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writes:so this is sort of complicated. i was with my ex boyfriend for years off and on since high school. we had our ups and downs. we broke up a few months ago. i got a new place and my roommate is another man. we have ended up starting a relationship and things were good for a minute and now he never comes home. he always says its because of work or he fell asleep at a friends. now i find myself regretting everything. now i feel like i had a good thing with my ex and we want to get back together. the problem is im stuck in a year lease with this other guy. i don't know how to end things with my roommate without making it awkward. i truly love my ex and if we ever got back together i don't know how things could ever be ok because i can't lie about the fact that my roommate will now be my ex but i still live with him. what should i do? how can i keep this as uncomplicated as possible?
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reader, MrsTetzlaff +, writes (26 December 2010):
break the lease. pay it and get out. do not sleep with another roommate again. if you want to stay, it will make you miserable... so... i say that is not what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): I know kinda how you feel. My ex broke up with me and I have been sad ever since, but I know that people break up for a reason. If you are sure you want to get back with your ex, why don't you just sub-lease your room to someone else?As long as the new roomie is someone that your current roomate finds ok, maybe there is a way you can make things work. i hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): getting back with exs in most cases hardly ever work out, but not saying you dont hae a chance, well if you break it down by the time you get back with your ex and you still live with the guy who will now become your ex, the fact that you guys have been together and still live together anytthing could happen. if you both live under the same roof alot is bound to happen and in the end you may end up cheating on your boyfriend, but if yo wanna getback with your ex maybe you should start thinking of getting another aparttment, cause it aint gonna work like that.
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