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I feel unwell after sex, it bolsters his ego but bothers me!

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Question - (14 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

After I have sex with my boyfriend, especially if I have orgasmed, I occasionally feel very faint, disorientated and weak; the other night I had to walk home after sleeping with him but my legs felt so shakey I could barely walk and I just felt as if I would either faint or fall asleep standing up!

My boyfriend doesn't take it seriously and I think it sort of bolsters his ego a bit, but I'm starting to get a bit worried abut feeling so unwell after sex!

Does anyone know if this is normal or could it be a sign that something is wrong?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010):

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Thanks everyone :-) glad to hear that it's normal, just wasn't sure if i should be feeling that faint!

I'll make him make me a cup of tea afterwards in future, I think ;)

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A female reader, ShadowGoddess231 United States +, writes (15 January 2010):

ShadowGoddess231 agony auntNormal! I feel that way too after cumming. I feel like I want to roll over and go to sleep. Your boyfriend is like that cuz he just made you feel so good that you cum and he did it to you. Just look at him and smile and say honey that felt so wonderful I just need to rest now. I'm sure he'll like that to watch his love sleep to get back what she lost. The reason why he don't take it seriously is cuz it's NORMAL!!! I laugh when I feel weak and everything cuz my hubby just got me to cum. So no worries you'll be fine. Just rest up and go about your day! ^_^

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A female reader, confusedlady182 United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2010):

this is normal! it means you have had a good time basically. And I am a girl! do you always have to get up rightaway? I'd sit or lay down for a bit first.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2010):

I think you'll find that there are a few women who have orgasms then suddenly feel tired or disorientated, so it sounds like you're a normal girl. Perhaps you would feel better if your boyfriend actually took care of you a bit more afterwards, so maybe talk to him again and tell him you need care after to make you feel good. If you're worried at all, then it's always worth speaking to a doctor.

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