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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys Well let me tell you about my situation. I am 21 years old and I met my first love when I was 18. Everything was great. He was my first everything. We were together for about a year and then he started to act funny wasn't coming around much not even calling stuff like that. Well eventually we had a huge falling out and we stopped talking for about 6 months. The first three months were really hard for me. I cried myself to sleep every night. But I eventually got over it. But right when I got over it he came back in my life. It was only a matter of time before we stopped talking again. But this time i was prepared for it. So we stopped talkin for about 5/6 months again. And then I find out that he has a gf now. SO when he wanted to start back talking to me i was a little hesitant but i did it only as friends though. But sincee the year has started we have been spending alot of time together and its just like old time. Even though he knows that I know that he has a gf he still denies her. But the thing is...I'm not tryna be with him its just something to do. Yea I'm sure he has feelings for me but as of right now we are just using each other. But the thing that I'm struggling with is that I do believe that we will end up back together. We always seem to come back to each other. I'm a stupid individual and I feel terrible but I just dont know what to do about this situation. Reply to this Question
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reader, ShanL +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Well dont put yourself in a situation that if (he) was your boyfriend and doing it to you, all that matters is you know he has a girlfriend, you shouldn't really care whether or not he denies/claims her because every lady knows a guy would say/do whatever to get you or get you back. I would stop this little using game because in the end someone (you/him) is going to get hurt and I know you said he hurt you once before and he don't deserve you because of that.
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