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Is he playing hard to get? Does he want me to ask him out?

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Question - (23 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ever in love writes:

He liked me a lot for more than 1 year, it was extremely obvious, but when he showed his true feelings i strongly rejected him in different ways, 'cause i was kinda shy.. but he never insulted me and he's the type who would do it. now he knows for sure that i like him. a few weeks ago he said hi to me, called my name in different funny ways and smiled. 3 days ago, when he saw me, he became hyper and hugged one of his classmate girls in front of me and totally ignored me. the next day, he greeted my bf (he didn't say a word to her from 6 months) and he ignored me. yesterday, i accidentally dropped my pen in front of him, one of my weird classmates was laughing like crazy.he got closer to me, hit the earth and i think he wanted to kneel down to pick it up, but i already picked it. he also whispered something. he completely ignores me and it's not the 1st time. why? he smiled a lot, talked to me, hugged me sometimes, said funny things and that doesn't happen now. how can i bring him back and make him do all of these again? he wanted us to be together. but i think he is afraid to ask me out. will he ever ask me out? what should i do? plz help! i doubt he likes someone else, what do you think?

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A female reader, PunkyPippi United States +, writes (23 January 2009):

PunkyPippi agony auntI think he's afraid and he's trying to make you jealous.

You should ask him out because you rejected him in the first place, and now he's not sure what to do with you.

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A female reader, ShanL United States +, writes (23 January 2009):

ShanL agony auntgo to him and ask him about do he still care for you @ all as a friend...g/f. then maybe ask him out on a date to let him know that you care and don't be a "tag-along" just be a friend and if he still wants to be in your life the emotions and feelings will come and the offer (about being gf & bf) will come again. but please don't come on strong, well too strong.

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