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30-35,
*ute-angel
writes:dear cupid,i am 18 and gay, i met a girl three months back and really like her we got on so well there was definatly a spark between us. her best friend proposed to her a month after us meeting. and she told me honestly she didnt know what to do, considering her best friend was also her ex aswell.she never lied to me and told me she loved her best friend, she is now engaged, we still talk when i bump into her in town. i just cant forget her i need to even though i still want her. i find that whenever i want someone, there with someone..but if they break up im no longer interested in them even if they are me, but with her its different i wanted her before all of this and still do i cant explain why.i ve only known her for three months!! and im feeling like this. i know its going to be hard for me to let go becuase we have so much in common and yet are so different which makes it great... what should i do?please help this is really getting me down and tearing me up inside. many thanks C-A xXx
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reader, Megan Deetes +, writes (7 December 2007):
 It sounds like you need to talk to her x Could this be a longer commitment you are willing to make and is it worth breaking them up? although this may be tearing you apart you need to consider the other people involved as well. Talking to her may be a good option and she clearly regards you as a close friend because she was open to talk to you- ask her for some advice and tell her if you honestly think thats what it's worth. You must understand the problems it may cause if she decides to leave her best friend. Is she happy? xx Please message me back if you would like further help it sounds like you need a good long talk :) good luck xxx
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