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Winking before making love?
Q. What does it mean when a man winks at you when he is just about to make love to you?...
A. 22 October 2010: I am not sure on how true this is but in some cases I has the meaning of trust again I'm not sure how true it is but I hope this helps ... (read in full...)
Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 19 October 2010: I think Lady gaga's Alejandro or monster are good songs to play or almost anything by her should work ... (read in full...)
My friend is mad at me and it's breaking my heart!
Q. I got into a fight with someone special to me over the summer. After a couple of months I finally said sorry to him. Then two days ago we talked about what happened between us. When I asked about how he felt about the fight and me he got so mad! ...
A. 25 September 2010: Ok he could be feeling be feeling like that your life and others around him could be better without him in them you just need to prove to him that this is not true and just his mind playing tricks on him and I'm sorry but it's going to be harder ... (read in full...)
I want to be more than FWB! how can I tell him?
Q. so me and this guy have been friends for about a yr. but recently this past week and a half we have decided to be fwb. this all started during the trip with some of his family and i told him we couldn't talk to each other when we got back to school ...
A. 12 September 2010: What ever the result he should know how you feel but based on your descriptions if they are that accurate there is a very slight chance that he may feel the same way but that is my view on your description I could be wrong. But yh you should tell ... (read in full...)
Guys: How beautiful would a girl have to be for you to cheat with her?
Q. They say that a guy may not purposely go out to find someone to cheat with, but that if someone latches on to THEM, they would be willing to cheat. Guys, how beautiful would a girl have to be in order to get you to cheat on your significant other ...
A. 11 September 2010: Though some guys do go looking for a women when they are in a relationship because they are unable to commit or as a result of argument with the girl they are already with but that's not the what you asked for so sometimes a guy can give from being ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hits me every time we argue
Q. Hi. So iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years this year and during the 2nd year we was together he started hitting me everytime we argued. The thing is...He said i go on and on and thats what makes him hit me. And he carried on until i cry or u...
A. 11 September 2010: I'm sorry but there is never an excuse for a guy hitting there girlfriend you are best of leaving him before this gets worse as you said he carries on until you cry or are hurt what if he goes on until your in hospital, you said that he said it's ... (read in full...)
I can't give my husband a baby! Shoud I tell him to leave me for someone who can?
Q. I'm not sure whether or not this is allowed to go on here, but this is my story. I have been married for five months to the guy of my dreams, we met at Uni and had been going out for six years before our wedding in April. All our friends think we...
A. 10 September 2010: I think you should tell him as he should know but as you know he won't leave because he loves you for you so don't tell him to leave you and don't even hold on to this an option you should just talk to him about it and possibly when your both ready ... (read in full...)
Spent a wonderful day with my BF, got emotional, missing him when I got home and parents have completely misunderstood!
Q. Hey everyone; I had a quick question for you all and I'm hoping you can help me and reassure me. This weekend was a blast. On Saturday I got to spend time with my boyfriend at nighttime. Being that it is Labor Day our family decided to go to the ...
A. 8 September 2010: You should tell your boyfriend if you havnt already maybe he could provide new insight on the situation or if you have told him maybe you could stay at his or a friends or just keep away from your parents until this whole thing dies down or until ... (read in full...)
Spent a wonderful day with my BF, got emotional, missing him when I got home and parents have completely misunderstood!
Q. Hey everyone; I had a quick question for you all and I'm hoping you can help me and reassure me. This weekend was a blast. On Saturday I got to spend time with my boyfriend at nighttime. Being that it is Labor Day our family decided to go to the ...
A. 7 September 2010: Your welcome :)... (read in full...)
Spent a wonderful day with my BF, got emotional, missing him when I got home and parents have completely misunderstood!
Q. Hey everyone; I had a quick question for you all and I'm hoping you can help me and reassure me. This weekend was a blast. On Saturday I got to spend time with my boyfriend at nighttime. Being that it is Labor Day our family decided to go to the ...
A. 7 September 2010: Yh of course what your feeling is normal and how you expressed it don't let anyone say otherwise they just never felt it the way you did What you and your boyfriend have sounds amazing. You shouldn't listen to your mother and father you are ... (read in full...)
Is it weird to ask him if he's interested in me???
Q. Is it weird to ask him if he's interested in me? I met this guy - we like a lot of the same things, both play guitar, both have a weird love for zombies, play video games, movies, are nerdy etc.. We met from online and before meeting he told ...
A. 6 September 2010: It's not wierd to ask him if he likes you but if you do ask him he could feel caught out I know because a girl I like asked me we are not too far away from you two kind of similar, but just be carefull if you do ask him because it is a long shot in ... (read in full...)
Will she take me for all I have ???
Q. Heyy ok a few weeks ago a girl I liked asked me for money not alot about £20 now my best mate and one of her friends think that she will keep on asking for more until I cannot give anymore. I am slightly more in the money than she is but firmly ...
A. 5 September 2010: Heyy again my best mate keeps saying I should still talk whether I trust or not and it's doing my head, sorry but can I ask for some opinions again please... (read in full...)
I'm scared of the man who molested me. Am I being stupid?
Q. is it stupid to be scared of the man who sexually molested you for years and stopped a few months ago? hes my moms bf and im really scared whenever im around him, i just cant help it but i also feel that im being stupid that im scared.....
A. 4 September 2010: Sorry at the end I mean it's NOT stupid I forgot the word sorry so sorry... (read in full...)
My best friend told me he loved me...
Q. My best friend, (he's a guy, I'm a girl) have been close for years.Recently, he told me that he is in love with me. We tried the whole dating thing a few years back and we kissed. I had to break it off with him though because it started getting ...
A. 4 September 2010: The only way to set him down is to tell him that you see him as a brother Though this will or may still make him feel a bit down but he will understand and you should tell him soon as rather than make him wait if your mind is already made up but ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of the man who molested me. Am I being stupid?
Q. is it stupid to be scared of the man who sexually molested you for years and stopped a few months ago? hes my moms bf and im really scared whenever im around him, i just cant help it but i also feel that im being stupid that im scared.....
A. 4 September 2010: Your not stupid it's perfectly reasonable for you to feel this way And of course your gonna be scared or atleast worried when your with him but surely you should tell your mother if you havnt already, what he's done if she's so close to him. If you ... (read in full...)
Will she take me for all I have ???
Q. Heyy ok a few weeks ago a girl I liked asked me for money not alot about £20 now my best mate and one of her friends think that she will keep on asking for more until I cannot give anymore. I am slightly more in the money than she is but firmly ...
A. 3 September 2010: Ok will do thanks guys ... (read in full...)
Will she take me for all I have ???
Q. Heyy ok a few weeks ago a girl I liked asked me for money not alot about £20 now my best mate and one of her friends think that she will keep on asking for more until I cannot give anymore. I am slightly more in the money than she is but firmly ...
A. 2 September 2010: Sorry I sound like I'm losing it sorry, I think the world of this girl and now people are saying this about her I can't take it and I don't like it is all ... (read in full...)
Will she take me for all I have ???
Q. Heyy ok a few weeks ago a girl I liked asked me for money not alot about £20 now my best mate and one of her friends think that she will keep on asking for more until I cannot give anymore. I am slightly more in the money than she is but firmly ...
A. 2 September 2010: But I do trust her the thing is it just feels like the more people I tell the more I think I'll keep getting the same thing as what my mates are saying. What should I do should I put there opinions behind me and stay true to her or do I stay ... (read in full...)
Will she take me for all I have ???
Q. Heyy ok a few weeks ago a girl I liked asked me for money not alot about £20 now my best mate and one of her friends think that she will keep on asking for more until I cannot give anymore. I am slightly more in the money than she is but firmly ...
A. 2 September 2010: Should I talk to her about what my friends are saying even though i do believe that she wouldn't because she considers me a friend and she's too much of a friend to me for me to think these things should I talk to her about it ???... (read in full...)
When should I start dating again?
Q. i have just broke up with my boyfriend, of 2 years... i know we will never get back together but what i dont know is when do i start dating again? my friends say i should go out an enjoy myself and kiss other boys but i dont know if i should! wil...
A. 2 September 2010: By my reckoning it should be between 5 days to 1 working week until you start dating again ... (read in full...)
We both keep looking at each other, but who makes the next move?
Q. I kinda like this guy, Or I liked him last school year (we are both 15) But hes in a higher grade than me. So This year ( and last..) I see him looking at me.. if its from a rather close distance I look at him and he quickly turns his head down or ...
A. 2 September 2010: There's no real way to get over shyness in the long term but in the short you could listen to a certain type of music or a specific song that gives you what you need, it's what I do, sumtimes it works. But with you're shyness you will see how brave ... (read in full...)
I didnt fight back when he had sex with me because my daughter was watching, and I had sent nude pics to him before. Was this still rape?
Q. I was raped by my boyfriend's best friend in front of my three year old daughter. And another friend in the car. Ive been to the police. Im having a hard time dealing with it he claims i wanted. And it wasnt forced, i went to the store to buy them a ...
A. 1 September 2010: What ever happens you are a very brave women for standing up to them and you have my respect and I'm very sorry to hear about the charges being dropped ... (read in full...)
Be kicked out or have a happy girlfriend?
Q. Hi, i met my gf when I was 19 n she was 16, for the first year I wasn't aloud in the upstairs part of her house let alone in her room and i wasn't aloud to stay past midnight.. When we had been going out for a year her mum let me go upstairs but i ...
A. 31 August 2010: Ok here's what you do you two want to be together but can't afford a place of your own and cannot stay at your parents so what you do and this will sound very bold during this time your girlfriend needs you and to show her that she is not unloved ... (read in full...)
We both keep looking at each other, but who makes the next move?
Q. I kinda like this guy, Or I liked him last school year (we are both 15) But hes in a higher grade than me. So This year ( and last..) I see him looking at me.. if its from a rather close distance I look at him and he quickly turns his head down or ...
A. 30 August 2010: Ok it's obvious he's Into you but has no idea how to go about it he's clueless so to speak what you could do next time you see him go talk to him he definitely wants to talk to you but again has no idea what to do. So you could start the ... (read in full...)
Dancing dilemma!!!
Q. hey people!!! Ok so i asked my boyfriend to my school dance, i am excited but also nervous becuase i suck at dancing, I really dont want to embarrass myself... what should i do???? :(...
A. 28 August 2010: Ok there's nothin to it really you just have to remember the more you move your arms the stupider you look. What you could do is just look around the room and sort of copy how another girl is dancing. There's really nothing to worry about, things ... (read in full...)
Long-distance and her mother hates me. Suggestions on how we can stay in touch?
Q. Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk ...
A. 27 August 2010: Ok I'm sorry this took a while but this deserves an answer look you two love eachother and you shouldn't have to be hiding from her mother if she cannot be reasoned with then show her meet up with your girl friend or why don't you let her stay at ... (read in full...)
Help, should I call the cops? I think I'm being stalked.
Q. Okay so one day these boys Rode past my house while I was practicing dance with my little sister in my yard They rode up to us and where like I can do that dance, And i was like, Show me! (I'm friendly, And Ballet is my LIFE) So then they ca...
A. 26 August 2010: I think you should tell your family and as your worried about yours and and sisters safety make sure whenever you leave the house you are with friends or just someone who can make nothin will happen to you or your sister. I think you should call the ... (read in full...)
I get turned on by girls breasts in porn does this make me bi?
Q. I was just wonderng, could i be bisexual? I have never had a relationship with a girl, but never a long one with a guy either, and feel most of the time more attracted to guys than girls. But when i watch porn i get really turned on by both the guy ...
A. 26 August 2010: This does not make you bi this makes you maybe bi'curious as you say guys turn you on but at the same time girls it aswell. I can't say what you should do as I am not sure but you could try Watching same sex porn to see what gender turns you on more ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I made the right decision!
Q. My boyfriend and I have have been together for nearly a year, the other night something happen that scared me. We were lying in bed and I accidentally hit him in his, er, area, it was a complete accident and I apologized straight away, but he turned ...
A. 26 August 2010: Ok with you hitting him accidentally and him hitting you in the ribs I think that what he did may had been just a reflex after being hit in such a sensitive area. You were in shock that he hit you but he may have been in shock aswell considering you ... (read in full...)
I want to kiss my bestfriend!!
Q. My best (girl) friend and I are extremely close. We talk about everything. I absolutely love her in a best friend way...but the problem is that I think she loves me in a different way. When we hug she pushes her boobs up against me and I can feel ...
A. 25 August 2010: I think that you should talk to her about if u want to be straight but if you are not In a relationship of any kind with anyone else then i guess it wouldn't hurt anyone if you did respond to her and maybe experiment if you want to.
I hope this can ... (read in full...)
I'm grossed out over a guy I kissed before summer!
Q. Ok, so here's the deal...I have a boyfriend right? we dated for like 2 weeks then school ended and it was summer. before summer began we went to a party together and ended having our first kiss. During these two months of summer i've been missing ...
A. 24 August 2010: I believe that those mushy feelings you have are signs of sumthing deeper. I think you should probably talk to your boyfriend about it because what you and him has is special and shouldn't be ignored, I ignored love once and I kinda regret still ... (read in full...)
Please help I want to be with her
Q. Ok there is a girl that I really really like I've only known her for 6 months but it feels like I've known her for years I have told her that I like her but she never tells me how she feels towards me this has me unsettled I don't think it's for me ...
A. 22 August 2010: Thanks guys I will read all of these and consider all options ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get over retroactive jealousy?
Q. hello. im 20 yrs old and so is my girlfriend, we have been together for ages, its been like 2 years, we are pretty fine together . she is so understanding and loving and everything . she lost her virginity with me , i just love her so much, bu...
A. 21 August 2010: I believe one way of gettin over such things like this is to do for yourself like the choclate body paint maybe you could ask her about it to see if you could do it because you seem to have stuck in your head with others doing it so maybe if do it ... (read in full...)
How to tell my boyfriend I'm a lesbian?
Q. hello i need help, i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time now i reguarly see him and kiss and stuff and our parents and everyone are ok with that. we were talking once about safe sex and stuff so a few weeks later we gave ...
A. 21 August 2010: I would suggest that u could possibly wait for your relationship with you're boyfriend to run it's natural course or if you think that may take too long then you could break up with him and say you want or need different things or that it's not ... (read in full...)
Lonely in LDR. Should I stay in it?
Q. I've been in an LDR for a year and a half and am very lonely right now. I don't really know what I should do. I have a nice job, has benefits, etc., but have thought about moving to England to find work and be closer to him. I love him with all my ...
A. 21 August 2010: I suggest that if you are really considering moving to England to be with him why dnt you take a break from your job and visit him and see if living in England is for you and while youre there you could check all the possible choices you have if you ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to see he's not Mr. Perfect? I get bad vibes.
Q. SO, My best friend has a new boyfriend, I don't know him too well and... neither does she. They knew eachother for a day then decided they like eachother. I don't like this guy. He has been known to hurt girls in the past and be a total jerk, he's a ...
A. 21 August 2010: I suggest u dnt tell her the whole story otherwise she might think your jealous so I think u should look out for her rather than trying to convince her what he is really like because she may notice herself sooner or later hopefully if she does that ... (read in full...)
When is a guy interested in you, and when is he just being friendly?
Q. How do you know when a guy likes you and is interested in you, and when he is just being friendly and nothing more? And when can you assume that the guy is interested and tell him straight away that you aren't interested in him that way without...
A. 21 August 2010: I have a few suggestions on a what you could do the first is you could be on the look out for any hints that he may be treating you a little better than the others by that I mean if you him and some friends were in a bar or a cafe and he asked you ... (read in full...)
Why did he hug me so long?
Q. Me and my boyfriend went on our first date yesterday. at the end, he hugged me for ages, i mean like really ages. afterwards, i suddenly became shy, he was going to kiss me, but i turned my head away. i havent heard from him since. what i really ...
A. 21 August 2010: I believe he hugged you for so long is because he really likes and wanted to show you that. I think you became shy is because you didn't really expect a hug which lasted for as long as you described. I think you should probably talk to him about ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I have much of a future!
Q. Im only 13, but I dont see much of a future for myself. I have never had any "real" friends [ ones that I can really talk to about serious things ]. I dont hang out or talk to anyone at all. At school most people talk about me behind my back saying ...
A. 21 August 2010: Never say you're life is over while you are so young you have everything goin for you believe me when I was at school I never had people that I could really talk to. What you should do is find what interests you and what you would like to do as a ... (read in full...)
Is this the real reason he wants to leave me or is this just an excuse?
Q. I really need your help. I casually found this very interesting and helpful site please please please can you offer me some advice about my relationship? I am in a relationship for 5 years and I have problems these last months.He was very quiet fo...
A. 21 August 2010: Ok I believe what u should do is call him and ask to meet him sumwhere he will feel relaxed he clearly needs to talk about sumthin that's bothering him. He probably knows he should but just can't bring himself to say it and he may need help to do so ... (read in full...)
Please help I want to be with her
Q. Ok there is a girl that I really really like I've only known her for 6 months but it feels like I've known her for years I have told her that I like her but she never tells me how she feels towards me this has me unsettled I don't think it's for me ...
A. 18 August 2010: to reply to diamond girl
I told her that I really really like her and she said thanks but I kno how she says thanks so when I got the text she seemed flattered In a away. It wasn't news for her when I said she already knew none of my friends had ... (read in full...)
Please help I want to be with her
Q. Ok there is a girl that I really really like I've only known her for 6 months but it feels like I've known her for years I have told her that I like her but she never tells me how she feels towards me this has me unsettled I don't think it's for me ...
A. 18 August 2010: To reply to Be simply true
sorry for not sayin earlier me and her r not dating but we hang out alot and we enjoy each others company and txt alot regrettably that's how I told her that I hav feelings for her I know it was stupid especially when... (read in full...)
Please help I want to be with her
Q. Ok there is a girl that I really really like I've only known her for 6 months but it feels like I've known her for years I have told her that I like her but she never tells me how she feels towards me this has me unsettled I don't think it's for me ...
A. 18 August 2010: To respond to be simply true
she considers me a friend stupidly and I kno this I told her how I feel about by text about 3 hours after seeing her I told her that way as I have fears from my past regarding sumthin similar I kno I must tell her in p... (read in full...)
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