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*oNellyxo
writes:I have been with my partner for 5 years who is samoan I have put up with alot and actully thought he would want to get married. We hyave a one year old son who we both love to bits that he never wants me to leave if i feel things arent working. But i have been thinking lattley he might be a silly person sometimes but he is my first love I am 18 he is now 26 so thought been samoan he would of asked by now. I was thinking of asking him but dont want to look desperate and a fool help me if anyone can please Reply to this Question
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reader, xoNellyxo +, writes (24 July 2009):
xoNellyxo is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi thanks for your advice. I happend to ask him out of the blues if he wanted to get married he first laughed then i just told him it wasnt a joke and that i was been serious. He then said to me yes one day. Im just starting to think that alcohol is more important than taking responsibility for what he has got. And also RCK answer to your question yes he was born and raised samoan moved here 8 years ago. I also thought that samoan culture after you have a baby and that its right to ask your g.f to marry you like all his brothers and cousins have. But in my case its just not happening.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 After five years I think it's time to ask him where you see the relationship going. I don't think it makes you look desperate at all to want to know if he plans to make it legal. Give it a try.
Good luck.
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reader, RCK +, writes (17 July 2009):
This depends? If your partner was brought up in Samoa then he would of asked you by now as having a kid together you've pretty much committed to each other. If he were brought up in another country say NZ then you should take the chance and just ask him. He may just be nervous that you might say no or may want to just wait a little longer.
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