfreind of 2 yrs doesn't like have sex anymore. I ask her why and she replies" because I'm tired of it !
Q. my girlfreind of 2 yrs doesn't like have sex anymore. I ask her why and she replies" because im tired of it and its not my first priority". Ive asked her if she was cheating on me she always tell me no that she loves me but just doesn't want to have ...
A. 7 November 2008: I doubt this is just a sex thing. When women are stressed or feeling insecure in other ways sex is usually the first thing to go. Talk to her. Are there any outside factors that could be putting stress on her, such as work or family? Stress kills ... (read in full...)
Never had an orgasm, is there something wrong?
Q. I'm 21 going on 22 and I've never had an orgasm. I was sexually abused when I was young, but I do feel that I'm "over it". I enjoy sex, i just can't seem to have one. And I think it's starting to get in the way of my relationship. Is there something ...
A. 7 November 2008: Have you tried giving yourself one, when your boyfriend isn't present? Finding out what works for you on your own time (without the added pressure of your boyfriend being there) will do wonders for you. Take your time. Find out what feels good.
G... (read in full...)
What's the difference in between making love and just plain sex?
Q. is there a difference between making love and just plain sex? if so what is the difference?...
A. 4 November 2008: Not so much physically as mentally and emotionally.
Making love usually is more of an emotional act between two people who are in love.
Having sex could be anyone.
Regardless it's still sexual intercourse. I have sex with my boyfriend of going on ... (read in full...)
In need of some big advice about why life sucks.
Q. how will i know if i found the right one for me?just because somebody is treating me and we both feel comfortable doesn't mean that we are right for each other......it might not last...but what are the for sure signs?n why do people pop in and out ...
A. 2 November 2008: I don't know who you are, but you are my mental soul mate. I'm 100% on the same wave-length as you lately.
I do believe in Karma; I try to be a good person and I'm pretty sure good things come of it.
As for finding the right one, and people p... (read in full...)
I love my teacher and he love's me too, but I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi all,, uhmm... I've confused now,, im really love my english teacher... well,,its start when im in 10grade,,,i've falling in love with my new english teacher!!he's only 23y.o,, man,he was so handsome..,,at first...i dont mind he's ...
A. 13 October 2008: Honey, you need to make sure not to spend any more time alone with him. He could lose his job for that.
What he did, by kissing you, probably felt perfect, but he was wrong in doing it.
You should tell your parents. They love you and know you bett... (read in full...)
Would it be more pleasurable without the condom???
Q. I've been having regular intercourse with my boyfriend for a few months now. He always wears a condom. Whilst I do enjoy it I was wondering if I'd get even more pleasure if I used contraception and felt his semen when he has his orgasm....
A. 4 October 2008: I switched to the pill and it's been wonderful. Sex feels better for me, but it's almost not worth the clean up. After sex his semen tends to take a while to drip out, and I feel soggy for quite some time. It's a little disgusting. But yes, i ... (read in full...)
How can I be pregnant if we haven't actually gone all the way?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 an been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we haven't had sex yet but I have skipped a period an starting 2 feel sick in the mornings! I'm so scared I really don't want 2 be pregnant:(! How can I be pregnant if we haven't actually gone all...
A. 4 October 2008: There are ways to get pregnant without going all the way, but it's pretty rare. If his penis has been near the entrance to your vagina when he came there is a very small chance that his sperm could have gotten it. As I said, this is very rare, but ... (read in full...)
Beard or Sheared?
Q. I am trying to get close to girl at the moment and am hoping to make a move over the few times we go out but i am wondering if i should shave. I have about 10 days worth of growth and like to keep it that way because i think i look far too young ...
A. 4 September 2008: My personal opinion is a beard is fine as long as it's not out of control. I don't like mustaches so maybe you could get rid of that and keep the rest?... (read in full...)
How can I help my girlfriend so it won't hurt her so much the next time we have sex?
Q. My girlfriend and i had sex together for the first time. We did it twice and she bled both times. The first time she bled more than the second (the 2nd was only a little bit) She was in some pain and it was hard for me to go inside her because she's ...
A. 13 August 2008: Next time the two of you decide to have sex start by fingering her first. If you do that for a while it should relax her and her muscles so it won't be so painfull. Also it can be painful if a woman isn't properly lubricated. I hope you're already ... (read in full...)
I don't know what I should do if she cheated on me!
Q. i really love my girl friend we hav been together for 3 years in 15 and shes 18 wut should i do if she cheated on me for i dont know 3 weeks should i go back out with her ? she cheayed on me cuz she heard i was cheating her which wasnt true....
A. 31 July 2008: If she's 15 she's probably too young to be tied down in a relationship anyway. She's cheating because she isn't ready to be a girlfriend yet. I suggest you break up with her, if not for her sake then for your's, because you deserve a girl on your ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my boyfriends best friend
Q. i have a boyfriend that i have been seeing for a year now,problem is he broke up with me two times and asked me back and i accepted,thing is now his best friend says he is inlove with me and i am inlove with him too, i think about his best friend ...
A. 31 July 2008: I've been there sweetheart. My advice is to leave them both alone. Your boyfriend obviously doesn't know what he wants, and neither do you. As for dating his best friend. Just don't do it. I know you're going to make your own mistakes, but i know ... (read in full...)
Can you answer questions about sex?
Q. can you answer quetions about sex?...
A. 31 July 2008: Yes. What's the question?... (read in full...)
I am a ratty person and I get annoyed when I crave something and don't get it
Q. My GF wants a break away from sex as she said she gets hurt sometimes, im worried that this will make our r'ship break because I know sex aint the only thing in the relationship but it is one main key to a relationship. I'm a ratty person and I get ...
A. 31 July 2008: I know from experience that girls are terrified of losing their relationship to sex. Every friend I have has at one point told me they're taking a break from sex with their boyfriend because they don't want sex to take over. You are right that sex ... (read in full...)
I need some tips on talking dirty!
Q. As stupid as this sounds, i don't know how to dirty talk. Can anyone give me some things to say because he told me he loves it when i dirty talk but i honestly suck at it :(...
A. 30 July 2008: It's fairly easy. The basic version is just to narrate what you're doing. Things like, I love how your *blank* feels in/on my *blank*. Insert whatever body part is appropriate. I used to be a little shy about it so if you feel silly, try pretending ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my girlfriend not being ready to have sex? I'm tired of waiting.
Q. Okay - So, I've been dating a girl that studies with me (collage) for about 10+ months already, and we haven't had sex yet. We are both virgins - believe it or not! I really like her and I know she really likes me, but I don't know why she doesn...
A. 27 July 2008: It sounds like she's making excuses because she's scared. If you love her you wil wait, no questions asked. The fact that you said she felt strange and uncomfortable about you going down on her makes me wonder if the two of you are comfortable ... (read in full...)
Poll question for women: do you like oral and would you like your partner more for it?
Q. Do girls like when a guy goes down on them? And would you like your boyfriend more if he did that?...
A. 25 July 2008: Yes, I love it.
No, I wouldn't necessarly like him more, but if a guy won't give a girl oral he should not expect it in return.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't have sex with me any more. Help!
Q. My boyfriend wont have sex with me or even make out with me anymore! What do i do?!?! He says he's afraid of getting me pregnant, but im on birth control, we use condoms, and he even pulls out. He stresses way too much over it. How can i get him to ...
A. 25 July 2008: Maybe you could still give him oral sex and vice versa. Talk to him. Tell him that even though he doesn't want to have sex you'd love to do other things to please him, and that you hope he'd like to do the same for you.... (read in full...)
I don't seem to be quite a normal shape "down there". Will guys have a problem with this?
Q. My vagina, a lot like a handful of other girls has large lips. I have been reading all of the answers saying 'oh! its no problem!' and i soon became fine with them. But i also have another problem. The hood on my clitorous seems a lot larger them ...
A. 20 July 2008: You sound just like me and my friends. We've all seen eachother naked and compare these things too, and I can tell you not one of us is exactly the same. I'm even friends with twin sisters, and they aren't even the same down there. There is no right ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is always trying to make me jealous, sad, hurt my feelings!
Q. OK, i have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 years now. We are high school Lovers. Are relationship has been really good. Until about a year ago. She cheated on me 2 times. And im the guy whos been faithful about this relationship in the past 6 ...
A. 11 July 2008: Well, you definitely shouldn't have done that, but she hasn't responded as an adult either. Saying that she hates you and wishes you were dead does not say "loving relationship" to me. She's probably feeling quite guilty for cheating on you. Because ... (read in full...)
I didn't reach to climaxing in my relationships, does my problem have anything to do with the way I masturbate?
Q. When i masturbate, i do it face down, rubbing my clitoris in a pillow, floor or bed and my orgasms are amazing. I've tried to masturbate the regular way, just by sitting or laying down on a bed face up, and rub my clitoris with my fingers or ...
A. 11 July 2008: Hmm, well from what you've said maybe you should try a different position. For instane, if he normally goes down on you with you lying on your back maybe you could try it with him lying down, and you over him. That way you have more control of the ... (read in full...)
How do I properly dispose of the evidence so that my family isn't suspicious of my masturbating?
Q. I masturbate regularly, about 2-3 sometimes 4 times a day. My parents don't know, neither does my sister. I think that they are starting to get suspicious tho, I don't know how to properly dispose of the evidence...What should I do???...
A. 10 July 2008: Could you just do it when you shower?... (read in full...)
Confused about who my baby's father is...
Q. hi my name is valsha and i am 18 weeks pregnant if i messed with my friend on feburary 24 is it possible that my baby is his....
A. 7 July 2008: Sorry to say it, but I did the math and the date you messed around with your friend is almost 4.5 months ago, 18 weeks. So yes, the baby could be his. Of course, this doesn't mean for sure that it was him if you also were having sex with someone ... (read in full...)
I haven't had sex, as such, am I still a virgin?
Q. I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend was fingering me. it started to hurt eventually, but i ignored it. After we finished fooling around, i was bleeding. He pointed it out to me. Did he break my Hymen?? Or is it something else? If my Hymen is broken,...
A. 7 July 2008: You're still a virgin. Until you have sex, you will be. There are plenty of ways to break your hymen completely unrelated to sex, like using a tampon.... (read in full...)
Are there many who are "saving themselves for marriage"?
Q. How many Christians who go to church on a regular basis do you think are saving themselves for marriage these days?...
A. 30 June 2008: I don't think many people are saving themselves these days. About four years ago I attended a youth group at my best friend's church and we all took a pledge of chastity until marriage. My best friend has since had sex with two people, me with one, ... (read in full...)
How concerned should I be about the chances of pregnancy?
Q. i could be a week pregnant but im not sure. but my question is what is the chance? i have the feeling that my worrying is delaying my periode from the stress so thats why i need an answer soon. me and my bf been having sex this past week and im on ...
A. 30 June 2008: Take a pregnancy test sweetheart, then you'll know for sure. It's very possible that your stress is delaying your period. It does not seem very likely that you're pregnant because even though you didn't use a condom once, you are on the pill and ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, yet he won't commit to me officially!
Q. i have been with this guy now for over 12months, but we are not a couple, so in other words he wont commit to me and make me his girlfriend, he hasnt met my family and i havent met his, we are both not seeing anyone else and he is very much in love ...
A. 30 June 2008: It sounds to me as though he cares for you a great deal, but in the back of his mind wants to keep his options open. It is possible that he loves you, but if he isn't willing to commit to you, then love along won't take you anywhere. I agree will ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that she's pregnant??
Q. Hi all im a male aged 22. My girlfriend and i had sex(unprotected). She was on my lap and eventually turn to missionery with her on top. I ejaculated during da lap position. She asked how many times did i come inside her and it was only during t...
A. 30 June 2008: The longer you wait, the more likely it is to be accurate. If you really want to know, you could go to a clinic and get a professional blood or urine test.... (read in full...)
How can I tell her about the armpit hair without hurting her feelings?
Q. I've noticed my girlfriend has started growing armpit hair. I find it a real turn off and she never used to have it.How can i tell her to get rid of it without hurting her feelings?...
A. 29 June 2008: More than likely she's always had it, but usually shaves it. The fact that she didn't this time probably means she's getting more comfortable with you, and doesn't feel the need to shave everytime she sees you. Maybe you should take it as a ... (read in full...)
Anything "different" that we can do in order to postpone actual sex?
Q. SO my boyfriend of about a year and a half keeps saying he wants us to do something "new". But I'm not ready to have sex yet. We've done: handjob, blowjob, finger and "eat out".. is there anything 'different' that we can do?...
A. 29 June 2008: You could get naked and rub your bodies against eachother without actual penetration. Just be careful that he doesn't cum near your opening, because there is still the slim chance you could get pregnant that way. Try new tricks to make the things y... (read in full...)
Ladies, how do you want us to kiss you?
Q. I have seen many many articles bashing guys on how to kiss. Well ladies exactly how do you like to be kissed? exactly what is it that makes your toes curl and your hair stand on end? i would like to know so that i can be the best i can....
A. 29 June 2008: One guy I kissed opened him mouth as wide as he could (which was awkward for me because my mouth is on the smaller side), stuck his tongue in my mouth, and waggled it around as fast as he could. It felt like a very wet rattle snake.
Always star... (read in full...)
I need techniques to make my boyfriend cum?
Q. My b/f says ive never made him cum.i need some techiniques....
A. 29 June 2008: Maybe your boyfriend has an issue. My friend's boyfriend, for instance, lasts ridiculously long for the average male, so it takes quite a bit more work to make him cum. You should find a sex position where neither of you will get tired so it can ... (read in full...)
Embarrassing pubic hair. Is this normal for guys?
Q. I'm 19 and I have a bit of an embarrassing problem. Well actually, I don't even know if it's really a problem, or something a lot of people go through, because it isn't something people discuss. Whatever it is, it's starting to cause me ...
A. 29 June 2008: It's not a problem, I know plenty of guys who have that. If it's bothering you, try shaving or waxing. Of course, it may start to itch when it grows back in, so you're probably better off leaving it alone.... (read in full...)
Is it possible that she's pregnant??
Q. Hi all im a male aged 22. My girlfriend and i had sex(unprotected). She was on my lap and eventually turn to missionery with her on top. I ejaculated during da lap position. She asked how many times did i come inside her and it was only during t...
A. 29 June 2008: You don't have to wait for her period. Go to any convenience store and look for brands like First Response pregnancy test. They are able to predict pregnancy several days before her missed period. ... (read in full...)
I want to surprise him when we have sex for our first time together...how can I do this??
Q. hey all. i have been with my man for two months. weve tried to have sex, but circumstances havent allowed us! i really want to surprise him for our first time together but unsure of what to do...? its going to be in a hotel room, so i was thinking ...
A. 29 June 2008: I think that's a great idea. Also, to add to the atmosphere, you could put on music and play all of your shared favorite songs. I don't know if your into candles, but their great for setting the scene. Of course, since this will be your first time ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is loose and that he does not feel a thing... what can I do? How do I fix it?
Q. I have not cheated why does my vagina feel loose... my boyfriend thinks that I've cheated... before he even mentioned it, I have been noticing a diffrence with our sex life... when we have sex my vagina has no tightness to it.. I try and ...
A. 19 June 2008: I can't believe he would tell you that. Even if it is true, you're working on it, and that should be enough for him.
Is your boyfriend on any kinds of medication? I had a boyfriend who, because of his anti-depressants and other mood stab... (read in full...)
What actually happens when you have a bikini wax?
Q. I was reading some recent posts and realized I had a question about something but never knew who to ask. What actually happens when you go for a bikini wax? Do you take everything off and sit there with your legs open? I've only had my eyebrows ...
A. 22 May 2008: I've never had a bikini wax, but it's something that I'd like to do. The people who work there are professionals. When you go in just let them know that it's your first time and that you're a little nervous. They'll tell you exactly what to do, and ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one that has breasts like this? It makes me insecure!
Q. I have a question. I am insecure about my breasts. I have large breasts which men love, but the colored part around my nipple seems realy big to me compared to other breasts i've seen. Does it matter. Do men prefer one or the other? Am I the only ...
A. 5 May 2008: Don't worry at all. I have the same as you. I used to be really self-conscious about them too, but eventually I realized that to most men boobs are boobs.... (read in full...)
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