When you love somebody, do you set them free or never leave them?
Q. Is it true, if you love somebody, you set them free? or is it if you love somebody you never leave?...
A. 5 April 2008: that depends on weather shes happy with you or does she want someone else if so u let her go but if she loves you and the relationship is good then you keep her... (read in full...)
My girlfriend loves someone else, shoul I break up with her?
Q. I have been with my gf for over 4 years, recently my gf meet a guy and had a serious crush on him, the guy knowing definately well that the girl has fallen for him has inturn started playing with my gf minds, now it seems she love him. we have ...
A. 1 April 2008: Once your in a relationship with someone who loves soeone else you will rarely get the love back if i was in your shoes i wouldnt stay with her i wouldnt come second best to anyone im sorry but i wouldnt. i suppose it is up to you but if you want to ... (read in full...)
I love her but I feel she is ignoring me sometimes or am I being too clingy?
Q. I have this amazing girl she's honest and will never cheat on me i love her with my life but lately i feel less needed by her. Not too long ago we had a brake but were now back together she says that she loves me and i always say the same i plan on ...
A. 1 April 2008: some girls like boys being clingy some dnt just try and let her talk to you first for once. If that doesnt work then when you are alone with her try asking her how she is feeling and how she feels about you. If she realises how you feel it might ... (read in full...)
All my friends are dating, should I worry that I don't have a boyfriend?
Q. hey again you guys have been so much help to me.. well here i am writting again i have so much things on my mind right about now i want to date and have a bf.. but the embarassing secret is that i only had 2 boyfriends throughout my whole ent...
A. 1 April 2008: no of course you shouldnt worry about it wen you find a boy you like just flirt a little but dont come on tooo strong therwise you could just scare him. Everyone is meant for dating wether u no it or not hun but sometimes people sense things like ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex wrote me saying he was abusive, should I take her advice?
Q. I've been dating my current bf for a little less than a year now. When I got together with my bf, he'd just broken up with his gf not too long. He said she was unfaithful and they had problems long before the breakup. I knew that the girl wanted to ...
A. 7 January 2008: For starters never let your bfs jelouse ex into your relationship. Also you have been with him for nearly a year she was with him a year she says he was abusive in that year if it was true he would have been abusive in your relationship by now all ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher a pervert?
Q. Okay, so my former teacher and I are friends nowadays, but I had/have romantic feelings for him. I still attend the school he teaches at. I was in his class during parts of the 9th and 10th grades. I know, teacher-student relationships ar...
A. 7 January 2008: however you feel about it is going to worry you and probably you thinking of other people is making it sound worse to yourself but also he shouldnt have touched your leg like that it was wrong for him to do. The way your describing him he sounds ... (read in full...)
Am I being used?
Q. Hi, I started dating my ex 2 years ago, and we had a relationship for about a year. I screwed things up and then we were together on and off for another year. The thing is, i am always falling for her. Recently we kissed at a party an...
A. 8 December 2007: I think you are trying to hard to notice and because your trying to hard your thinking about the things u want and missing what is really happening. You could talk to her and tell her how you feel but you cant tell someone that you dont want them to ... (read in full...)
I don't get turned on at all, is this normal?
Q. I don't get turned on at all...No matter what my boyfriends or myself do, nothing really seems to turn me on..Is this normal?...
A. 28 November 2007: Yes its perfectly normal you just havent found the right place to make you feel good yet.... (read in full...)
Am I depressed?
Q. Over the last 4 years my life has been hell, my auntie, grandma, uncle and grandad (who was my best friend) all died, I've been with my boyfriend two years and a year ago he kissed another girl, it was only a peck but it hurt so much I still haven't ...
A. 28 November 2007: I have had depression i had it when i was 15 but with you by the sounds of it your showing signs of depression. You should go to the doctors before it gets worse.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not... what do you think?
Q. I'm looking for some opinions here, I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not. We met on the weekend and hooked up, everyday since we've been keeping in touch through MSN, but just barely, whenever she's on she'll say hi to me, and whats up and...
A. 28 November 2007: Yes she does like you if you see she is makeing an effort in talking to you i think she is just waiting for you to ask her out and finally the only reason she takes a while to answer you is because she is talking to other people as well.... (read in full...)
Am I being silly or do I have a reason to be irritated?
Q. Given all the questions about photos of ex's on this site I thought I would throw my own worry into the mix. My boyfriend has pictures on his computer of his ex posing very provocatively in her underwear, touching herself, naked, bent over,etc...
A. 28 November 2007: Yes i think you do have a very big reason to be irretated and if it was me i would have been very insulted aswell. By looking at those pictures you may aswell say that he is cheating on you. I dont see why you dont play him at his own game and see ... (read in full...)
What can I say to get her attention?
Q. This is only a short question, where I live, I catch the tram into the city centre as I live 12 miles outside of the city and the tram is in the bus station where I live and there is a small paper shop there. I've been there the last 2 mornings and ...
A. 28 November 2007: You could actually tell her that you think she has a nice smile or make a comment on something shes wearing or you could just go into the shop and by something and start a conversation with her.... (read in full...)
Men!!! Why are they so confusing?
Q. Men! why are they confusing, ok.. I am happy happy happy wid my boyf..4 years..we have ups and downs..but all good..! we both share the same best mate..he use to be my boyfs best pal..but now hes mine too! we have a laugh..and when i first met...
A. 28 November 2007: Well most men like to brag to their friends ( ooooo i got asked out by who ever) dont no why tho suppose makes them feel good but also maybe that little debate you and him had about who asked who well i suppose he could be tryin to say something ... (read in full...)
I really need your help...
Q. My bf dumped me after he found out his best friend, who has a gf himself, had kissed me once at school when he wasn't around. My ex now says that his friend kissed me because he likes me but is just afraid to say so (besides kissing me, he had also ...
A. 28 November 2007: hiya sweetie,
if you tell his gf it could just make things worse than they are. If you want to get with your ex's best friend then maybe you and him could walk home from school together on your own and if he starts a conversation with you just talk... (read in full...)
?She needs space what do I do?
Q. Hi there, my girlfriend for 5 months now needs space but she says she loves me. It's been about a week now and she texts me I do miss you. Why is that she told me that she needed to be single for a while and be on here own and she can't be my ...
A. 28 November 2007: Obviousley she wants to be with you but she may be thinking about her commitment to you and what her feelings are. Every girl needs space, maybe you could ask her how she feels and what she wants out of the relationship just maybe you and her might ... (read in full...)
I know what I deserve and it's not to be "the other woman" or someone's "play thing..."
Q. Trying to keep this short, I was in a relationship with "Frank" for a while before it went down hill and he cheated, we split. We were the best of friends prior to dating and did our best to stay friends through everything. Over the past year we ...
A. 28 November 2007: Yes you are right you dont deserve to be the other woman or someones play thing no one does and i know how that feels. But from what you said about him obviousley he still has feelings for you but it shouldnt have took an illness for him to call you ... (read in full...)
My ex wants us to be friends with benefits, but we never had sex during our 7 year relationship, help me figure this out?
Q. This is the situation. I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago after a 7 year relationship. I cheated on her and I know I was wrong for doing so. We had been together all that time without having sex and I felt the need for intamcy. Thats a ...
A. 28 November 2007: i would just stop the contact even as friends she is using you and no one deserves that.... (read in full...)
Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such?
Q. My boyfiend and I are both virgins. We have talked about sex and decided we are ready for it. Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such? ...
A. 27 November 2007: My personal opinion no i dont think sex is a way of sayin i love you i just think its a way of saying i trust you. Love comes from the heart and your expressions not from your assets.... (read in full...)
Do you think I may have caught an STD from him and how would this be and how would this be if we have been faithful to each other?
Q. Hi I was wondering if you guys will help me? I have a spot inside the lips of my vagina and I am very worried. I have been with my fella for 6 weeks, and both of us are faithful to each other. I had sex with him last Sunday and we also take precau...
A. 27 November 2007: You could have caught the STD off him if he has cheated but if you take precaution maybe you havent it could just be nothing but got and get checked out just in case....... (read in full...)
I found photos of her naked ex in our room!
Q. I (we've) got a little problem (or not). My wife is always very honest with me. She has never slept with anyone but me, but I know the first names of a few guys she dated and fooled around with some prior to me. Anyway, we bought our house a little ...
A. 27 November 2007: well yes it is her past life and also by the looks of things its making you feel insecure so yes if you want to talk about it with her talk about it but dont go over the top, obviousley they have been there for a wile so maybe she did forget about ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's boyfriend, and he likes me too! Help!
Q. Hi A few weeks ago my friend started to date this boy. I new him but i never spoke to him before. I thought i might aswell talk to him cause i would be seeing alot of him cause he was dating my best friend. I said hi and we started to tlk o...
A. 27 November 2007: You must ask yourself did you notice him much before your friend started to date him? Did you really think about him before? But also you need to be very careful because he could also be trying to drive a wedge between you and your best friend he ... (read in full...)
Was it just a kiss, just this once?!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. Last week he kissed a girl that works at the gas station by his house. He's told me before that he's cheated on all of his girlfriends from the past, but that he didn't think he could do it to me. How do I ...
A. 27 November 2007: Maybe it was just a kiss this once? If the feelings are strong between you both you and him will find a way to make this work but you and him will have to sit down and talk about this together. Yes, there could be a way to rebuild the trust but it ... (read in full...)
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