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I'm 16. Should I see a relationship counsellor to get over boys from my past?
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 15 and we have been together for 7 months but have been friends for 3 years.We don't argue so much but in this one argument he turned around and said that i need to see a counsellor as he thought that i needed to sort my ...
A. 21 January 2006: heya, if you go and see a counsellor then you may be a weaker person later on. all your future relationships may be more hurtful and agonising which might result worse than now. you can't go and see a counsellor everytime things look a little rough. ... (read in full...)
I've decided to break up whatever it is we have going, until he can tell me what he wants. Good idea or not?
Q. There's a friend that I've know for years. We always flirt with one another, until last month when we kissed. Since then we are constantly seeing one another. But he's in a relatoniship. I don't expect him to get up and leave, but I need him to tell ...
A. 21 January 2006: well theres not much you can do. as you say you've given him the choice now the balls in his court. if he doesn't want his girlfriend, at least you can remain friends. if you like him and miss him as much as you say then fight for him. but if hes ... (read in full...)
My family just can't come to grips with my choice to use my maiden name, even though I'm married...
Q. I've got a real problem with my family members. I got divorced some time ago and made sure the divorce judgement specified that I would return to using my maiden name. Again and again I've told my family members that I am using my maiden name and ...
A. 18 January 2006: you need to properly confront your family and say that this doesn't just anger you but it hurts you also. this is your decision, your name, you life. state that to them. say you are not doing this for a 'trend,' your doing it for personal reasons. ... (read in full...)
Out of four months, we've only be alone together for two hours! Does she really love me?
Q. I'm in a relationship with this girl, and at first things were going great! We are a young couple. I'm 18 and she's 17, but we both said we love each other and I would do anything for her. But out of a 4 month relationship we've only spent 2 hours ...
A. 18 January 2006: all what i'm about to say is based on personal experience. there may be something in your girlfriends past thats haunting her e.g. been broken hearted in the past. if you haven't already, talk to her about it. if you have already and its like ... (read in full...)
Never realised what I had until it was gone! Now I can't get used to being with any other girl. Do I try to get back with my ex?
Q. Hello there, I was hoping somebody out there could give me some advice. I finished my ex girlfriend of 3 years about 8 months ago due to a few problems we were having. Basicaly it got a bit tiring doing the same thing over and over every nigh...
A. 18 January 2006: you and your ex must have broke up for a big reason not just a few problems. there must have been something inside you telling you that the relstionship wasn't right. i think you should leave it, girls moan about it all the time how guys just are so ... (read in full...)
Our 16 year old son is with a 43 year old woman...what do we do?
Q. Recently me and my husband found out that our 16-year-old son has been dating a 43-year-old woman and has got engaged to her. We asked our son if this was true, and he said it was. He told us he is talking of getting engaged to her and havin...
A. 17 January 2006: that's quite a situation. well you can't stop him really, technically he isnt a minor anymore. i'm sure its just a phase. i mean he can't get married at his age anyway, not until hes 18 and then he would have probably thought about going clubbing ... (read in full...)
She's having a baby but I'm not sure I'm ready!
Q. im 20 and my girlfriend is 18 and we have just found out we are having a baby! im not ready to leave home yet and cant afford a place of our own. her parents wont allow her to live at home if she has this baby. i love my girlfriend but sometimes ...
A. 17 January 2006: you need to talk to her, i no these feelings are so far from being your fault but this isnt fair, this girl is about to give up maybe the next 18 years of her life thinking that your behind her the whole way. it sounds like shes made her mind up ... (read in full...)
She loves someone else and I just can't forget her.. I want some advice before something terrible happens to me.
Q. Dear Friends, it's the first time i am feeling weak in my life, i don't say i am a superman, but till now i was controling everything in life. i thought initiatly perhaps naively that i would not fall in love simply because this special girl jus...
A. 11 January 2006: i don't no how long ago you split but trust me you will get over her. i can't help you forget her cause basically you never will, but i can help you get over her if my advice is for you. take lots of soothing baths, be with family regularly, take ... (read in full...)
He doesn't care about her, I do so what can I do??
Q. i really like this girl. but my friend is dateing her, but her only wants to "score" with her, and i want more, like to grow old and stuff. i stick up for her and like her more than my friend does that but she dont no. what should i do?...
A. 11 January 2006: i think you should talk to your mate, hes treating herand probably all other women like toys! its discrimination! girls love to have big romantic gestures! like go to her house and say listen he doesn't like you the way i do! then walk towards her ... (read in full...)
23 years between us. Could it work out if we really love each other?
Q. Do you think that a 23 year age difference is ok?? I'm 17 and he's 40, and he says that he really loves me, and while I don't think I love him yet (we've only known each other a few months) I do really care about him and can't stop thinking about ...
A. 11 January 2006: thats kind of tricky. love conquers all. but if a long term thing is what you want, like marriage and stuff then i don't think its the best idea, i know it may be hard to hear this especially if you've heard it off other people but ts true. as you ... (read in full...)
How do I get over him, when I don't want to?
Q. Hi I have been in a relationship for 5 and a half years. We lived together for approx. 4 years. During this time we had loads of argument and he asked me to leave a few times. Now he asked me to leave in December and I left but I just cannot g...
A. 10 January 2006: ooo deary me. its hard if you don't want to release him from your system but when hes out of your head its worth it. lots of retail theropy, baths, time to yourself, quality time with your family, lots of walks to think, and the best thing i think ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are in a comfort zone, but a new girl has just entered the picture. How to choose?
Q. I'm a 20 year old male who's been in a relationship with my 17 year old g/f for about two full years now. Things in our relationship have always been pretty well but lately it just seems that we've been having trouble communicating. She has admi...
A. 10 January 2006: well maybe your current relationship has just ran its course. by the sounds of things your gf will b heart broken because of you being her first love but it will kill her even more if she knows whats really going on inside your head. my advice is ... (read in full...)
We're both 13 and we want to experiment with sex more. Any suggestions?
Q. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is also 13.We have been together for a couple of months now and really want to do more. We've thought about sex(and condoms)but i wouldn't really feel comftable. I do wanna do more sexual stuff but i don't know what?...
A. 10 January 2006: don't through your body away to anyone. theres plenty of sexual activities that you can do but sexual activities can become uncontrolled and things can get out of hand. just make sure you don't go too far. your very young and your virginity and body ... (read in full...)
I feel too young to be tied down...
Q. i am 17 yrs old i love my bf but i feel like i am getting tied down too quickly i want to be with him but just not yet! it would brake his heart if i broke up with him! what should i do?...
A. 10 January 2006: all great love stories start at a young age. but your right, you have your whole life ahead of you. maybe you should wait until your relationship has ran its course a bit. otherwise talk to him, it may break his heart but in the end its your ... (read in full...)
My ex wants me back but he's controlling and makes me cry. Should I go back to him?
Q. I am still in love with my ex boyfriend who would take me back in a second, but when I am with him he often talks to me badly, tries to control everything I do and often makes me cry. I know he loves me alot but I do not know if it is worth putting ...
A. 10 January 2006: if you go back to this guy you will gain no confidence! you'll probably lose confidence instead. you'll love again trust! life's too short to go through hating it. you say he tries to control you and often makes you cry, anybody that makes you cry ... (read in full...)
This boy says he loves me even though he hasn't met me.Should I leave my current bf for this guy?
Q. I am a 16 year old girl with a 20 year old boyfriend. but i have recently met a 16 year old guy that says he knows i am the one and that he loves me even though he has never met me. my boyfriend has cheated on me before and we broke up for about a ...
A. 10 January 2006: Well its hard to love someone if you havn't met but anythings possible and love conquers all. you say you broke up with your current boyfriend because he cheated on you, if the relationship didnt work before hand, the second time rarely works out. ... (read in full...)
Met a guy on the dating site but after he seen my photo..he said it just wouldn't work out. Help me understand.
Q. I've been chatting to a guy I met on an internet dating web site we decided to send photo's. when I did this he responded to me by sending this message:- 'You look really nice, but unfortunately you also look remarkably similar to someone I know v...
A. 8 January 2006: the guy sounds genuine. maybe hes recently broken up with someone and its still a sore subject for him. and if it is your looks (which I'm quite sure its not) he obviously isn't everything you hoped he would be. please don't let your confidence be ... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep my mistress's interest in sex alive?
Q. I am in my 40s and have been married for 26 years. During this time i have had a number of affairs but now i have found a woman i have been in a relationship with for over 3 years. My wife has poor health and I have work related ties. I have ...
A. 8 January 2006: im helping you for a reason and its only because i know that this will come back on you. you are a disgrace to the male species and should realise what you've got. anyway but its what i'm here for, maybe you should spice up your sexlife with this ... (read in full...)
My gf is getting cold feet about moving in with me...I'm not pushing her into it. Is there anything else I can do?
Q. hi!, I have been with my patner for 5 months, we have been talking about me moving in for about 3 months,I have always known she has a problem with commitment (never commited before). We get on really well and love eachother loads, but suddenly she ...
A. 8 January 2006: if shes never been committed before she probably afraid of messing it up too. it does seem that five months isn't a long time so maybe thats what shes thinking. if she loves you, she'll want to take things slow and carefully, so withdraw the ... (read in full...)
My girl doesn't want a boyfriend when we go to college, but I know she still loves me a little!
Q. My girlfriend is going to college and has always told herself she didn't want a boyfriend in college. At this point we are both 18 and have been dating for a year and a half. When we started dating, she fell hard for me, yet I didn't want to get ...
A. 7 January 2006: hi, your girlfriend seems to act like she knows what she wants but doesn't seem to have her mind totally made up. don't push her into making a decision tht YOU want give her time to figure out what she wants. college is a big step and either way no ... (read in full...)
My physics teacher still leers at me and makes suggestive remarks. I think I'm falling for her!
Q. I think a teacher fancies me. I am 16 and in 6th form and ahe is about 45. When I was in year 11 my physics teacher used to wear low cut tops, showing her breasts and every lesson she would stand opposite and bend over the desk and help me with my ...
A. 5 January 2006: i know this is really direct but don't do it. talk to anybody else about these feelings but her. because if she responded then she could be prosecuted and sacked! my advice is to avoid her or in you head list everything that you dislike about her. ... (read in full...)
Am I a wuss? I just want my girlfriends to be happy!
Q. Why can't I keep a girlfriend? I'm an attractive and very outgoing guy who is very carefree in relationships but I am unable to keep a girlfriend for a significant amount of time. A serious and successful relationship is the one thing I am looking ...
A. 5 January 2006: hi, its nothing that your doing in these relationships. but im going to be honest some girls don't like really laid back outgoing guys and thts what it seems like you are but everybodies different. you put your girlfriends happiness before yours ... (read in full...)
My partner wants to remain friends after our split, but I can't stand the stress and pain!
Q. I have recently split with my partner (his decision), and he has already found someone else. He wants to remain good friends, but the jealousy and pain is eating me up. I loath his new person without ever speaking to him or meeting him. My ex ...
A. 5 January 2006: you can get over your partner in two ways, the hard and slow way or the slightly quicker and less painful way. if you do it the hard way your going to tear yourself apart, if you do it the other way you can get over your ex quicker and not watch ... (read in full...)
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