Pregnant in the Desert?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a military member currently deployed somewhere in the desert, I am single so I was told before coming out here to be careful because everyone cheats on their spouse out here and that it is just apart of the culture for peop...
A. 26 April 2010: The rumours are a nasty form of bullying. You could be the niscest person on earth and still someone will find something to gossip about you. Don't take it to heart your stressed and feeling really low at this time due to hearing the truth about ... (read in full...)
Is there a family connection?
Q. hey this is confusing but here goes,my bfs cousin is my mothers uncles son...so what does that make my bf? im not really good on family relations ...
A. 24 April 2010: Your bf could be of no relation to your mum at all. Maybe one of your bf parents married one of the cousins MUM family member. Which means they are not related to each other through your mums family. If the bfs parent married one of your mums ... (read in full...)
Is there a family connection?
Q. hey this is confusing but here goes,my bfs cousin is my mothers uncles son...so what does that make my bf? im not really good on family relations ...
A. 24 April 2010: Your bf could be of no relation to your mum at all. Maybe one of your bf parents married one of the cousins MUM family member. Which means they are not related to each other through your mums family. If the bfs parent married one of your mums ... (read in full...)
Eye Color Genetics
Q. Hi I have a question concerning genetics. So I have green eyes and brown curly hair and my boyfriend has brown eyes and black curly hair. Also, I am white and he is puerto rican. We have one child with brown eyes and brown curly hair with very light ...
A. 8 April 2010: OK my husbands mum and dad both have brown eyes and their 3 kids have different coloured eyes. The eldest has hazel eyes, my husband has green eyes and the youngest has two tone hazel green eyes. Now the eldest son married a woman with medium brown ... (read in full...)
Eye Color Genetics
Q. Hi I have a question concerning genetics. So I have green eyes and brown curly hair and my boyfriend has brown eyes and black curly hair. Also, I am white and he is puerto rican. We have one child with brown eyes and brown curly hair with very light ...
A. 8 April 2010: OK my husbands mum and dad both have brown eyes and their 3 kids have different coloured eyes. The eldest has hazel eyes, my husband has green eyes and the youngest has two tone hazel green eyes. Now the eldest son married a woman with medium brown ... (read in full...)
A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter
Q. Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are l...
A. 1 March 2010: Wow sounds like your talking about me and my cousins family. Same situation her boys came to me and asked me if I could give them some spending money. I of course said no as they need to earn their pocket money. They said to me but your rich you ... (read in full...)
We almost had sex and now b/f is very quiet
Q. me nd my boyfriend have been together for bout 6 months :) anyway, im underage and hes older and we are both virgins so we waitin for my 16th to first "do it" but a couple of days ago..we almost did.. and ever since then hes been really quiet......
A. 19 January 2010: If this is both your guys first time then it may be that he wants to ensure that you do this the right way and does not want to flirt or touch you too much knowing that you both nearly gave in. In a Twilight sense he may be like Edward and doesn't ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant to my step brother and don't know where to turn
Q. I was looking for advice and found this site. Ill try and make this short. I had a bf for 8 months he was ok at first and we started having sex mostly because didnt want him to cheat after awhile it seemed like thats all he wanted me around for ...
A. 20 December 2009: Good on you two for talking this out. Firstly you should stop calling him your step brother because that just sounds gross. He is right you two are not related and if he is willing to support you and baby and stand by you then your very lucky. ... (read in full...)
My husband and best friend text daily M-F, should I be worried?
Q. I just found out that my husband and my best friend have been communicating via text message pretty much everyday Mon. - Fri.. I knew they texted a lot and I am O.K. with that. Sometimes he'll come home and tell me what they texted about that day, ...
A. 9 December 2009: To the anonymous reader who responded to RCK. Every relationship is different. FYI - I allow my husband to mingle and speak to whoever he chooses as the key ingredient for this to happen was trust and communication. We have a routine where my ... (read in full...)
My husband and best friend text daily M-F, should I be worried?
Q. I just found out that my husband and my best friend have been communicating via text message pretty much everyday Mon. - Fri.. I knew they texted a lot and I am O.K. with that. Sometimes he'll come home and tell me what they texted about that day, ...
A. 7 December 2009: For all those people who are insecure about their relationship and can't trust there husbands/wifes/patners/boyfriends/girlfriends etc there is nothing wrong with friendly texting. Not everyone texts about sex or fantasy. It comes down to how much ... (read in full...)
My husband and best friend text daily M-F, should I be worried?
Q. I just found out that my husband and my best friend have been communicating via text message pretty much everyday Mon. - Fri.. I knew they texted a lot and I am O.K. with that. Sometimes he'll come home and tell me what they texted about that day, ...
A. 7 December 2009: Wow you just described me and one of my work collegues. We text each other alot about everything. We are both married and my husband knows that we text each other alot. Most of our texts are about work or something funny that we may have just ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and ignoring two men. Which one should I choose?
Q. I need advice on this one. Its tricky. Am pregnant. The father of the baby has not been very supportive. He buys food and well made me sign a receipt saying I owed him 100 quid so I did and will pay it back to him and get him to sign a receipt but ...
A. 16 November 2009: Good on you for taking time out for yourself. But now you really have to think who is going to be best for you and the baby now not just you. My advice would be to stick it out on your own and just remain friends with both men. When baby is here ... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 3 November 2009: One day a teacher decided that he would play with the law and put his career on the line. It all started with a passionate kiss he shared with a 16 year old student on their way to his class and the student wanted it so bad that she deepened the ... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 2 November 2009: Bravo!! You are the best selling author with this story. The more I read it the more it sounded like a book?? "The life of a 16 year old student who falls pregnant with her english teacher." **clap** Clap**Clap**... (read in full...)
Help, I need information about losing my virginity!
Q. My new bf has been wanting me to have sex with him, but im still not too sure that i want to. I dont no if it will hurt or if i will get caught by my parents but they are never there tho. I'm still a virgin and i don't no about how anything feels. ...
A. 27 October 2009: Goodness me your going to lose it someday and guess what? It's your choice on when you do decide to lose it but as you can see from these sexually experienced people who have commented on your page they have already been through what your thinking ... (read in full...)
I've been an emotional zombie ever since my fiance passed away.
Q. 3 years ago during the summer of 2006 I met my fiance at a family get together she was friends with one of my sisters and we hit it of great. We got engaged in Spetember 2008. we got in to a car accident coming home froma news years eve party 2008 ...
A. 27 October 2009: Go see a councellor. You not ready to date so don't push yourself. It takes time to heal and 2008 was not long ago so it is understandable it won't feel right. Just find a great friend/stranger or a councellor who you can speak with about the ... (read in full...)
Is there a way I can tell him about my weight gain?
Q. A guy added me on myspace began talking to me. We have been talking for about a month and have similar interests, good conversation, and he is very interested in me. He wants to meet me, but there is one catch. All of my myspace pictures...
A. 26 October 2009: No just tell him the photo's are from two years back and to date you are alot me curver then you were back then. I mean you still enjoy the same interest together and so there should be nothing stopping you two getting on. Tell him the truth about ... (read in full...)
Do you think I am a slut?
Q. Do you think I am a slut? I have been flirting with this guy for years, he likes me because I am shy, we have kissed a couple of times, we get on really well and very recently we were kissing and as we were kissing he asked me to make him cum, wh...
A. 26 October 2009: No... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to change his thought that I'm controlling him?
Q. I found out from a friend my boyfriend created a facebook today. I dislike social networkings like that because myspace caused so many problems between us before. I stopped going on it but I let him continue to go on it. One day, during summer, we ...
A. 15 October 2009: Easy - Stop monitoring him. Question should be "Why don't I trust him on Facebook or Myspace?" Fear of cheating or other reasons. Tell him how you feel when you see him on it and leave it at that.... (read in full...)
Is there any particular way I should word how I feel?
Q. i am feeling so angry and unloved and also stupid. i have been with my partner for almost a year and a half, and at first he was great, everything seemed good. but for the last five months or so, i feel like i am practically begging him for time. H...
A. 15 October 2009: What is it that you will miss?
You will miss his companionship, friendship and his laugh.
When you talk next time ask him what he misses most about the relationship (in a matter of fact way) and if he is happy with the way things are going... (read in full...)
He's a great guy but he lies and cheats! We are engaged...
Q. I have been dating my fiance for 3 years we have been engaged for 2 and living together for 1. I just found out he cheated on me with a girl I had suspected him of cheating on me with.He lied and lied about it until I told him she gave me ...
A. 15 October 2009: Your decision but my opinion is to drop him. How can you trust him again after everything he has done to you? It's like your second to him and nobody appreciates you for who you are in his family. I mean why tell people in the first place that ... (read in full...)
B/f doesn't work and takes money from his parents!
Q. Hey there! My problem is that my boyfriend does not work and takes money from his parents that live in The USA to live here in Panama. He pays all the house expenses (rent 200$ a month)electricity ($50 a month)food (200$), except cable and internet...
A. 13 October 2009: Goodluck.... You got a lazy arse b/f who lives off his parents. When the money stops then what?? Do you become the new income source? Hey no doubt that one may ask the parents for a little money here and there but as a monthly income that pays ... (read in full...)
I just lost my virginity with my unreal aunt!
Q. Hi...frnds i'm 18 years old boy.well i lost my virginity just a day before with my unreal Aunt.Actually i wasn't interested in any kind of sex with her but she asked me and i couldn't stop myself.I wanna know is it good to have sex with a 33 year ...
A. 13 October 2009: I am taking your aunt is not your real aunt. Your both over 18 so who cares. You could have sex with a 50 year old and it won't matter. If you said you were having sex with a young teen/kid then you become a stupid ass dickhead that should be ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know what the difference between body rubbing and dry humping?
Q. Does anyone know what the difference between body rubbing and dry humping ( i have no idea if thats even something) ? Or are they both the same thing ? Anyone care to axplain. Thanks....
A. 30 September 2009: Dry humping is a male and female doing sexual things together with all their clothes on. Body rubbing is a message?? Never heard of the tem body rubbing.... ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex
Q. I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! and sometimes in certain positions there's pain inside me ! i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! and is it possible to have ...
A. 20 August 2009: The HYMEN may have broke when you were younger during some sport or excercise routine and you may not have noticed it as you may have thought you just had your period when you started to bleed. I have never heard of the HYMEN being elastic like?? ... (read in full...)
Girl A, Girl B and me! What do I do?
Q. I may like this boy I have been hanging out with recently. But he was in a relationship with girl a then dumped her for girl b because he loved girl b but girl b dumped him after couple of days. Girl b is my friend. What do i do?????????????...
A. 19 August 2009: Great now you can move on and look for someone else thats worth your time and energy. At least you know where you stand and you no longer have to fantasize about him anymore or ask yourself "what if."... (read in full...)
Doesn't it sound lik eI'm pregnant?
Q. Me and my partner have being trying to concieve a baby, in the last 2 weeks i have being having dizzy spells, headaches, stomach cramps, fatigue, and nausea. i had diarreah for 3 days (sorry for t.m.i) i had what i think was meant to be my period a ...
A. 16 August 2009: Sometimes when your trying your senses become more aware of every body function that's going on to a point where you are so eager to be pregnant that your mind can even trick you to feel like your pregnant when you ain't. Then when you see a ... (read in full...)
Girl A, Girl B and me! What do I do?
Q. I may like this boy I have been hanging out with recently. But he was in a relationship with girl a then dumped her for girl b because he loved girl b but girl b dumped him after couple of days. Girl b is my friend. What do i do?????????????...
A. 16 August 2009: What do you do??? Expect a girl c and d and e and f and many more of the alphabet to come along if and if you hurry you may be lucky girl L??
Just ask him out if you like him but if your having doubts then don't bother go and look for your alp... (read in full...)
Do any of you ladies have trouble with two or more orgasms in one day?
Q. Hi ladies, I was just wondering. Do you have more trouble achieving an orgasm if you've already had one that day? Say you have one in the early afternoon, then try again at night. Just wondering. Thanks!...
A. 29 July 2009: Nope, no problems having 2, 3 or even 4 in one day. It's just the first one is the best and the forth is quite weak but still effective.... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and pregnant..my mom doesn't deserve this big disappointment from me..should I tell her?
Q. I have a very difficult situation...2 months ago my mom finally accepted my boyfriend. I love him. and i;m so sure he's it. I'm 16 years old. My birthday is in two weeks...Anyway it was difficult to get him accepted because I'm the only girl and the ...
A. 29 July 2009: Well your mom will find out eventually and hopefully the situation won't be worse. Get it over and done with and tell her. Be prepared for the worst and let it rip. If you tell her now she may help you make a decision that will effect the rest of ... (read in full...)
I was molested and nobody believes me. How do I make them see?
Q. I was molested by my step dad @ the age of 4-12 when i said something to my mom she dint beleave me i was 15 when i finally said something. I was put in a foster home right away, my mom dint want to look @ me. I was to testify but befor that he died ...
A. 29 July 2009: Don't take such stupidity from your family. I think you need to work on yourself and find peace within yourself. Go to counselling and speak to someone else rather then your family. The man involved has passed and there is nothing really to gain ... (read in full...)
What is she thinking? What am I thinking?
Q. I didn't think I would ever end up online asking people about relationship advice, but I can't think clearly anymore so help me out. I've got this pseudo friend whom I have taken to the prom and still hang out on a weekly basis with couple other ...
A. 29 July 2009: Just go for it. You will know exactly what she's thinking once you let it loose. As for an answer to your question about what your thinking let me spell it out L.O.V.E man..... Like a chemical reaction to her scent. Good Luck... (read in full...)
My husband is hiding text messages to other women!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 months now. I haven't caught him cheating persay but I have caught him texting several females. The first one said she wanted a relationship from him not something on the side. that stopped. Then I found ...
A. 17 July 2009: Gee it don't sound too good aye. Firstly he lied, Secondly he goes out for dinner with IT and lastly he is hiding text messages from you. The question you should be asking yourself is what proof do you need before you will act. Do you need an STD ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my boyfriend will want to settle down? We have a son...
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years who is samoan I have put up with alot and actully thought he would want to get married. We hyave a one year old son who we both love to bits that he never wants me to leave if i feel things arent working. But ...
A. 17 July 2009: This depends? If your partner was brought up in Samoa then he would of asked you by now as having a kid together you've pretty much committed to each other. If he were brought up in another country say NZ then you should take the chance and just ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her my feelings for her or just wait until we can spend more time together?
Q. ok my second cousin and i are not dating and whatnot, but we're very good friends. even though we're cousins, we treat each other like best friends, and she considers me most likley her top guy friend and i consider her my top friend that's a ...
A. 14 July 2009: Wait it out. You don't want to have a heart to heart with her only to ruin everything you two have for the time being.... (read in full...)
What is this problem I'm having with my penis? it bends down!
Q. hello...im 21 and i think that i have a problem with my penis...is about 5.5 inches is perfectly straight...but the head bends and its kinda ugly...i dunno how to explain how the bend acctualy is ... is like when u tring to bend only ure finger ...
A. 13 July 2009: Gee whiz!!?? Why would you waste time standing there looking at your penis? As long as it functions and preforms the task that it was put there to do whats to complain about?? Do you really think someone is going to judge you by the look of your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst I'm asleep
Q. i really need help! my boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst im asleep. i should explain that i have a medical heart condition that makes me faint quite a lot it also makes me very tired so i have extra naps during the day to prevent b...
A. 13 July 2009: Dump him!!!! You never consented to it and your starting to make excuses for why he is doing this to you.... (read in full...)
Signs of masturbation?
Q. what type of mark will be found on the bed after men masturbate.whether the mark will be round in shape and the fluid is thick and sticky?Do men masturbate on bed? ...
A. 14 June 2009: Why don't you masturbate on the bed and find out?
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How can I comfort my sister's kids after she left them?
Q. Yesterday my sister left her marriage for another man who is very wealthy. I have no problem with this however she up and left all 4 of her kids oldest 10 and the youngest 2 years with her husband. She left with no explanation and I only found out ...
A. 14 June 2009: To think this is a story is beyond me? Unfortunately this is real life. My mum and dad went over to see the children today and were asked to leave as he had visitors coming. My Dad feels so embrassed/ashamed when my brother inlaw basically spat ... (read in full...)
How can I comfort my sister's kids after she left them?
Q. Yesterday my sister left her marriage for another man who is very wealthy. I have no problem with this however she up and left all 4 of her kids oldest 10 and the youngest 2 years with her husband. She left with no explanation and I only found out ...
A. 12 June 2009: Thanks for all the great advice. When I read them I was able to think alot clearer. I have decided to tell the children that mummy and daddy have some problems to sort out between themselves and they both love them and will sit down one day and ... (read in full...)
How can I comfort my sister's kids after she left them?
Q. Yesterday my sister left her marriage for another man who is very wealthy. I have no problem with this however she up and left all 4 of her kids oldest 10 and the youngest 2 years with her husband. She left with no explanation and I only found out ...
A. 12 June 2009: Thanks for all the great advice. When I read them I was able to think alot clearer. I have decided to tell the children that mummy and daddy have some problems to sort out between themselves and they both love them and will sit down one day and ... (read in full...)
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