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How do I ask out girls?

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Question - (5 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 September 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, *XAnoXx writes:

I have never been the best with talking to girls as I guess im just kind of shy in some aspects. Anyways, I would love to get some advice I could use in this upcoming school year!!

Thanks so very much!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009):

1)Eye contact. Trust me thats like the golden rule of communicating with anyone and is your best weapon when asking someone out. It implies confidence and you automatically grab control of the conversation.

2) Posture. How you stand is really important homie. Imagine some just whipped your back with an iron rod. That is how you're supposed to stand: straight back, shoulders up, chest out.

3) Conversation. You have to be interesting and unique. Be humorous, witty and original. Don't comment on weather because that's lame. Comment on looks, your surroundings that type of stuff.

4) The Ask. Either pull the girl you want to the side and be straight up and tell her you like her, or arrange date with her and tell her then.

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A female reader, PLAYFUL United States +, writes (5 September 2009):

PLAYFUL agony auntwell im one and I know I love it whe a guy gives me a look that hot he walks up to me to say hi the I say hi so small talk the ask her if she like to go out some time or ask for her phone numberI hope it halps...Good luck xoxo

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A female reader, jorjax1x United Kingdom +, writes (5 September 2009):

jorjax1x agony auntokay so i guess there is one girl you like ?

well if so if you are in school ask somthing as simple as can i lend a pen please and then when you give her it back at the end of the lesson say to her me and a few friends are coming to mine this weekend to watch a film and get a film and a few mates round and then when you are watch the film sit near her and on that night walk her home and just go for it say the thing is i have strong feelings for you and i dont know how to say this but will you go out with me? and the worst she will say is no and you will never know till you try i would ask her asap incase someone else gets there first if you darent say it in person then ring her or txt her on your mobile

good luck x

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