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I'm feeling insecure about my looks. Can you help?

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Question - (5 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am feeling so ugly right now.

All my life i wanted pretty fetures. i have nice ears... great...

but i have a HUGE nose and nostrils and a horrble double chin.. ok tripple chin.....

i feel so ugly.. even though many think im not.. and sometimes i can feel attractive.. overall compared to everyone else with their button noses and firm jaw lines i feel so fugly..

how do i get rid of a double chin? im not over weight.. im not skinny either but im not over weight.

i cant highlight my eyes to draw attention away from my nose because it dosnt work, i just look dirty or like im trying too hard.. im only 16 but people think im 23 sometimes.. it's getting to the point where its actually annoying that people think im that old.

i look so horrible and feel horrible...

somebody please tell me how to get rid of my chin(s) !!!

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A female reader, Megan Deetes United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2007):

Megan Deetes agony auntOnce you combat the issues that make you feel so ugly your self esteem can fly :) we've all been there, the best way to target a big nose is to get a full fringe, this can all depend on your face sahpe etc etc. Next time you go to the hair dressers ask about the most flattering hairstlye not the one you like the best because something this simple can detract soo much attention. As for your double chins plastic surgery is a last resort and then you'd have to get parental consent and councelling and spend alot of money a much better way would be these 5 ways i found on a website :D

http://ezinearticles.com/?5-Ways-to-Lose-a-Double-Chin&id=757276

Give it a shot good luck

Message me if you need an ego boost or just want to talk xxxxxxxx

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A female reader, -Colour-Me-Sober- United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2007):

-Colour-Me-Sober- agony auntNearly almost everyone doesn't like their features or themselves in general.

The truth is you are who you are. When others say that you are pretty, believe them. What you think about yourself isn't what other people see and until you realise that then you're going to feel worse.

Plus, it's not the looks that count. It's the personality. Most popular 'good' looking guys I know are right snobs.

If it helps, take some time to yourself. Mess about with your hair and just go crazy with make-up and have a laugh to yourself. Pampering helps too. Just take time to love yourself

Good Luck =]

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (6 December 2007):

Danielepew agony auntThis may not be the answer you want to hear, but I hope it will help you.

A girlfriend of mine used to have a crush on Jean-Claude van Damme. Of course I don't look like him at all. I understood I had to stop worrying about not being the best at everything, including looks. I wouldn't be happy, and she wouldn't, either. If my looks weren't enough for her, well, she'd better dump me. That is not what happened.

An attractive personality is much more of an asset than simple looks. Where I live, we had an ad with a very pretty woman, yes, who said that she worried more about what she said, rather than what she looked like. "Because", the ad went on, "what I have here (the head) stays with me and doesn't get any wrinkles".

Hope this helps.

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