Do I walk away? Or try one more time? when I see him, its torture when nothing comes out of it
Q. So I am just looking for people's general opinions and how they would deal in this situation. Im really sorry its long! I had a crush on a teacher who wasnt actually my teacher, in high school. I honestly cant explain the feeling. It wasn...
A. 23 October 2011: Thank you guys for taking the time to answer my question. You both make valid points and I completely agree with both of you. I'm sure or at least im hoping, one day when I meet someone and actually fall love, I won't even think about him and if I ... (read in full...)
What's the possible reason to why he's acting like this?
Q. Hi, So yesterday me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years went out together had a really nice day, even bought me one or two things too which was out of the blue but very very nice and kept telling me he loved me and missed me because we hadn't b...
A. 23 October 2011: I agree with worldlywise. I wouldnt panic just yet. I know with myself, I just get sick of texting and Ill just stop and I dont mean anything by it. Just leave him alone and let him come to you and Im sure he will. And you guys should talk more on ... (read in full...)
Everyone around me is either getting engaged or married but I feel like I'm going to be single forever..
Q. I feel like I'm going to be single forever. I just turned 25 and I feel so alone. Everyone around me is either getting engaged or married. It's lonely when my friends are talking about wedding dresses and center pieces and I have no one. I find ...
A. 17 September 2011: First off 25 is still so young I wouldnt worry about marriage too much. I meet and know so many single men and women in their 30's these days because it's hard for men and women to meet decent people that they can form a real loving relationship ... (read in full...)
Running out of things to talk about need help!
Q. Ok so I've started seeing this woman who I really like a whole lot, we'll be going out again soon. The problem is its almost as if I'm running out of things to say. Does anybody have any conversation starters topics to discuss on your 4th or 5th ...
A. 1 June 2011: Honestly, I can understand having some awkward silences but if you have to keep thinking of things to say and the conversation doesnt flow, I don't know if that would work out at least in my opinion. I've been on dates where it's been awkward and ... (read in full...)
He left me hanging without an explanation. How do I cope?
Q. I was dating a guy for two months, until he began avoiding me. He would take longer and longer to respond to my texts, and then he just stopped responding period. He hardly ever called me either. After he hadn't contacted me in two days, it ...
A. 24 May 2011: Im sorry to hear that this happened to you but Ive been in your shoes before. You think things are going ok and heading in the right direction and then boom..things change instantly. Sometimes we'll never know why they do this to us. When its ... (read in full...)
I'm scared he likes her more than me. He's dumped me and hurt me before. What are my options?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He then asked for me back, telling me all he could think about was me and that he just wanted to be with me. He and I then went to hang out, and he wanted me to have sex with him. I kept telling him ...
A. 3 January 2011: I completely agree with Raphael. I felt the same about my ex too. He was always looking at everyone in the room and I never felt I was pretty enough for him to just focus on me. But life is so much more than looks and if thats all hes after, he will ... (read in full...)
Are we meant to be?
Q. I have had something for one of my former high school teachers for a long time. I had a crush on him in high school and kept in touch throughout a couple years after I graduated. He gave hints that he would date me too and actually said something ...
A. 1 December 2010: Hi. I know this is sooo late but I haven't been to this site in awhile and didn't realize that the anonymous male reader responded but if you get this message, I appreciate what you said. I had wrote him and kept it casual and said hey it was nice ... (read in full...)
I really need to get in this college for him!
Q. Dear Cupid, I met the love of my life two years ago. He was my best friend, and though I didn't think romantically of him at the time, I confided and told him my darkest secrets and shared everything of my life with him. It wasn't until six mont...
A. 11 November 2010: Honestly, if he put his commitments above you, you should do the same. You're young and it may feel like he's the one now but he may not be. Make sure this is really the college you want to go to and don't just follow a boy. Chances are if the ... (read in full...)
I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!
Q. I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ...
A. 11 November 2010: Yea it's both of you in this situation but it really is your body and your choice, you're the one carrying it. I had a friend who got an abortion because her bf wanted her to and then got pregnant again and he was pushing her so much to get one and ... (read in full...)
My fiance doesn't appreciate me
Q. I'm engaged to this guy I have been dating for 3 years. I love him very much, but a lot of things that he does, or doesn't do, makes me very unhappy. He is a firefighter. So he works 10 days a month. Because these are 24 hour shifts, he argues that ...
A. 11 November 2010: Well I understand how hard it is to still love someone so much even when they are difficult to get along with but at the end of the day it's your life. You are currently experiencing what it will be like to be married to him. Being married will most ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I was intimate with another man after we'd broken up?
Q. I've grown intimate with a guy when i'd broken up with my ex.the guy happened to be my best friend.Now i don wanna tell this to my ex since we're back in a relationship.But he knows that i had a best friend and we were good friends.Now he's really ...
A. 18 June 2010: I just had this experience and my boyfriend and I are now broken up. I had gone a few dates with someone when we were broken up. When my ex and I decided to see each other again and try to work things out, I had told him. He got mad but I thought we ... (read in full...)
Her parents don't think I'm good enough!
Q. Hey guys, I have one complicated love situation. My girlfriend and I have been together for several years now. We love each other a lot. However, there exists a problem with her parents. There are two main reasons that they don't accept me as bel...
A. 18 June 2010: As long as you both are happy and she doesn't let what her parents think affect her and the relationship, then you guys will be able to work through. They will come around eventually when they see that you make her happy and she stands her ground ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him and find someone new?
Q. Okay, I have a question just like most of us girls want to ask. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. He seems to me like he dont really care but heres the question. My boyfriend has lied to me about his ex a few times and has ...
A. 18 June 2010: It's easier said than done to just leave and wait to find someone else. Trust me. I was told for months to leave my ex and that he was no good but I stuck around because I loved him and I wanted things to go back to the way they were in the ... (read in full...)
Are we meant to be?
Q. I have had something for one of my former high school teachers for a long time. I had a crush on him in high school and kept in touch throughout a couple years after I graduated. He gave hints that he would date me too and actually said something ...
A. 18 June 2010: I'm tempted to email him and just be like
"hey it was nice seeing you the other day, how are you" and just start off casual but I'm afraid because if he doesnt feel the same, he'll be like o no shes bothering me again. My parents dont have a prob... (read in full...)
Are we meant to be?
Q. I have had something for one of my former high school teachers for a long time. I had a crush on him in high school and kept in touch throughout a couple years after I graduated. He gave hints that he would date me too and actually said something ...
A. 18 June 2010: Hey guys. Thanks for taking the time to answer. I understand what the anonymous male writer is saying. I'm not going to waste a lot of energy on this. I thought that if he were to think about it, he would contact me within a few days after we saw ... (read in full...)
Complicated situation would love find its way?
Q. I was just wondering Does everyone accept that the "if you love something set it free" principle is a universal one? Are there any examples of love finding its way through a complicated situation beyond the partie's control? Is one supposed to fight...
A. 22 May 2010: It's funny that I couldnt even take my own advice. I went a week without contact with my ex. I was on a date last night and I was miserable. The guy was really nice but I couldnt stop wishing it was my ex that was there. I ended up texting him and ... (read in full...)
I love her too much to let her go!
Q. As suggested by a previous reader, i told the girl i have a crush on about my feelings for her. But she said that she does not feel the same about me. Now i am in a real dilemma. I love her too much to let her go. Please tell me what i can do to win ...
A. 20 May 2010: I know exactly what you are going through. It's hard to have to let the person you have a huge crush on, go. But at least you told her how you felt and you don't have to wonder what if. Unfortunately you do have to respect her answer. But she knows ... (read in full...)
Complicated situation would love find its way?
Q. I was just wondering Does everyone accept that the "if you love something set it free" principle is a universal one? Are there any examples of love finding its way through a complicated situation beyond the partie's control? Is one supposed to fight...
A. 20 May 2010: Hi! I have been wondering the same exact thing lately. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I felt like it was out of anger because he took offense to something I had said and usually people wouldnt break up over it but he felt it was best... (read in full...)
He is offended because I insinuated he has a disease, do you think the break up is temporary?
Q. My ex and I have had a rocky relationship. We have fought, gone days without talking and have come back to each other several times in the 4 months of dating. Most of the fighting had been because of me and the issues I had because of the reputation ...
A. 16 May 2010: Hey, I completely agree with what your saying Soon567. I think i know deep down inside that I need to get over it but I remember how it used to be when we didnt fight and how he treated me well in the beginning and I just wanted it to go back that ... (read in full...)
B/f deserve a second chance?
Q. Dear Cupid... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half now, and recently we have been constantly fighting. We use to be so happy, and we NEVER fought about anything. My boyfriend isn't the type of guy to say all of this to ...
A. 16 May 2010: WOW this is exactly what I have went through recently. If this is the first time he has broken it off and then regretted it, I wouldn't dismiss him just yet, especially if you love him. He obviously thought about it a lot afterwards and realized ... (read in full...)
I said things I shouldn't have said and now he won't talk to me! This is so painful!
Q. I am going through a pain like i have never felt before. I'd rather experience physical pain then the feeling i have right now. I had been seeing someone for 3 months. We had a lot of fights and mostly because of me because I would question him on a ...
A. 2 May 2010: So things were okay for a few days and now they have gone wrong again and this time its not my fault. I asked to hang out with him on Friday and he said he had a fam dinner and wasnt sure what time he was getting home so he said saturday we could ... (read in full...)
I said things I shouldn't have said and now he won't talk to me! This is so painful!
Q. I am going through a pain like i have never felt before. I'd rather experience physical pain then the feeling i have right now. I had been seeing someone for 3 months. We had a lot of fights and mostly because of me because I would question him on a ...
A. 29 April 2010: Hey guys. Thank u so much for the advice. I ended up calling him tonight and stopped the stupid texting. He answered and I told him exactly how I felt and he told me that he loved me and cared for me a lot but just felt like it wasn't working right ... (read in full...)
I love him, but his past is hurting me emotionally. Any advice?
Q. Hi, I'm hoping someone can give me some advice! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and am sure that I love him. He has told me that he loves me and we are very happy together. It is definitely the healthiest relationship I've ever been in ...
A. 22 March 2010: I'm going through the same thing! But I admire you because your strong and you let yourself develop a loving relationship with him. The stories I hear about my guy have gotten to me so badly, Ive been such a bitch and I always question him and we ... (read in full...)
I still like to hang out with my ex, and I have feelings for him, but he has a girlfriend!
Q. so recently I have hung out with my ex boyfriend. In the past (about 7 months ago) we only dated for a few months but i felt like i never got closure because it ended before it started. We were both stubborn and broke up for a stupid reason. The ...
A. 18 December 2009: Hey guys...thanx for your feedback. I appreciate your honesty and you really made me think and both of you were right on point. I know from an outsiders point of view...the simple thing would be to say hes not right for me and move on but its hard ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a student.
Q. I just need to vent!!! I'm a male teacher in his late 20's and I have a crush on one of my female students who is about to turn 18. It's not lust.... I just think she and I have many things in common and we seem to have a great connection. She is ...
A. 1 May 2009: Hey...i can totally relate to what your going through only on the other end of it. When I was 17 I had a major crush on one of my teachers and he was in his late 20's. After i graduated I went back to visit and we kept in touch through email and me ... (read in full...)
I want to change my studies but mydad is so proud of me!
Q. hey guys, basically i'm a student, i left school and went to college for 2 years to study health care, i am now in my first year at uni. the thing is, i am only doing nursing because it's what everyone wants. well.. my dad has always sort of pushe...
A. 19 April 2009: Ok, ultimately you will not be happy in life if you don't do what you want to do. This is your career and college helps determine what you will be doing for the rest of your life and you will be miserable if you are doing something you dont love. It... (read in full...)
15 and feeling a bit behind in my sexual or sexuality development in my peer group.
Q. I am a 15 years old and while the other girls in my class are getting sexually active, i am just not feeling it. I had struggled with my sexuality in the past and was wondering whether this sort of non responsive state was normal or acceptable at m...
A. 19 April 2009: Hey, its completely normal. People at 15 really dont know what love is and they are not ready to take it to that level. I really wouldnt worry about it. Im 19 and a sophmore in college and I still dont have the urge to have sex and Im really not ... (read in full...)
He's not a good kisser
Q. ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and well when we make out he really doesnt know what to do.... and also thats all he really wants to do but hes not really good at it what should i do because i cant tell him that he does...
A. 19 April 2009: hey, i had the same problem with this guy i was dating. He would go crazy with his tongue and i did not like it. Im more of a lip and light touching of the tongue kind of girl but dont be afraid to talk about it, you just have to bring it up in a ... (read in full...)
Is this real? He's my ex high school teacher
Q. Back in high school I had this crush on one of my teachers. I had him as a teacher for 2 years. I tried not to think to much of it but I became really close with him. I found myself taking 3 periods of his classes just to be with him. I never ...
A. 13 April 2009: Hey...i could totally relate to you about the teacher thing. I had such a crush on my teacher who was only 8 years older than me and i kept in touch with him for a little over a year afterwards but i think he got in trouble at school for being too ... (read in full...)
How do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not?
Q. Hello, Just a general question in case my boyfriend wants to touch me up or anything, how do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not? I don't think we'll be doing anything yet as I'm not ready to have sex but it would be nice to think that if...
A. 9 April 2009: Hey. Well im very open about this topic and ive had a lot of conversations with guys about what they like and they all said they liked shaved girls not that it has to be completely shaven but i would bet most guys would not want to see a bush lol ... (read in full...)
Should I call it quits now before his feelings for me get stronger or should I work at trying to like him more!
Q. I have been hanging out with a guy i met at college for about 3 months and we just started kissing and cuddling and getting comfortable. He likes me but hes still kinda hard to read on how much he does and what exactly he wants but he has said he ...
A. 9 April 2009: Hey thank you very much for responding. Id say your answer is right on point. I cant bring myself to do it yet but i will soon. ... (read in full...)
Have you ever loved someone you couldnt have?
Q. Has anyone else ever fell in love with someone who you cant have? Either cos they are already with someone or they just dont love you back? I feel so alone. Im head over heels in love with this guy and have been for 5 years. Weve never had a proper ...
A. 30 October 2008: Hey...yes it is very tough and normal. I'm 19 and I still have feelings for a teacher that worked in my old high school who I still see from time to time...he basically told me he had feelings for me too but we just cant persue it because of the ... (read in full...)
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