How can I seduce someone into falling in love?
Q. How do I make someone fall in love with me through seduction. Nothing negetive ...
A. 26 December 2010: Wow, every woman wants their man to get the right answer to this question. :-) Let's see if I can help you.
Make sure that you make her feel that she is the only one in the world. When you touch her, touch her like you are touching a rose pet... (read in full...)
Lost love contacted me after 10 years, I love him, but we're both in relationships
Q. my ex-boyfriend got a hold of me a few months ago.he tells me he loves me and i sitll love him too.we broke up ten years ago and lost contact.i moved out of state.he recently found me on facebook and we have been talking over the phone and texting. ...
A. 26 December 2010: omg, just do it. it sounds to me like you both want to just do it already. :-)... (read in full...)
Mom thinks my headaches are coming from listening to music and not sleeping enough
Q. hi all.. this may be just a silly thing to ask but i am very cautious on my health. i never tend to get headaches, it was rare for me, like, i dunno, once every 3 months. it might not sound very rare but my days and weeks last long, lol. at...
A. 26 December 2010: I know the answer to this question.
First of all, you shouldn't listen to music with headphones, it really is bad for you. I hate that I have to tell you that, because I love to listen to music and I know how much you probably do, but headphon... (read in full...)
Should we break up or get hitched?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating a while now about a year and we were both obese and I got really fit and joined the army, now im back on leave and she wants to get married in the next week but I dont feel attracted to her anymore, she doesnt ...
A. 26 December 2010: leave her. if she doesn't care about herself, there is no guarantee that she ever really cared about you. people who don't love themselves have a hard time loving other people.
i know this because it is a problem i have struggled with for year... (read in full...)
I had a good thing with my ex
Q. so this is sort of complicated. i was with my ex boyfriend for years off and on since high school. we had our ups and downs. we broke up a few months ago. i got a new place and my roommate is another man. we have ended up starting a relationship and ...
A. 26 December 2010: break the lease. pay it and get out. do not sleep with another roommate again. if you want to stay, it will make you miserable... so... i say that is not what you want.... (read in full...)
Worried he'll leave me straight after we finally have sex
Q. my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and we've been wanting to have sex, but don't know when the right time will come. But i'm afraid that after we have sex he'll leave me and won't love me anymore. Plus he acts diffrent around m...
A. 26 December 2010: Okay, it's simple. Don't sleep with him yet. If you feel a different feeling from him when you are in public and when you are in private, then he is an asshole. I guarantee the only reason he is so different is because his only intention with you ... (read in full...)
Did I really lose my virginity? I'm not sure
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and just recently had sex for the first time. But it didn't hurt and I didn't bleed. Does this mean that I didn't lose my virginity? ...
A. 26 December 2010: Um... if you had sex, you lost your virginity.
If you masturbated in years prior, then that is why you were so sensitive.
It is very common for nothing special to happen down there because you lost your virginity.
You're probably in de... (read in full...)
Should I leave him for his best friend?????
Q. I am soon to be 14, and in a relationship with this really sweet guy. But here's the problem: I'm falling for this other guy, Garrett. He is so funny and I'm am the BIGGEST sucker for green eyes, also a sense of humor. I think he likes me also. ...
A. 26 December 2010: You are just lusting for the best friend. When you are that young you want to be intimate with EVERYONE & EVERYTHING... unfortunately, it's very normal. This is why dads don't want their daughters to date until they are 18. It's around the age of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend HATES affection.Should I seriously reconsider this relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years....he hates affection. I on the other hand am very, very affectionate. We are both in our early 30's and there have been talks about getting married in the future but I'm not sure that I can marry ...
A. 26 December 2010: I only had to read the first sentence to know that this relationship is doomed. Sounds to me like you settled as soon as you met the guy. Wrong choice girly.
Break up with him. Live your life. The more suitable man will come around one day ... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with her, is this because she dumped me or do I just need more time?
Q. Hi my queston is if is a good idea to send her a marry christmas sms or email? or for new year wishes? or for her birthday, which she have it in the end of january. which it will be a month that we broke up and maybe is better then to show her frie...
A. 26 December 2010: If you were meant to be together, she wouldn't have dumped you. I only read the title, because that is all I had to read.
You are lusting for her. You loved being together, but you cannot get over the fact that she didn't want that anymore.... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for wanting intimacy NOT leading to sex?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for seven months now and although we live 70 odd miles apart we see each other very frequently. He is 14 years my senior. He is a decent guy, we go out, he helps me with things, he cooks for me (if he's not taking me out). ...
A. 26 December 2010: Get rid of the bastard. I guarantee he's gay.
:-) Sorry sweetheart.... (read in full...)
Dating a man 20 years older I really can't see what I am getting out of this relationship
Q. I am 35 in a relationship (for 20 months now) with a man of 55. I love him, he wants to marry me, but i am hesitating. Sex is nearly absent (he has medical sexual problems), there is no financial security, and all issues that come with 20 years age ...
A. 26 December 2010: I would question if it is actually a medical condition. Sexual medical problems are very rare. Usually the man is masturbating too much, watching too much porn, or just doesn't really see women in that way...
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I don't want an abortion this time around!
Q. i am pregnant by my first cousin.we have been together for last 4 years and now that i am pregnant by him, he is not able to decide further. i want to have this baby as he has already got my 2 abortions before in fear of facing the family.this time ...
A. 26 December 2010: wow. you've got guts.
Dear, you need to put your panties back on and take a step back and look at the situation. Do you really want to be with your cousin and face the scrutiny that you may face when the relationship hits the fan? This day in a... (read in full...)
What are signs that a guy wants to commit?
Q. Does my guy friend know that I want more than a friendship now? What are signs he will commit to me being his girlfriend...
A. 26 December 2010: First of all, your question is way too vague. I would need details in order to answer it with certainty.
As for men, most of them do not know that you like them when you are after them. They are clueless. I followed around this guy for years an... (read in full...)
We can't seem to break up?
Q. I want to break up with my boy friend.It is a 11 years relationship and we are still good friends. We both feel that there is no future in our realationship. we are not staying together.I want a commitment from him and he is afraid of marriage...
A. 26 December 2010: Okay, here goes nothing. Your boyfriend or whatever he is... he's just using you. He keeps you around to tidy over his need for intimacy or to just keep his emotions at bay while he searches out someone else.
I suggest you change your number, ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man, how do I say 'no' when my heart says yes?
Q. Okay, here is the deal. I am in college, but right now I am on winter break. My sister, still in high school, and I went to go watch her boyfriend in a school performance. The teacher I used to have a crush on was there. I gave up on anything ...
A. 26 December 2010: Stay away from married men. Trust me, they have no good intentions. Unless of course they get divorced. But, I just don't believe in getting married to someone who has been divorced. It's just a bad seed waiting to be watered and ruin your life.... (read in full...)
She has a male best friend AND a boyfriend--how is it possible?
Q. The other day I met a young woman at a party. She was talking about how she was leaving soon, and her friend was picking her up. "He's coming in 15 minutes," she said. I was sort of interested in her, so I asked, "Oh, is that your boyfriend?" "...
A. 24 December 2010: My only best friend I have ever had is male. We've known each other 13 years and have never been intimate. We can tell each other practically anything and not offend the other.
I cannot stand women, some are just too cruel and I have been mis... (read in full...)
Who should tell my daughter what happened?
Q. I'm a divorced dad who has a 20 year old daughter living with me. Let me make this short and to the point. Her long time friend who is 22 and in our life since she was 4 years old, propositioned me for sex. I denied her telling her I can't be with ...
A. 24 December 2010: Tell your daughter what she did. Then tell your daughter to stay away from her.... (read in full...)
Does the constant calling and texting after breaking up mean she still loves me?
Q. hi recently me and my gf broke up i still love her very much but she doesn't plan on getting back. now even though it was a horrible break up we are still very good friends but what i don't get is she wants to text and call how we used to. we even ...
A. 24 December 2010: Depends. She probably broke up with you because she thought that you were too good for her. I did a lot of that crap when I was younger. I never thought that I was good enough for anyone or I tricked myself into thinking that I needed another man ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom I'm pregnant?
Q. i am 14 years old and 4 weeks pregnant. the father is 19. no one knows should i tell my mom since it was consensual? what about the dad? i have only seen him once that night. should i tell him? would he care?...
A. 24 December 2010: This is not good.
Umm... First of all, be very careful what you do. His age difference is 5 years. Check the Statutory Rape guidelines in the state and make sure that you are legally in the right to be with the 19 year old or vice versa. ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by someone else, my boyfriend doesn't know and I can't have an abortion!
Q. Hey pipo m hopin u help me out on this problem....me and this guy have been datin 4 2yrs nw,n i met this nice guy we went out @ some club and took enuf beers...we later went 2 his home we had sex and now m pregnunt n my boyfriend doesnt knw about ...
A. 24 December 2010: You need to tell him what happened. You don't know for sure it's his or not, do you? No matter what, you need to tell him that it happened and how sorry you are and that you hate to leave this burden on him.
Tell him that no matter what he decid... (read in full...)
I may be in love with my stepdaughter...
Q. I married my ex wife with her having a 8 month old daughter.I stayed married to her mother untill she was 13.than me and her mom got a divorce and me and my stepdaughter built a incredible relationship up to that point.(know by incredible I mean ...
A. 24 December 2010: Wow, that's weird. But, I believe it.
Umm... Well, if you have any respect for her, you will not enter into any relationship with her. Her life will become a soupy mess. Her mother will disown her, her father will disown her... her father m... (read in full...)
Is it bad that a 14 year old is dating an almost 13 year old?
Q. please dont be rude about this. i have a boyfriend and he was born in 1998 and i was born in 1996. so hes 12 and im 14 :/ well he turns 13 in febuary but a few months later i'll be driving (permit). is this bad? then his class figured out we were ...
A. 24 December 2010: My husband is 28 years my senior. Age is only a problem if you are having sex. Then, I suggest you wait until you are of legal age to date older. If you are wanting to date younger and are of age, then wait a little while longer until those you ... (read in full...)
I am sleeping with my husband's best friend
Q. I am sleeping with my husband's best friend. It started a year and a half ago. Every time we spend together is just amazing. He says all the right things and makes love to me in ways I cannot describe. Trouble is, I love my husband very muc...
A. 24 December 2010: I am not reading others comments before I post this...
You have no choice but to stay with your husband in Gods eyes. But, if you don't care about your vows, then I suggest you tell your husband and you get a divorce.
If I were you, I neve... (read in full...)
Are tampons comfortable?
Q. im 13 and i started my period not long ago and i use pads but there really uncomfortable and panty liners :/ i want to try a tampon but im not sure if it hurts? if its even more uncomfortable? and whats its even like to have one "in"?? please help ...
A. 24 December 2010: I wish I'd never used Tampons. Sometimes I think they are the reason why I had so many Urinary Tract Infections as a teenager.
I am 24 now and have been on pads now for 18 months. The 10 years I used tampons was probably the worst time for my w... (read in full...)
Was I raped by this guy years ago. How do I get over this?
Q. I had a really traumatic first time, experience years ago. I was making out with someone and I was happy just with that. Then he forced himself on me and had unprotective sex with me. It was very painful. I couldn't stop crying, but he kept going ...
A. 24 December 2010: I had an alcohol problem for about 5 years. I was a teenager, but never got so wasted I didn't remember what I did. I was raped by 15 different men over the course of 5 years. Some of them wore condoms, some of them didn't. Some of them I was ... (read in full...)
I suffer my uninterested husband, I want more romance in my life
Q. i have been married for almost 30 years. my husband never, never , never initiate romance, sex or anything. he never makes me feel special. he never takes me away or really talks to me . mind you, we do go places and do things, but only if and IF, i ...
A. 24 December 2010: My guess is that he is either gay or that he thinks you nag too much and just doesn't want to be intimate with you any longer.
It's the truth, I know from experience.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after rough intercourse?
Q. A few days ago i had what you could call "rough" sex. As in penetration was hard and fast. After i noticed quite a lot of blood on the bed sheets and it shocked me because i didn't realise how rough we must have been. I have never bled before that...
A. 24 December 2010: Rough intercourse is not a good thing for your body. But, yes... Even regular sex after you haven't had any for a long time can cause bleeding.
If the bleeding was brief, over a 24 hour period and disappeared, then don't worry about it. If it c... (read in full...)
My husband's family is driving me nuts!!! Help!
Q. I am very confused what to do about my situation and need some advice! I've been married for 3 yrs. in August and we have been together 5 yrs in August. I have been having issues with my in-laws since our bachelor and ette party...let me break it ...
A. 24 December 2010: I would distance myself from him altogether. Get a divorce, you'll be better off. God does not condone mistreatment by family, for whatever reason.
If the husband will not stand by you and your personal choices or your preferences, then unfortun... (read in full...)
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