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writes:Okay. Help. My guy-friend and I have become really close. In fact, lately we're practically like a couple - except we're not - and that's the problem. I'm dying for him to kiss me and I can tell he feels the same, the tension is unbearable - we really like each other and all our mutual friends are really starting to notice it aswell. I'm not the most forward person when it comes to stuff like this and neither is he - so it's really hard to say how we feel. We nearly discussed it when he took me out to dinner tonight, but we backed off and changed the subject, stupid nerves. What can we do?? I don't want us to be stuck in this awkward/nearly something amazing rut forever.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Megan Deetes +, writes (8 December 2007):
 Theres no need to say anything at all :) thats the best thing about kissing you don't have to ask it will just happen, lean into him he wants it and so do you and just kiss him if he kisses you back then thats great and you'll get everything you wanted and maybe more and if he doesn't then it was a casual peck on the lips :D Go for it :D
Good Luck message me if you want more help :) xxxxxxxx
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reader, nflguy  +, writes (7 December 2007):
Here is what you should do. I learned this as a teenager and while corny it works! Make plans to watch a movie at his or your place. Grab the remote and keep flipping past the channels. He will obviously playfully try to get the remote from you. When he does, when he gets real close, just lean in and kiss him. It will work guaranteed!
Remember that guys are always worried that they will get turned down. Just becuase you see it and your friends see it doesn't mean he is 100% sure you want him to kiss you.
Kiss him quick and then back off. If it's what he wants then he will take it the rest of the way.
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reader, Coolman777 +, writes (7 December 2007):
just ask him to be your boyfrind at will make you fill a lot better
and so if you do kiss it will fill rite to know he loves you as much
as you love him
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