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writes:Okay so one day these boys Rode past my house whileI was practicing dance with my little sister in my yardThey rode up to us and where like I can do that dance, And i was like, Show me! (I'm friendly, And Ballet is my LIFE)So then they came over to my yard and they were like"I really cant do it"And i was like, Oh, I'll see you later thenAnd then they left.. But that day, Right before they left one of them kinda sorta lifted up his shirt a little And i noticed he had a Gun and knife on him.I just walked away with my sister. We went in the house.Then today i went on a walk with my sisters and brotherAnd we saw the same guy, And while he was riding his bike pass us he said "How yall doin"Really friendly. And me, I didn't want to be rude so i said "Hey"And kept moving. Then when we were almost home, He rode up with his friends and he said "My friend likes you, He can dance too" And i was like "That's nice" and i kept movingTHEN They were like "dance right now Ill do it too"But since i know they're ignorant, I was like "I don't dance for boys, sorry. I have to much respect for myself," And they were like "What, are you to classy?" And i was like "yeah.."Then they got all Pissy And started trying to talk to my little sister.. shes 13.i was like "Leave her alone shes my little sister.."And they were like "so.."THEN I said "I'm going in the house"And they said "You can.."Basically..I feel like i brought it on myself though.What should i do next time this happens?Call the cops? They have guns. I'm afraid.They Could catch me alone, or my sisters and try and rape us. They're really ignorant. They seem likeall they want is sex or something.Should i call the cops? What should i doI didnt tell any of my family yet.I'm afraid, They followed me home, And when i rejected them they where like "What kind of girls are yall?"I'm really scared. Reply to this Question
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reader, RIKI93dw  +, writes (26 August 2010):
I think you should tell your family and as your worried about yours and and sisters safety make sure whenever you leave the house you are with friends or just someone who can make nothin will happen to you or your sister. I think you should call the police though some others aunts said it won't work as they havnt done anything wrong but that's not true as you said they are carrying weapons and that is illegal and especially when the police are trying to cut down on behaviour like this so you have nothin to worry about if you or family do call the police. Maybe you should call the police because imagine you and your sister cannot be the only girls they are bothering in this way, you could be doing the whole neibourghood a favour.
I hope this can help you
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 I was really worried about what might happen. It must be frightening for you. I did a little searching and found these tips that might help you with these guys should things get worse.
http://www.ehow.com/how_18084_deal-with-stalker.html
Good luck
I hope that helps.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (26 August 2010):
 thats no good, well lesson learned...next time refrain from being too friendly with random strangers. I'm the same way though, on the city bus I was too chit chatty with a guy and before I knew it it was creepville USA.
however for your situation, I'd tell your parents first. They will give you the best advice and I'm sure they would like to know whats going on. If you have a cell phone you could resort to calling the cops if something happens again with the guys, if they threaten you in any way.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (26 August 2010):
Tell your family immediately! You can't call the cops because they cops will see it as if they hadn't really done anything but from the way you described them I can tell that they might prove trouble. Try and spend less time dancing on your front lawn :).
The important thing is that everyone knows these guys are starting to creep you out so that if (god forbid) something should happen, they'll know who to look for.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): Ignore them next time you see them don't say 'hey' or acknowledge their presence
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