Porn video sent to me, how will g/f react?
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for over 1 year and 6 months and she wanted me to give up p*rn after we first had intercourse which i understand but i failed about 4 times breaking her heart which made me relise what a twat ive been about it and for ...
A. 17 February 2011: What is so wrong about porn? the more you forbid it the more tempting it becomes. I'm a girl and I LOVE porn, me and my partner use it as inspiration for our intercourse, it's not like im attracted to the guys or like hs is looking at it for the ... (read in full...)
My husband's child and the mother from a past relationship are back in our lives...the child stays with us every weekend, and my life is pretty much over!
Q. Two years ago I got married for the second time. My husband has a child from a previous relationship and all the time we have been married and for all the time the child has been born the mother and the child have lived in the US. The child who is ...
A. 5 February 2011: I understand your frustration, I experienced something similar. Sadly you have to either accept it or move on. when you married him you took him with his child. You dont have to take his ex or anything, but when you marry someone you marry their ... (read in full...)
I hit my girlfriend, is it my fault or hers?
Q. im 15 ma girlfriends 14 were in the same year but im not proud of what i did but i need some advice me and my girlfriend were arguing after something that happened at school i kinda said she was flirting with my bestmate because she was hugging him ...
A. 28 January 2011: OBVIOUSLY is just fault. There is NO REASON to hit a woman. On the future one of them will be smart take it to the police and make you pay.
DONT ever do it. Would YOU LIKE ANOTHER MAN SLAPPING YOUR MOM?
Think about it.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend told me if I don't stop calling so much he will dump me!
Q. Dear Cupid I kind of panicked today since my bf of an year was heavily flirting with an other girl in IM. I snooped around his computer ( i know i shouldnt have done), and found out this and panicked and tried to call him 4-5 times within 4 h...
A. 26 January 2011: Your chances?
He just seems to use you and manipulate you as his toy...
He cheats on you. YES ONLINE HEAVY FLIRTING IS CHEATING. It would upset anybody...
Are you sure this is what you want? Feeling like this? Like you have to ask permissi... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend get so mad last night?
Q. why did my boyfriend get so mad last night?? maybe because its not true or its true... we dated since 1998 and i want to know why we aren't married.. so i was reading 25 ways to know hes not that into you and he got almost all of them. i let him ...
A. 18 January 2011: I would not be with someone that gets enraged and throws me out for something so silly. If he doesnt beilvie in marriage you should respect that. Dont you wish to be married with someone that actually DESIRES it with all of their hearts?
But t... (read in full...)
Should I try to start this relationship or wait until we can be around each other?
Q. So here it is guys. I have been talking over the phone with this guy for a few years now and I have just recently realized how much I care about him but what can I do? we live 5 1/2 hours away from each other and to top it off I've never seen him in ...
A. 18 January 2011: Take it easy...there is no need to rush it... take advantage of this situation to get to know him, if you are both serious, first see what is the chance of you guys being ever together...and know yourself, and if you are willing to commit and work ... (read in full...)
Have you ever had to make up your mind? Did you ever have to finally decide?
Q. Here is my problem, Agony Aunts: I am in a relationship where I am between a rock and a hard place. There are things I like about the girl (her looks, her sweetness, her intelligence, the thrill I get when I see her) and things that I can't stand (s...
A. 18 January 2011: As caringGuy states she is not sweet jsut manipulative.
When I was in a similar situation, things got so bad I was even scared of leaving the house because he would manipulate and make me feel guilty.
My solution? I out the pants on and tol... (read in full...)
How can a man reject his baby daughter for his new GF? Is this just a phase? He says our baby will ruin his new relationship.
Q. how can a man reject his child for another women? We were together over 6 years and i fell pregant. Soon as he heard, he did a runner. Three months later he's in a serious relationship with another girl. They are going abroad together. His child ...
A. 18 January 2011: Sigh.
My father did not want anymore kids when I was born so he did not really want me in his life because I did not fit into his plans. There is a horrible feeling that comes with this kind of "rejection" . If he doesn't want anything to do with ... (read in full...)
He blames me for everything. Puts me down. I really love him. But what am I supposed to do about HIS behavior?
Q. I am a 36 year old gay bloke who has been with my partner for over 18 months. In november my partner moved to be near my family and i moved into the house with him. Ever since we have been together he can get moody, and when in a bad mood will put ...
A. 18 January 2011: Oh sweetheart! I'm so sorry you are going through this!
Was he always like this? Don't you think that maybe you are in love with the idea of him? With whom he was before? You do not deserve someone who puts you down and I would advice you to s... (read in full...)
How do I make my father realize I'm not a little kid any more?
Q. I still live with my parents. I just got out of high school, and i'm rooming here until college. But i had my boyfriend over. And we wanted to watch a movie. So we got online and found one on netflix. We got on the couch and cuddled. And we had a ...
A. 18 January 2011: Sorry to hear that.
It's your parents rules. If they dislike you under the covers with your bf, you kind of have to suck it up because you are living under their rules. If you are in the living room, and just under a blanket and they flipped ... (read in full...)
I want this relationship to work so badly but because of the distance we cant see each other! What should I do?
Q. I have a problem. I alaways find girls i like and that like me. This time i found one i auctally see myself obsessing about her. I have extreame feelings for her more than any person i have ever met. These feelings i didnt even know quite what was...
A. 7 January 2011: Aww sweety! This happens a lot, but don't you think that maybe you are attracted to the thought of rescuing her and idealizing her. Long distance is EXTREMELY difficult even if you have the time and resources to see each other, and you don't have ... (read in full...)
He touches himself and then denies it!
Q. my boyfriend knows about my 1st relationship and how screwed up it made me especially being so young and finding my bf/baby daddy watching porn and jacking off instead of getting it from me.there were other sexual traumas but this alone affected me ...
A. 7 January 2011: If he does it once in a while I don't think he is a sex addict.I'm sorry you feel this way but you cannot change his preferences. If he rather watch pron than be with you I would understand why you are upset, but if he does this in his private time ... (read in full...)
I am only really attracted to guys, but I know I want to get married and have children! What should I do?
Q. Hi, My problem is a bit convoluted, and I'm so conflicted over it that I just had to 'talk' to someone, but not anyone I knew. So I've known for some years now that I might like guys (I'm a guy) and the usual things that happen when one does...
A. 7 January 2011: Oh! darling! You are still young! But if when you grow up more and you start to thnk to have kids..and girl are not your cup of tea, don't even do it! :) There is no need to deicieve a woman or live unhappy with a life that is not for you...
... (read in full...)
Would any men be weirded out that their girlfriend donated her eggs?
Q. I've been considering donating my eggs and have been "preliminarily accepted," meaning that I've filled out my application and sent pictures; and now they want to interview me face-to-face. While I've considered all aspects of it and now that I'm ...
A. 7 January 2011: Hello! Have you seen the movie, "The Back -Up plan"? It seems similar to your story. She goes ahead with insemination and once inseminated meets a guy she falls for. It is quite funny, (IMO) and it could maybe help you or give you a smile :) Maybe ... (read in full...)
Would any men be weirded out that their girlfriend donated her eggs?
Q. I've been considering donating my eggs and have been "preliminarily accepted," meaning that I've filled out my application and sent pictures; and now they want to interview me face-to-face. While I've considered all aspects of it and now that I'm ...
A. 7 January 2011: Hello! Have you seen the movie, "The Back -Up plan"? It seems similar to your story. She goes ahead with insemination and once inseminated meets a guy she falls for. It is quite funny, (IMO) and it could maybe help you or give you a smile :) Maybe ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can tame this Mr. Big, but Aidan might be too sensitive!
Q. Hello! Well, here it goes: some time ago I met an incredible guy and since the first moment I saw him I knew I would end up with him (basic instict!). That very day we started flirting, but at some point I was literally forced by him to confess h...
A. 7 January 2011: Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr... Carrie was pathetic, and always following the stereotype that girls are the bad boy's doormat and that they can control them like dolls.
If you like the sex, and is just lust go ahead.
If you want something more, ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over this unhealthy relationship?
Q. I was with my ex for 14 years. However, for the last 4 years we had a purely platonic relationship. This ws difficult for me as sex had always been important to me. We eventually split - relatively amicable too. VERY shrtly afterwards I was ...
A. 6 January 2011: I think it shows that you are smart, when you asked her to leave. I am assuming she is within your age range and at that age playing games is not really mature at all. It s emotional abuse, and she may do this to have you eating out of her hand and ... (read in full...)
Planning on losing my virginity but scared about a lot of things!
Q. Im 13 year old and im planning to loose my virginity to a 16 year old soon ! Dont know what to do! I love him but i got doubts im scared he'll leave me or change towards me , i honestly am confused , his never offered for sex but i feel like i am...
A. 6 January 2011: Hello! I could not help but notice you are Colombian! Well, as Colombian descent myself I would like to advise you that you should go or call to the nearest ProFamilia available, Profamilia is a planned parenthood free clinic, they are EXTREMELY ... (read in full...)
What motivates a man to say "I love you"?
Q. Hey, sorry if this question sounds stupid. I'd like your advice on guy's motives for saying I love you. I've been with my bf 5 months, he's great-caring, kind, funny, sexy, intelligent, thoughtful. He told me last week that he loves me, and said ...
A. 6 January 2011: Hey =) I just read a really interesting Article here on Dear Cupid that you may find interesting: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/10-fail-safe-tips-to-bag-that-guy.html
It is related to your topic. I have a rule of not saying the L word fir... (read in full...)
10 fail-safe tips to bag that guy... Men, take note!
Q. How will you ever discover how to make a guy fall in love with you? What things attract a guy and keep him interested? Do you have the information to reach a guy's heart? Men are perplexing and most women just don't understand them. Here are some ...
A. 6 January 2011: So true!! =) My current BF actually stated that. "Please don't EVER , ever change to please me, I love that most about you, that you are yourself and that you state your opinions and get feisty when needed.Dont change okay?" At first I did not ... (read in full...)
How do I move up the social ladder when I'm at the way bottom?
Q. I need some serious help here. I'm 17 yrs old, a junior in high school and I have never been on a date or kissed in my entire life. I don't know anything about boys. Also, I'm a "social outcast". I don't have any let's hang out friends. I spend my ...
A. 6 January 2011: Hehe! :) oh HS years! Well, being kissed or going out on a date does not have anything to do with being popular or being in a social ladder! =) I am a very shy person, and I used to have the same probs. One day I said, well they have to take me as ... (read in full...)
Can an online romance ever turn from friend to lover?
Q. I recently met someone online who pursued me like crazy for about a month, we had a great mental connection as he could even finish my sentences for me. Well before meeting we ended up having virtual sex online. Just describing what ...
A. 6 January 2011: Hmmm... well.. I can understand your dilemma. It is great that you got along IRL , but I know you understand how intimacy is linked to emotions.
I think the answer comes more from what you feel.
If you are not interested in a relationship wit... (read in full...)
Can an online romance ever turn from friend to lover?
Q. I recently met someone online who pursued me like crazy for about a month, we had a great mental connection as he could even finish my sentences for me. Well before meeting we ended up having virtual sex online. Just describing what ...
A. 6 January 2011: Hmmm... well.. I can understand your dilemma. It is great that you got along IRL , but I know you understand how intimacy is linked to emotions. I think the answer comes more from what you feel. If you are not interested in a relationship wit... (read in full...)
How can we make it work?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years and really aren't getting on. He doesn't have a job and isn't able to pay rent and no matter what I say he doesn't get one, he just says yeah I'll go tomorrow! I'm not sure what to do ...
A. 6 January 2011: Oh gosh, I am so so sorry this is happening to you. Something similar happened to me as well! We were also going about for about the same time and we had the same prob, he did not work because of school or so he said and spent the whole day playing ... (read in full...)
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