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writes:I've noticed my girlfriend has started growing armpit hair. I find it a real turn off and she never used to have it.How can i tell her to get rid of it without hurting her feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 June 2008):
Offer to buy her a day of beauty treatments?
Or:
Ask her if she thinks you should shave / wax your chest / tummy / anywhere else hair. Say you are not sure whether to bother because you are comfortable with her and she is obviously comfy with you which is why she doesn't shave all the time.
Or:
Talk about you hate having underarm hair in the summer as you get all hot and sweaty and you are jealous of how girls have lovely smooth underarms which must be so much nicer / hygenic.
Or: Put up with it.
Good Luck!! xx
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female
reader, lexilou +, writes (29 June 2008):
 She could be one of these women who has decided not to shave under there anymore. Men dont and a lot of women think why should we do it if they dont.
My mum has stopped shaving there and is 63. When I come round and she's gardening in a little strappy top with thick black hair straggling all over it makes me feel sick, sorry if that offends anyone, I think its due to the fact that for many years it has been the norm for women to shave so you dont expect to see it. I have asked her about and she has said its her decision, if I dont like it dont look at it.
So by all means ask her why she has stopped but dont be too disappointed if she says she no longer wants to shave it. If you make her know how you feel she may reconsider but at the end of the day its her decision x
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reader, shelleyanne  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 More than likely she's always had it, but usually shaves it. The fact that she didn't this time probably means she's getting more comfortable with you, and doesn't feel the need to shave everytime she sees you. Maybe you should take it as a compliment. She'll probably shave eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): If she is a good ,humble and polite friend of yours she should'nt mind u telling her to shave her armpit. Actually she should have known everything of hygiene. If u are really disgusted, buy her a deodrant spray or ask her which scent she likes . But donot give her the impression becoz of her armpit. Just say casually.Say u like to put so do you want also , it really smells fresh.After a days work
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