Just newly married, and not sure what to think of my husband's female friend! And advice?
Q. Hello.. I am 27 years old, I have a month and a week married, so basically new wed. I have a couple of problems that I would like to share and I would love for someone to tell me another view of my situation. My husband has a female friend at w...
A. 15 January 2010: I would get the phone before he does and say hey don't you have a guy you can talk to instead of another woman's husband??? What do you want from him sex? Sorry I'm his wife and not you. So please stop the calls. If she goes to him and boohoos about ... (read in full...)
He's into Tranny porn, and talking to him doesn't work as he has a bad temper! Help!
Q. Last week i found my live-in boyfriends stash of Transexual porn. These "girls" are not of the pretty or feminine variety. He begs for Anal sex which I tried and hated because its soooo sore and he doesn't slow down when i ask him to (pain). A...
A. 15 January 2010: Sounds like he is gay and not wanting or willing to come out of the closet. If he is a violent person and you don't want to get hurt or anything run! Find someone new. He is already hurting you sexually and emotionally and he can and may will go ... (read in full...)
I was willing to have sex with no strings but my friend turned me down
Q. Hi I was wondering what may be going through this guy's head? We met a few months ago and before New Year's he came over to my friend's house one night and was being very flirty with me, and kissed me a few times and we cuddled up on the couch ...
A. 15 January 2010: What you said to him made you out to be a whore... What you can do to make everything better is that you tell him what you are feeling for him and then go from there, and tell him sorry for sounds so whore-ish with him and sex. He is really wanting ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want sex, and I have run out of ideas
Q. If your husband does not want to have sex with you for more than a year, will you divorce him or ?or stay with him , for the rest of your life? I really don't know what to do...I tried almost everything medical ,no problems, sex therapy ,spice u...
A. 15 January 2010: Try going around the place naked. Talk to him to see what is going on in his brain, and talk to him while being naked. So in thus be naked and talk! I hope this helps you out!... (read in full...)
Will girls care that I am still a virgin
Q. I'm 22 and I'm still a virgin. I almost had sex a few years ago (had foreplay) but wasn't able to get an erection. I'm in some sort of bad cycle in that everyone has probably had sex since most of my friends are in relatonships and I probably...
A. 15 January 2010: No, don't worry about it you'll be fine. Just wait for the right girl. I married a guy that had no sex at all and I couldn't be happier!... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 15 January 2010: With all that was said to you, you really need to take off the "rose colored glasses" to really see the world what it is like. Your 14 and having yet seen or even been in the world. What you need is a cuddling from dear ol' mom. Long with spoi... (read in full...)
I feel unwell after sex, it bolsters his ego but bothers me!
Q. After I have sex with my boyfriend, especially if I have orgasmed, I occasionally feel very faint, disorientated and weak; the other night I had to walk home after sleeping with him but my legs felt so shakey I could barely walk and I just felt as ...
A. 15 January 2010: Normal! I feel that way too after cumming. I feel like I want to roll over and go to sleep. Your boyfriend is like that cuz he just made you feel so good that you cum and he did it to you. Just look at him and smile and say honey that felt so ... (read in full...)
When ever I go without sex I get angry and break stuff
Q. Im sexually frustrated. When i dont have sex for long periods of time, i become very angry and rude. For example, one time i broke my kitchen window n my dishes cuz i didnt get laid. Its been a week since i had sex. My bf hasnt been over. He knows ...
A. 15 January 2010: Meant girl number one and girl number too thus your fingers! Finger yourself, or get a hand-held shower head and use it to get your sweet spot, or get a vibrator, whatever just get your self to cum and few or how ever many time you can stand and if ... (read in full...)
I am acting like a jerk because I want her to break up with me
Q. I think I need serious help. I haven't been happy one day in the past 3-4 months after I left my ex. I'm starting to get worried, i'm constantly thinking about her, and I'm always missing her. I'm with a girl I dont even like, I have lately stopped ...
A. 15 January 2010: I would stop seeing your friend and everything that does with him, meaning your ex too. With the new lady you gotta be more up front with her cuz I bet ya dimes to dollars she is in her room or whatever crying her little eyes out cuz she thinks she ... (read in full...)
Virgin always horny around male friends
Q. well, i'm a virin, and i'm almost always horny around my guy friends. several of them even want to have it with me. and we even get pretty into it sometimes. but i'm too scared and nervous to have sex. for one; i don't know if they like the way i am ...
A. 8 January 2010: Be a kid like what you are don't go start having sex at least before you are out of high school. You do NOT want to chance even having a kid in school. BC and condoms don't always have a 100% on having no babies. I don't think you want to have that ... (read in full...)
How EXACTLY should you kiss?
Q. How do people kiss with their mouth closed? like, everything besides french kissing. are both lips supposed to be touching? should your lips interlock (like only kissing one of the lips)? basically, anything more than a peck but less than french ...
A. 8 January 2010: http://www.links2love.com/kissing_teens_perfect_kiss.htm
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My partner is verbally abusive and my daughters are disrespectful! Am I being too soft?
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles, I've posted here before and found the advice really helpful. I'm in a distressing stressful family situation. My partner of 6 years is verbally abusive and my two daughters (19 and 22) constantly disregard my rules. My ...
A. 8 January 2010: Ma'am, what you need to do is STOP holding your daughters hands they are not 5 and 8 years old anymore. They are disrespectful to you cuz you are with them by treating them like children. Grow up, they have new rules that they have to follow now, it ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to like him when he has a girlfriend and a baby?
Q. I work at a grocery store with a couple of pretty good looking guys. There are 2 in particular that im really interested in. The most prominent guy is Brian. He's 24 and he has a girlfriend named Amber. Amber just had a baby about a week ago by ...
A. 22 December 2009: Girl, you are in way over your head. Stop and think on what you are doing... I'm sorry to say that you are acting very selfish and high school-ish. If he is doing it too, then he is the same way so what do I care, you can get into trouble and sh-t ... (read in full...)
Is my dad showing sexual interest in me?
Q. Right, well....I've asked a few questions on dear cupid already...and I'm beginning to realise that I haven't mentioned everything that I need to...infact, there is a big thing that I haven't mentioned in my other questions which I need to ask help ...
A. 22 December 2009: That is totally wrong. First off fathers do NOT touch their young ladies like that. Example, my father/daddy pats me on the back, and when it comes to showing love it's always a big ol' bear hug that his arms and hands stay on my back or my arms. My ... (read in full...)
How do I convince her that I am the best option for her? I cant stand to see her get back with her abusive ex!
Q. I have a pretty big problem. Im in love with the most beautiful, smart, funny, amazingly fun to be around girl in the world. My friends loved her, she loved my friends, our parents are friends, they adore me and my parents adore her. When we first ...
A. 21 December 2009: Get a hold of a lawyer and get a hold of the cops and have her sit down with a therapist and put her first no matter what. He has her believing that there is no one better than him and she is damn lucky to have him (witch is not true). He has her ... (read in full...)
Help with verbal domination in bed! What should I say?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I are very adventurous in the bedroom department and love trying out new ways to pleasure each other. We've recently gotten in to doing some very light kinky stuff (not too kinky though just some light domination and s...
A. 21 December 2009: Just improvise!... (read in full...)
Our bickering and insulting have become ingrained habits!
Q. Lately, I just can't stop fighting with my boyfriend! We've been together just over a year, and we used to get along so well. But for the past few months, we've both been under alot of stress, and take it out on each other. I feel like everything I ...
A. 21 December 2009: Say okay honey, we've been doing this fighting for some time now and it's starting to hurt me. I love you and I hope you feel the same with me. Please talk to me and stop the bickering. Something like that. When he starts to interpret you, just wait ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want some privacy to masterbate?
Q. I'm 14 years old and in the ninth grade, and like most guys my age I masturbate what I guess would be pretty frequently (at least one time a day if not more). I'd rather not do it in the bathroom, I'm just more comfortable in my bedroom, but my mom ...
A. 21 December 2009: Just tell your dad and have your mom there too so she can get some type of "clue" of what the hell is going on here. If she don't want to listen to you and your dad, then move in with your dad and get the male stuff and guy needs to be a guy ... (read in full...)
Will I ever have the kind of passionate relationship I had with my ex?
Q. I am a bit confused about these feelings I am having about my ex. He broke up with me about 8 months and he has gotten back with his ex girlfriend since we broke up. We were very attracted to each other and there was a lot of passion in the relation...
A. 21 December 2009: Why did you break up in the first place?... (read in full...)
Is it sex if you...?
Q. is it sex if you go through the motions of sex but don't do actual sex?...
A. 21 December 2009: No.... (read in full...)
I'm married but I can't separate from my girlfriend!
Q. i loved my girl friend very much from last 6 years, but due to my family problem, i married other girl.still me and my girlfriend love each other. i also loved my wife. suddenly my girl friends mother khows our physical relationship, so they are ...
A. 21 December 2009: So your family married you off to some other girl and yet you had a girl friend already something like that? You "loved" your wife, so in other words you don't love her anymore? I'm very confused here. If that is the case, well you can go with A) ... (read in full...)
I'm a gay man, is this normal for me? does it make me weird?
Q. Well I'm an 18 year old total bottom, I'm gay and well recently I've discovered than when I'm having sex with guys (with different guys, one at a time) I don't get a boner, I don't even cum, if the guy (the top) cums I'm okay with that, it feels as ...
A. 1 November 2009: Try a girl, girls are more mean and more like a cat, so see if you will cum with that.
Why are you gay???... (read in full...)
Tired of these guys picking on me, should I stand up for myself?
Q. In school I have 2 boys that like to pick and hit with me. They think its ok because their are playing and they think im playing but im not. See im a goofy person that laughs and smile a lot and they think it ok because i don't get mad but im, tired ...
A. 1 November 2009: Simple, stand up for yourself, and you are the only one that can do that there is no magical potion that will have you do that. You need to find the strength in you, it is there. ... (read in full...)
The boys in my class all pick on people and I'm worried about being the center of attention. what should I do?
Q. I havea gym class with all boys. In this classes boys pick and talk about people. Everyday I get so nervous that I may be the center of attention or being the one talked about or picked on. I get so nervous that I start shaking and lose focus on my ...
A. 1 November 2009: Anyone that would tease someone else is not worth the energy you are putting into worry about what they think. Who cares what a couple of idiots might think about you. Just be yourself, do your best and everything will turn out ok. They tease ... (read in full...)
Our sex life seems to have gone out the window...
Q. Hello! So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 5 months now and its all been going great until the last couple of months. Our sex life seems to of kind of gone out the window. As in we hardly have sex anymore. This makes me confused...
A. 30 October 2009: This happens when you don't have any commitment to the guy like being married to him, so henceforth no strings attached. Stop worrying about the sex department and worry more on the getting to know each other. ... (read in full...)
Whats happening?
Q. Does sex make your areola darker and bigger? Cuz mine are darker and bigger......
A. 30 October 2009: I am 28, I wasn't sure cuz of the whole hormone things and stuff like that. I hope like hell I am pregnant then.... (read in full...)
Virgin... or not a virgin???
Q. I have a question regarding my virginity. I am not really sure if I am still a virgin or not. My boyfriend and I tried to have sex but he couldn't get his whole penis inside, only a bit went it and it hurt me. He slowly tried to put it more inside ...
A. 30 October 2009: Not a virgin! You did the act and there you go!
Virgin means: a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
You my dear even with a little dicky action like that, are not a virgin anymore. He didn't pop your "cherry" he had intercourse with... (read in full...)
Should I beg for a second chance, and hope its all a phase on her part?
Q. Im just here to vent. It's prolly obvious that it's over and nothing can be done. I fell in love with this girl years ago... gave her everything I had, planned my future around her, would do anything for her. I looked forward to spending the rest of ...
A. 30 October 2009: Oh dear... What you need to do is that move on, just have a TINY spot in your heart for her, just don't sit around waiting for her. I believe that the "not being ambitious" is that she MAY wanted you to pop the question to her, and now she fee... (read in full...)
Who do I chose? He divorced his wife to make me his.
Q. please help..to make this story short here it goes..i had a relationship with a married man...we parted went our seperate ways painfully he broke it off...he said that i deserved better and that if he got divorced he would come back to me because he ...
A. 30 October 2009: What you need to do is step back and look at the full picture. The guy that was married and now wanting you will in the long run hurt you and go out with someone else on the side while being married to you. Don't leave the guy that you are with try ... (read in full...)
Who do I chose? He divorced his wife to make me his.
Q. please help..to make this story short here it goes..i had a relationship with a married man...we parted went our seperate ways painfully he broke it off...he said that i deserved better and that if he got divorced he would come back to me because he ...
A. 30 October 2009: What you need to do is step back and look at the full picture. The guy that was married and now wanting you will in the long run hurt you and go out with someone else on the side while being married to you. Don't leave the guy that you are with try ... (read in full...)
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