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Self conscious during sex with husband because he never pays me compliments, etc. How can I get over my trust issues?
Q. Hello everyone, I have been married for 11 years,and I am 31 years old, my husband is 34. We have 4 kids together ages 15,11,9, and 8 months. I consider myself to be attractive even after 4 kids...meaning I’m not skinny or overweight. I’m ...
A. 3 February 2009: The only that should matter to you is that you are beautiful to yourself and what he or anyone else thinks shouldn't matter. Another way to get the truth from him is to talk to him about this problem that you are having with him not giving those ... (read in full...)
What's with the itching?
Q. hi i really need some help im a 15 year old girl and i keep itching down bellow around my vagina its really iriatating me and when i piss its really saw i have no vagina hair down there but im just a bit concerned wat it could be?i am quite sexually ...
A. 3 February 2009: Maybe it's just that you're using some type of powder or soap that irritates that area, but that's not the only alternative because you are sexually active. So are you sure that your boyfriend is not sleeping around or has a problem below also. (I'm ... (read in full...)
5 years later, suddenly we've been sexless for 5 months?
Q. I am looking for advice, I do not know what to do, my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years now, we HAD the most incredible sex life up until 5 months ago, then nothing, literally nothing. I think I am fed up, I can't live like this a...
A. 23 January 2009: talk to her again and "get her started" by caressing and kissing her body on places you've never kissed or just tell her how you feel and just be truthful. because you do sound like a wonderful man....but she could be stressing about something ask ... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant or is this just normal?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship but everytime we meet up we have sex. We met up and decided to not use a condom. He didn't "cum" inside me but could i still be pregnant as i have missed a period or is this just normal?...
A. 23 January 2009: are you sure he didnt cum inside of you...and sometimes ppl miss periods or the cycle changes from either the beginning of the month to end and vice versa. but to be sure go to your doctor and tell him/her to keep it between you two and get a ... (read in full...)
He called me his "f*ck buddy", what did he mean by that?!?!
Q. me and my boyfriend (who's immature and only 15!) were talking the other night and he said im his "fuck buddy" and laughed then knew he fucked up so he went completely silent and i hung up on him. should i call him? what did he mean by that!...
A. 23 January 2009: tell him h*ll no because i dont wanna be anyone's f*ck buddy because im worth more and you may have other f*ck buddies and im not one of them not anymore anyway.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and can't get over the loss of my baby.
Q. im 14 and cant get over the fact i lossed my baby its been a year now and every time i seem to get better i see some one with a baby or my friends will talk about it what should i do please help it is efecting my school work ...
A. 23 January 2009: pray....ask God to help you through this.....know in your heart and mind that the baby is in a better place with no problems and cares....but the one thing that shouldn't bother you is knowing you can have another so don't stress yourself about it ... (read in full...)
He called me his "f*ck buddy", what did he mean by that?!?!
Q. me and my boyfriend (who's immature and only 15!) were talking the other night and he said im his "fuck buddy" and laughed then knew he fucked up so he went completely silent and i hung up on him. should i call him? what did he mean by that!...
A. 23 January 2009: no do not call because he may say he cares about you but being a fuck buddy/cutty buddy doesn't mean nothing at all. that really means he doesnt see as his gf and him as your bf so dont call text or anything else until he realize that you're worth ... (read in full...)
I really want to have a baby with my BF but my family will freak out.
Q. me and my boyfriend have only had sex once. And yes, we had protection he had already came in the condom and it broke, i had to have emergency contraception aka the plan b pill but i want a baby soooo bad. im only 13 tho... i will be 14 in june, i ...
A. 23 January 2009: don't rush into these things because it's not easy at all. my sister had her 1st child in the 10th grade at 16 years old and that wasn't easy for her....school & a baby. the father was there when she had the baby and a few months after but he ... (read in full...)
Is he playing hard to get? Does he want me to ask him out?
Q. He liked me a lot for more than 1 year, it was extremely obvious, but when he showed his true feelings i strongly rejected him in different ways, 'cause i was kinda shy.. but he never insulted me and he's the type who would do it. now he knows for ...
A. 23 January 2009: go to him and ask him about do he still care for you @ all as a friend...g/f. then maybe ask him out on a date to let him know that you care and don't be a "tag-along" just be a friend and if he still wants to be in your life the emotions and ... (read in full...)
Attracted to a female friend.
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up last week and this girl I like is bi and really gorgeous and really pretty, she lives with her mom but her mom is leaving to go out of town for a week on a business trip. her mom said she could use her toys while she ...
A. 23 January 2009: well the only thing you can do is express to her how you feel about her and let her know that you want to experiment with her. you two are friends okay do this ask her an "if" question like if you had this friend or i have this friend that is kind ... (read in full...)
My BF's parents hate me, should I stick it out and fight for him?
Q. Thank you for reading... Well I've been with my boyfriend for four months now and things were going amazingly well. We're happy together and truly love each other more than anything... But there's one major problem... Recently my boyfriend's p...
A. 22 January 2009: well that's good he's sticking up for you and now you know what you need to do.....because like my dad always told me sometimes you have to fight to get the things you want... (read in full...)
He's amazing but he's a total manwhore, what do I do?
Q. k to start off, i'm 17 (grade 11) and my boyfriend's name is kris, he's in grade 10 (16) but verrrrry cute:) i think he's amazing, basically perfect. since he's extremely popular, amazingly hot, a gentlemen, good listener, caring and the whole pa...
A. 22 January 2009: Now where I come from whenever a guy talks about their gf 1)talk about them back (we call it rippin') or 2)hit him and make him wish he didn't say that...... and yeah I do get he's 15 and acting his age but girl I was going out with a 16 year old ... (read in full...)
How do I let her know that this isn't just grabbing dinner again as friends?
Q. I've been seeing this girl a lot and it's pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day I asked her if I could take her out on a date on the weekend and ...
A. 22 January 2009: okay buy her something that will light up her face and feel special & you could even put a heart of roses on the table where you two are sitting. but the way any girl would feel special is a guy taking time, listening, and most of paying attention. ... (read in full...)
My BF's parents hate me, should I stick it out and fight for him?
Q. Thank you for reading... Well I've been with my boyfriend for four months now and things were going amazingly well. We're happy together and truly love each other more than anything... But there's one major problem... Recently my boyfriend's p...
A. 22 January 2009: If you two are in love fight for your man and his parents will have no choice... but the real question is, is he fighting for you? Meaning while he's with his parents and they're saying all these things about you is he talking up for you or not ... (read in full...)
He's amazing but he's a total manwhore, what do I do?
Q. k to start off, i'm 17 (grade 11) and my boyfriend's name is kris, he's in grade 10 (16) but verrrrry cute:) i think he's amazing, basically perfect. since he's extremely popular, amazingly hot, a gentlemen, good listener, caring and the whole pa...
A. 22 January 2009: I'm 17 and a virgin but my reason is because of my family having kids while they where in high school.... and I hate when guys act immature but he's 15 try dating a 22 year old that acts like your little cousin omg so immature, but ask kris no tell ... (read in full...)
He's amazing but he's a total manwhore, what do I do?
Q. k to start off, i'm 17 (grade 11) and my boyfriend's name is kris, he's in grade 10 (16) but verrrrry cute:) i think he's amazing, basically perfect. since he's extremely popular, amazingly hot, a gentlemen, good listener, caring and the whole pa...
A. 22 January 2009: I have Yahoo... but anyway if you're fine with taht I or anyone else can change your mind about this. 1. Are you a virgin? 2. Have you ever talked to him about the way you felt about him being a manwhore? 3. (Ask him) are you willing to chang... (read in full...)
He is cheating on his GF with me...
Q. Hey guys Well let me tell you about my situation. I am 21 years old and I met my first love when I was 18. Everything was great. He was my first everything. We were together for about a year and then he started to act funny wasn't coming around much ...
A. 22 January 2009: Well dont put yourself in a situation that if (he) was your boyfriend and doing it to you, all that matters is you know he has a girlfriend, you shouldn't really care whether or not he denies/claims her because every lady knows a guy would say/do ... (read in full...)
Married but pregnant with my exes child, what should I do now?
Q. I have been in this relationship with my husband since I was 17 years old. Last year we started having problems nothing too major, but big enough for me to reach out to an old friend. Long story short I broke up with my ex to be with my now husband ...
A. 22 January 2009: Follow your heart on this one because even though it was wrong to sleep with your ex the man you love and loves you is your husband and remind him of the vows he took years ago "for better/worst" and that no good ex let him live his life wondering ... (read in full...)
He's amazing but he's a total manwhore, what do I do?
Q. k to start off, i'm 17 (grade 11) and my boyfriend's name is kris, he's in grade 10 (16) but verrrrry cute:) i think he's amazing, basically perfect. since he's extremely popular, amazingly hot, a gentlemen, good listener, caring and the whole pa...
A. 22 January 2009: Well first of all if he slept with your friend while you two were together let him and her go because he probably knew that you two were friends and she knew you all were dating but if that's not the case then oh well. On the other hand If you're ... (read in full...)
In love with a man I can't have... help?
Q. A few years ago I was going through a divorce and I had a good male friend helping me out. He is practically married but he isn't. They neither one want to get married. They stay together because of their children and they have been together since ...
A. 23 December 2008: Ask him how he feels about you and her and then make your decision from that. If you all are friends you should consider her feelings as well as yours and his. I wouldn't say that he love you either of you because he cheating with you, but he's not ... (read in full...)
What should I do if she says no again? Why would she refuse my proposal?
Q. Hi I've lived with my partner for 6 years. We have a daughter 4 years old. Last Christmas I proposed marriage to her and she said no. It's been a long year for me as i've not got my head around it. This year i'm thinking of proposing again. What...
A. 23 December 2008: HOLD IT!!!! Before you propose ask how would she feel about getting married since she denied you the first time THEN you try again this year if everything looks out. Maybe she felt as if you waited too long and was really shocked that you proposed ... (read in full...)
I don't understand what he means by me being "too attached" after 3 years! Well of course I am!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He never really talks about our future together, and he always say things that make me question how he views our future, but I never questioned him openly until last night. For example, the other night I ...
A. 23 December 2008: Well I really can't use this one but I'll tell you anyway......in one of my other relationship with this guy and at first it was good we talked about everything and one day the same thing happened and guess what he's a Sagittarius also and he was ... (read in full...)
What do I do when my boyfriend's 21 and I'm only 13?
Q. I met my boyfriend online, and had no intention of ever getting together with him. But we talked, and found we had a lot in common... and eventually it got to the point where he told me he was attracted to me; I reciprocated the feelings. ...
A. 23 December 2008: STOP TALKING TO HIM NOW BECAUSE THAT'S NOT VERY GOOD AND YOU'RE ONLY 13 YEARS OLD....YOU'RE STILL A VIRGIN RIGHT? ALL HE'LL WANT TO DO IF YOU MEET IS HAVE SEX AND IF YOU DON'T GIVE IT UP HE'LL TAKE IT BY RAPING YOU. AFTER THAT YOUR PARENTS WILL SAY ... (read in full...)
Will he get restless and leave me if we don't have sex?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. i love him alot but we havent had sex or anything. do you think its time or should we wait longer and if i do, will he get restless and decide to leave me? please answer...
A. 23 December 2008: I am a virgin myself and I have had three other boyfriends and they couldn't accept the fact that I wanted to wait so they cheated BUT they loved and wanted to wait.....and ti this day I am still a virgin an I have another boyfriend and he's waitng ... (read in full...)
How can I see if he wants to try again and should I give it time?
Q. on sunday my bf dumped me saying that he doesnt love me but we only been together 6 months so love is not important at this stage in the relationship. he had a few problems before with his nan having a stroke and his brother breaking up with his ...
A. 23 December 2008: By leaving the situation alone for some time. He still care for you and by you giving him time and space to think about what he really want, he'll realize what he lost and will want it back! I understand that you care too, but time apart is time ... (read in full...)
How can I know if he likes me?? How can I tell him I've already haad sex??
Q. Hiya. Im 15 yrs old and Ive got a good friend whos a year older than me. We've been talking a lot to each lately and hanging around with each other and I think Im starting to really like him but I dont know if he likes me and what I should do to ...
A. 23 December 2008: First ask him how would he feel about having a girlfriend that is a virgin and not one, then if he ask's you then you tell him about it, but I'd tell him if he ask and if he don't well don't bring it up until he does. AND HE IF SAY WHY YOU DIDN'T ... (read in full...)
What should my friend do in case she wants revenge?
Q. heyx my best mate lost her virginity to a boy about half a year ago. She barely knew him but after they started goin out with eachother. A few days ago though he cheated on her, having sex with anouther girl. He didnt even tell er, she had to find ...
A. 23 December 2008: Well you are a very smart and loving/caring friend because I would've said the same thing to her. Revenge hurt him like he hurt her but don't have sex with him because guys are quick to call girls whores for sleeping with some else and cheating when ... (read in full...)
How can you explain that I have feelings for a female friend, being that I am a gay male?
Q. I am a gay male, but recently I have noticed that I kind of have feelings for one of my best friends who is a female. I'm not sure how true these feelings are, or if this is something that happens to some (gay) men who are very emotionally close ...
A. 23 December 2008: Just as females are bisexuals men can be also. Maybe you do like her (personality etc.) but by you being a gay male doesn't mean you can't have feelings for woman. I have a gay female friend and she have just as many boyfriends as she does ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my dad I'm dating? He won't let me out...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i love him alot and i know he loves me too. the problem is that my dad doesnt know about us. i wasnt allowed to date until i turned 16 and i already did so im allowed to have one by his set of rules. ...
A. 23 December 2008: My dad wasn't like that but my mom was about boys....going out with friends....everything. I would say let the boyfriend tell your dad and no matter what you're dad says he can't stop your heart from loving him and he'll just have to respect that. ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to open his heart and really love me?
Q. I have been with this guy for 3 months it is like we have known each other in a past life. He told me he loves me but how do I know he means it from his heart? He was with this person for 9 years, she passed away about 9 months ago.. before me there ...
A. 23 December 2008: Talk it out with him and get him to get out any bottled up feelings towards the "dying lady" and the other woman. That's about it get him to express himself and too it's been 3 months and maybe he has a guard up for the things he did to other women. ... (read in full...)
Going out with my step cousin...
Q. I am 14 and I am currently going out with my step cousin who is 15. We have known each other all my life. But about a week and a half ago I was at her house and we ended up holding hands. So on the 17th I asked her out, she said yes but the same ...
A. 23 December 2008: Well where I'm from in Louisiana that's nasty because you two are family, BUT it depends on how you two or your parents look at it. By you fingering her is sexual contact and with that you should've waited because it's possible that your family ... (read in full...)
Is boob play and hand jobs considered cheating?
Q. hi my best guy friend and I have been fooling around, for example he will feel my boobs and i am going to give him a hand job it is just fun between the two of us my questions are 1) how much do you think i mean to him? 2) is he cheating...
A. 18 December 2008: Well question # 1 you can see that for yourself by the way he talks to you and things like that. You can also ask him how he feel about you and he should answer that question for you. Question #2 yes he really is because that's sexual contact with ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm failing because my boyfriend hasn't ejaculated once since being with me!
Q. Hi all i was just wondering what to do? i have a problem during sex i tend to orgasm too quickly where as my boyfriend doesnt Ejaculate at all. ive never made him cum since being with him and i feel like a failure. I think im too quick for him an...
A. 18 December 2008: Don't feel bad once you cum do some other sexual activity that will make him cum. If you can't hold on stop working as hard and you all just take turns (if you know what I mean) and just switch up every once and a while. Don't worry just use another ... (read in full...)
I like him and I don't think he likes me... please help!
Q. Hey peoplee :) Wht is is i really like this boy and he knows i like him but i feel he doesnt like me he says he does but i dont know to belive him or not!. i feel like im really pushing him into liking me coz i always comment on how hes looking ...
A. 18 December 2008: Well jjust tell him and don't pressure him after you tell act like you don't like him anymore...no more comments just a hello and goodbye...make him think that you're over him and then he'll want you and will never let you go. Just talk to him ... (read in full...)
My sister ruins my life!!
Q. my sister ruins my life, she always takes my things and steals things off of other people and i suffer for it at school and at home. All my friends say just ignore her and it will get better but they don't understand I have to live with it ...
A. 18 December 2008: Look I am the younger sister in this case, but I would never put my hands on my sister because she would knock the hell out of me. Show your sister that you're the older sister and you're not taking any bullsh** from her (like my sister did me). The ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm depressed because I'm sick or its my boyfriend
Q. hi, so i have a boyfriend. i am 15. he is 16. i really feel like i'm in love with him.. we've been through so much together and we lost our virginity to each other in the summer. i have anxiety/stress issues that i take medicine for. and i'm kinda ...
A. 17 December 2008: Okay I'm 17 and I had that same problem, but don't worry yourself about things like that because if he really and truely love you and you broke up with him maybe he's being protective over his heart it just depends on how long it has been since you ... (read in full...)
Since I had the baby he doesn't want sex
Q. I am starting to get worried about the emotional/ sexual relationship between my boyfriend and i. We just had a baby boy and i was sure that our sex life would change, that something would happen! but there is still no sex what so ever... i am ...
A. 17 December 2008: Maybe he is still happy and a little surprised about the baby, because normally it be the woman instead of the man. Don't worry have a sit-down with your baby's father and talk about it and see what happens after that & be sure to pray for the ... (read in full...)
I wanna break up with him but don't know how
Q. well i have this problem with my boyfriend! he is very shy and i kinda made him jealous! it was not that i wanted to it was just that my friend asked me out to the movies and i said no because my bf was there! i want to break up with him but i dont ...
A. 17 December 2008: In this case you have to explain to him what's going on in your head about him and this situation, if he really loves you he'll understand. The movies situation he can't get mad because that was you're friend and that's what friends do whether ... (read in full...)
Terrified of losing my virginity!
Q. Hello, I am a 13 year old girl and I'm terrified of losing my virginity. I know that losing your virginity is a big thing, and that it should all be out of love, but after reading something that can happen during it (pain, bleeding, etc) I realized ...
A. 17 December 2008: There's nothing wrong with you because I am a virgin also & me and my present boyfriend is experimenting, but nothing to big...(he gives oral & he massages the clit). That's about it but I am terrified of losing my virginity because of the pain, ... (read in full...)
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