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writes: I've fallen in love with one of my girl-friends but she's just broken up with someone and still kind of likes him, she broke up with him but asked me how I felt about her, I've told her but I don't know what to do next...can anyone help me?
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reader, midgetgem +, writes (2 September 2006):
 I'm kinda biased here and don't know if I can help but I was in a similar position myself.
A friend of mine fancied me for years and when I split up from my partner he skirted around the issue and we ended up staying friends and both went on to see someone else. Two years later we both ended up splitting from our respective partners and he finally got the nerve to tell me how he felt and I decided to give it a go.
We're now getting married and are totally on love. We had our frienddhip to build on and obviously know each other really well.
I really regret that he hadn't asked me sooner because, the first time I was single, I was in the same position as your mate and still had feelings for the guy I'd split from.
The best thing for you is to make it clear that you weren't just telling her this to make her feel better after splitting from her last boyfriend and that you really do care for her.
The rest is up to her but I hope you end up as we have. If not, then move on. Spend a bit of time away from your friend to help you both come to terms with how you feel. Time away may put some perspective on the relationship and might allow you to hav time for other women.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (2 September 2006):
 well if youve told her already how you feel about her then the ball is really in her court to make the move on you. If however you are sick and tired on waiting on her theni sugest that you ask her firstly how she feels about you and then depending on her answer, ask herif she would like to take your relationship to the next level
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