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writes:how will i know if i found the right one for me?just because somebody is treating me and we both feel comfortable doesn't mean that we are right for each other......it might not last...but what are the for sure signs?n why do people pop in and out of your life?Do things happen for a reason?Do you believe in Karma? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): Hey..I always ask myself the same question especially in the point of the my life I am at right now. Its like when you think you have found someone who is great and you can see yourself with and then something happens and they end up falling out of your life and you ask yourself what is the point of meeting this person if they are just going to end up out of my life anyway? I have had many situations where fate def could have worked and I think at times how odd and unexpecting things happen and I meet people and I think maybe this is meant to be and then they end up being bad or not staying in my life. The only thing I can think of is that your meant to have hard times and meet the wrong people so you know what to watch out for and what kind of people you want in your life and how to tell who is a good person and who isn't. Just take life day by day and let whatever happens happen. I believe everything will work out in the end I just dont know at what time it will happen but when it does.. the bad stuff that led up to it will seem like nothing and it will go away or you will be thankful that it happened because of the amazing outcome. Just hold on and it will be ok. You will become a stronger person.
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reader, Analdia +, writes (2 November 2008):
Analdia is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks evryone!
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reader, Anarchy666 +, writes (2 November 2008):
I belive in life you should take risks! Are you in love with the guy? If not then your obviously not completely happy with the situation! If you think "Karma" is telling you something its up to YOU wether or not you follow it. Do you think theres some1 out there better suited for you? If so go for it coz you might end up regreting it!
Good luck ^_^
No I dont belive in "Karma" but I do however like watching my name is earl great show! Youd like it!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Try to remember that everyone is fundamentally picky and rather selfish. Yet, there are many who are also very giving and caring. Your goal is to find the man who gives to you and treasures what you can give to him - a two-way trade of care, concern, love, affection, pleasure, humor, kindness, protection and above all, stability. It probably will not turn out to be with the "hot" guy, or mister tall, dark and handsome. Open up to the nice, smart and average guy. With him, you may find happiness along with a good deal of passion.
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reader, shelleyanne +, writes (2 November 2008):
 I don't know who you are, but you are my mental soul mate. I'm 100% on the same wave-length as you lately.
I do believe in Karma; I try to be a good person and I'm pretty sure good things come of it.
As for finding the right one, and people popping in and out of your life, I feel like they do happen for a reason. Your life is a story that's going to play out. Things don't make sense right now, but there's always the thought that in the future it will all come together.
I don't think love is something that just strikes you. I believe in fate, sort of, but I more believe that we form our own destinies. If you think you have someone good, hold on to them. There will always be the poeple that pop in and out, but love is hard work and you have to ignore the temptations for the person you love. In the end, if karma does exist, good things will happen.
Or so I like to think.
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reader, vamp-gal  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Wow, these are some big questions.
I've never been in a relationship before, but I guess you know if you've found the one, because you just feel it, you know he's the one for you, the one you want to spend the rest of you're life with.
I don't know why people pop in and out of you're life. It depends really. Whether it's an accident or on purpose. I'm not sure, only that person can answer that question.
I personally believe that everything happens for a reason, if it doesn't, then what's the point in it happening? That may not be other peoples opinion, but it is mine.
I do also believe in Karma, and if it doesn't exist, it should. What goes around, comes around. If people do something to you, you want them to have equivelent done to them, unless, ofcourse, you are a very forgiving person, or if someone does something kind to you, you hope that something good will happen to them.
Answering the '...about why life sucks', it only sucks sometimes, not all the time. Some days, something bad may happen to you, other days good things will. It's the bad things that make us realize how special the good things really are when they come along. The bad things in life make you stronger for when something else comes along. People have a streak of badness in there lives, but we hope that someday, they will have something amazing happen to them to make up for it. So remember, if it seems like life really sucks, think about everything good that's happened in your life. Maybe get pro-active as well, do something, that will help your life be the best it can be.
Sorry this is really long, I just wanted to make sure I got everything.
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