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I live in England but choosing my flag was kind of hard because i'm not fully British =P
I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now.
I'm currently waiting on my A level results so hopefully I can meet my offer from the University of Liverpool to study Psychology and eventually get my PhD in Clinical Psychology.
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8 December 2007: Girls and guys, in your teenage life I know how annoying spots can be they make you look uglier, they are irritating, make up cannot always cover them and sometimes they really hurt... The good way to deal with these problems is not to have spot...
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Recently discovered I'm bi and afraid of my parents' reaction
Q. I am 15. I have recently discovered I'm bi. No not bi-curious. And I don't know what to do I'm afraid of what my parents might do....
A. 13 July 2010: If you know you are bisexual, you don't have to tell anybody if you don't want to. I am bisexual, and realised when I was 15. I told my Dad and he was extremely supportive but still haven't told my Mum because I don't feel comfortable in doing so ... (read in full...)
Advice on lasting longer
Q. "OP Own Title" What are some ways to help last longer before ejaculating? I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and the last few months I have been cumming in less than five minutes. I used to be able to go for alot longer. Wondering if anyone ...
A. 13 July 2010: It can help for some people to masturbate more frequently and for longer to practice thinking about other things and delay ejaculation. To avoid ejaculation during intercourse, you could slow down your penetration, or initiate in foreplay during ... (read in full...)
A guy I like said he thinks I'm tight what does this mean?
Q. a guy i like told his friends that he thinks im tight... what does this mean? ...
A. 13 July 2010: This basically means he thinks you don't like to spend your money or splash out on anything, this isn't always a bad thing, it really depends on the context it was said in.
If it bothers you, do something to prove him wrong =)
Megan
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I don't think my fiance is fit to be a father... but how do I tell him?
Q. When I accepted to marry my fiance I knew that I would be giving up the family I have always wanted to have. Our parenting styles and ideas are too conflicted. I love him so much I'm willing to give this up, but recently he has started talking ...
A. 13 July 2010: In what ways do you not think your fiance has potential to be a good parent?
If the behaviour you're talking about is only minor, there are parenting classes he could attend which might help. You both want to have children, and if he really w... (read in full...)
I'm getting married and worried about my figure
Q. i m 23 years old.my hight is 5'.3" n my weight is 45 kg.i m slim smart girl.i m going to get married but i m woorried about my figure...........acctually i hav small brest,my bra size is 32,i hav to use paded bra 34.i m worried will my husband like ...
A. 8 December 2007: You'll be fine if he really loves you he won't mind anyway-you're really not missing out with having smaller breasts! Padded bras are fine and you can even buy bras with special gel filling inside to maximise what you already have. Do not buy the... (read in full...)
I'm dying for him tokiss me..but we are stuck in a rut.
Q. Okay. Help. My guy-friend and I have become really close. In fact, lately we're practically like a couple - except we're not - and that's the problem. I'm dying for him to kiss me and I can tell he feels the same, the tension is unbearable - we rea...
A. 8 December 2007: Theres no need to say anything at all :) thats the best thing about kissing you don't have to ask it will just happen, lean into him he wants it and so do you and just kiss him if he kisses you back then thats great and you'll get everything you ... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin, how do I make it last longer than 30 sec? Worried about "performance."
Q. I have never had sex and im scared that when i do i wont be any good. When I wank I only last about 30 seconds and im worried that I'll fully embarrass myself when i have sex. I've had plenty of chances but have always put them off beacuse i get to ...
A. 8 December 2007: It sounds like all you need is self esteem :) Firstly have you done any thing else? Kissing is a start oral etc. etc because sex is natural it comes naturally so experience is just a bonus. If you are fit healthy and active you should be able to go ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether my trainee teacher is being "too nice..."
Q. Hey, im sorry guys if these seems stupid but i really need some help. There is this trainee teacher at school and everyone says he likes me far too much. He asks everyone where i am if he cant see me and he always comes to sit with us at lunch to ...
A. 7 December 2007: Yes i'm sorry to say but there is something wrong with this guy you need to do something or the next thing you know he could be touching you and you do NOT want that. I'd make a private comaplint to a senior member of staff and take a friend who has ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling insecure about my looks. Can you help?
Q. I am feeling so ugly right now. All my life i wanted pretty fetures. i have nice ears... great... but i have a HUGE nose and nostrils and a horrble double chin.. ok tripple chin..... i feel so ugly.. even though many think im not.. and sometime...
A. 7 December 2007: Once you combat the issues that make you feel so ugly your self esteem can fly :) we've all been there, the best way to target a big nose is to get a full fringe, this can all depend on your face sahpe etc etc. Next time you go to the hair dressers ... (read in full...)
What to do to increase my libido?
Q. Hi am having some problems with my body, i havent been feeling horney if a guy touches me or i talk with my boyfriend on the phone or anything, can you tell me what i can use to make my self fell horney again, its a really big situatio...
A. 7 December 2007: Getting horny... well there are plently of ways you can do this 1) Got ant fetishes? Get you and your boyfriend to have a go ;) That could turn you on 2) Some food can heighten your libido Strawberries have been called Viagra for girls because... (read in full...)
I have just had a mental blockage and cannot remember what I learned in preparation for the GCSE. Please help.
Q. i am very seriously worried i have my gcse examinations on mondai i am sudying 15 subjects and i am a higher teir student meanin i expected to get a-C grades i have jus had a mental block i cannot think of anything or remember what i learned ...
A. 7 December 2007: You need to calm down x I gt this 5 minutes before my russian oral :O and the trick is just to relax and calm down. Down think back think forwards and clear your mind. Because GCSE's are right in the middle of puberty (espicaily if youre born in ... (read in full...)
Body issues...
Q. Hi, I would just like to ask a few questions about my body. First up, I'm on the skinny side, but still have muscle, so i'm pretty happy with that, but the thing is, my ribs stick out, and every time I take off my shirt I feel embarrased about ...
A. 7 December 2007: Hi there! Have you checked your BMI i'm a size 4-6, however my BMI is only very slightly underweight because of my height and other factors of my body which make me heavier :S xx Heres a web site that can test your BMI run by the british NHS :P If ... (read in full...)
He watches porn, should I be worried.
Q. My boyfriend and I are 30 years old.I am not sure if I should be worried about this or not.I have been with my him for 13 months now. I have known from the day one of the relationship that he watches porn on the computer and he a has several porn ...
A. 7 December 2007: According to a website i recently found about what turns guys on- the number 1 turn on is when a woman asks to watch a porn movie with a man. :S dont ask me why but fair enough :D
She suggests watching something dirty
"Most men aren't particul... (read in full...)
Never been kissed...but there is a boy I like and I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm 16, and I've never been kissed . . . I feel like a pathetic excuse for a 16 year old . . . But there is a boy I really like, and i've liked him since June this year . . . I like him so much that I don't know how to act or what to do... an...
A. 7 December 2007: Hi Cathy I have a friend who has almost exactly the same problem as you- ok it is the same problem as you. Its a very common problem and no you are not pathetic. The best way to make this guy interested in you is to be interesting and confident and ... (read in full...)
Do we break up over 'jobs and relocation' issues?
Q. I am a divorced man in my early 40's. My new partner is also in her early 40's. I have had a difficult time getting established in a career until the last 2 years. I have a good job, though I would like to live in another community ideally. I have ...
A. 7 December 2007: Hmmm.... changing your job will give you much aditional stress i don't think you could cope with :S this could have a major impact on your relationship and be a financial disaster- after all weddings aren't cheap and there will be no way you can ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is jealous because of a guy a school who is friendly to me. What can I do?
Q. Hi, lately i have been feeling crappy and awful tbh! i mean why does life have to be so confusing and yet so disapointin at the same time? i mean could it get any worse... i am with a guy that i adore but beacuse of my stupid god damn feelings i ...
A. 7 December 2007: oh dear :( well you don't need to feel bad but if you're anything like me you just flirt naturally- try and keep this to a minimum, your boyfriend is way more important and if your leaving soon you're making boys stress you out which can't have a ... (read in full...)
Is it over good? What do you think?
Q. Me and my ex have been together, on and off for over two years, but the last eight months we were solid, truly in love and best friends. This was both our first proper relationship. We both became unhappy that I might be moving soon and may have to ...
A. 7 December 2007: It sounds as though you need to take her out and sweep her off her feet :) remind her of all the good times and show her this new guy isn't worth a second chance- you two are meant to be- you just need to get that spark back i found a website about ... (read in full...)
I find that whenever I want someone, they're with someone else!
Q. dear cupid, i am 18 and gay, i met a girl three months back and really like her we got on so well there was definatly a spark between us. her best friend proposed to her a month after us meeting. and she told me honestly she didnt know what to do,...
A. 7 December 2007: It sounds like you need to talk to her x Could this be a longer commitment you are willing to make and is it worth breaking them up? although this may be tearing you apart you need to consider the other people involved as well. Talking to her may be ... (read in full...)
He asked me to coffee. That was a month ago and I never heard from him and we never went out!
Q. hi i've known this guy for about 4 years now. His family knows my family and mine know his but we're not very close.i've always had a crush on him but always played hard to get and stayed aloof because he either just got out of a relationship or had ...
A. 6 December 2007: I think he's worrying about rejection,thats the reason most guys don't come straight over at the bar or ask you out staright away, they want to know where they stand with you. You've shown him your not easy now let go :) he likes you now you don't ... (read in full...)
My husband has sex dreams every night and I am upset!
Q. My husband has strange bedtime habits - insight would be greatly appreciated. When he falls asleep he very often starts moaning, making noises like he's enjoying sex, occassionally he mutters something, and he is clealy in a sexually arroused state. ...
A. 6 December 2007: Don't worry about it :) He's only sleeping and probably dreaming of you and if he isn't he can't help it. Don't wake him up because thsi could damage his sleeping patterns and cause problems with his general mood, however if you are seriously ... (read in full...)
My ex, my new love... I love things about both of them!
Q. Hi, I'm confused.... I'm not sure whether to listen to my head or my heart. I am 29 years old and met my first love when I was 16. We went out for 3 yrs until I was 19. They we broke up and got back together when I was 22, we went ...
A. 6 December 2007: Well it'll only get you back if you do have both of them. If you get back together with your first then i guarentee you'll be bored again, but then with the second you can't really develop security if its not there. The second option doesn't sound ... (read in full...)
He dumped my yesterday and wont return any of my calls
Q. i need help,my boyfriend dumped me yesterday afternoon and wont return any of my calls. i txt him saying im coming round his house. he then txt me saying he was out. i know he was in cuz i saw his lights on, which he then switched off. i then got a ...
A. 6 December 2007: It sounds like your getting a bit desperate now :S think about it like this, if he didn't have a justified reason for breaking up with you he wouldn't want to talk about it it'd be really awkward for him and besides it sounds like you really miss ... (read in full...)
He didnt include me in his statement about family. He put me separate and I am hurt. Am I being oversensitive?
Q. This question is to all the boyfriends out there...if you are truthful and honest to your girlfriend, and you really love her, wont u say she's a part of your family? My boyfriend didnt do that. We were at a cookout that his friend was having. And ...
A. 6 December 2007: Family HAVE to come first even for us girls :) we know that the words family and friends allitarate- this makes his statement sound more important and he saved the best until last :)You!! x anyway your not actually part of his family unless your ... (read in full...)
I left my guy of 7 years
Q. My boyfriend of 7 years chatted to women on chat pages, joined a sex chat site and looked at porn.I found out cus i snooped. I left him. Moved back to mums,gave my car up, the lot. Several months later, he promised to try and put things r...
A. 6 December 2007: You two need to sit down and talk? Was this porn thing the first problem, because maybe your relationship was going slightly flat because you two have been together for long. men forget things all the time and i can't talk :S I think that because ... (read in full...)
We are too embarrassed to buy condoms and don't know where we could get privacy, but we want to have sex.
Q. Me and my bf have been going on and off on our relation ship i want to have sex with him and he wants to have sex with me we are both ready but neither of use want to go buy condoms let alone he is to embarrassed to go get them and neither of us ...
A. 6 December 2007: Hi
Sometimes condoms can be bought in the vending machines in toilets, that way you dont have to face the embaressment of buying them at a counter, you could always get a very close friend to buy them for you or he could ask one of his friends. What... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend broke up with me, but says he still loves me
Q. My long distance bf broke up with me. He said that he was getting too down and upset because he couldnt see me and that cause my mum wasnt letting me go down for another 2 years said it was going to be too hard as he wouldn't be able to see me every ...
A. 6 December 2007: ouch :( i know how you feel- when i first went to germany i got together with this guy because i was there for two months, lots of the others all had boyfriends as well but they all broke up when we went home, we carried on but about 4 months after ... (read in full...)
Would dating this older guy, my uncle's buddy, be a good thing or a bad thing?
Q. Hi.A couple of nights ago,i bumped into a man i've seen before, in a nightclub.I last saw him last year and when he saw me then he said he thought i was sexy !.That was the first time i saw him.I was out with my uncle,This man knows my uncle and ...
A. 27 November 2007: Hi there! I dont think he would be to bothered, however me may worry about your uncle and his friends teasing, if he found you sexy then clearly he has no issue with younger women, however he may not be commited, next time you see him (if you do) ... (read in full...)
Recently she cant get through the day without me...any advice??
Q. Strange situation here... i need to know what if anything there is i can do and what could of caused this. Well my wife and i have been together since we were 16 we love each other very much. Just lately she has become very attached to me and the ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hi it seems as though your wife has come to depend on you in her stressful time and she can't seem to stop depending on you x you can't move your work, nor can she, however this situation does need to be resolved and i think the best way is to let ... (read in full...)
I'm getting threatening calls from strangers who claim to know me, saying they're going to beat me up! What can I do?
Q. Hii .. i keep getting prank phone calls of an annonomus number they keep threatenin me to batter me for a reason that isn even true makin excuses up to pick on me and stuff .. im so scared in case they jump me . they o my name were i live and my o...
A. 26 November 2007: hi it sounds like someones playing a prank on you but if these people are getting to you its probably best to block the number if you find you are still worried prank calls are a criminal offence and they can be reported to the police if you ... (read in full...)
I'm stressing about leaving school, but I don't leave til 2009!
Q. ok i am 14 in year 10 and stressing about leaving school in 2009.i really dont want to leave school thinking i might not see some of my freinds again really upsets me how can i get over this i shouldnt have to worry about this for like a year yet!...
A. 26 November 2007: hey i'm in year 11 and by the time the coursework and mocks start coming in you won't have time to worry about that- trust me x if it makes you feel better start getting msn's myspaces phone numbers from the people you want to stay in touch with and ... (read in full...)
What can I do, I really want her back...
Q. Hello, I dated a girl for a year and eight months, I really loved her, though we are in the same university. She complains that I don't want her to meet my family and that I regard her as a school girlfriend. We broke up this year (Febuary) and I ...
A. 26 November 2007: you two neeed to talk :) and thats ok- you really love her and it sounds like she wanted something serious and do you love her enough for that? if so go and meet her parents! they'll respect your maturity and the fact you can hold down a ... (read in full...)
The connection isn't there the way it was with my ex. What should I do?
Q. I have been with a guy for 2 years and a lot of the time he can treat me quite badly and can be very selfish but the connection we have is unbeleivable. We click and understand each other so well but after the two years together the way he would ...
A. 26 November 2007: try and cheer up :) despite whats going on- it sounds to me although you need to meet some completley new guys altogther, after all you can't help it if you no longer have feelings for this guy but do you really want to go back to the way you were ... (read in full...)
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