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I have lived in a large number of places in the past two decades, but I mostly identify myself with the Appalachian region and midAtlantic coast of the United States. I have been through a lot for my age, but I don't think it makes me any lesser or greater than my peers. I believe that the struggles we recieve in life are a test of character to prove our worthiness for the great blessings that surely lie ahead in our futures. |
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I want him to tell his ex about us., whereas he says he doesn't want to hurt her. Should I be suspicious?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for 4 months. He was with someone when we met but finished their relationship to be with me. His ex now has been texting him daily, and he has been replying. After a secret quick inspection of his phone I found out ...
A. 14 April 2008: If you honestly don't feel like you can absolutely trust this man, is he worth your time? If you really think he's playing then you should probably ditch him. Me, I simply wouldn't be with someone I didn't trust or that I didn't have intent to ... (read in full...)
My wife likes endless fondling and foreplay with no sex. Any advice?
Q. My wife likes to fondle. She loves to play with my penis (teasingly, really) every chance she gets. On my days off, she would want me to sit with her for hours sometimes just to talk and fondle. I accommodate her a lot. Playing with my penis, she ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hmmm...I can't exactly give answers on this one, but I am curious as to how much sexual experience she has had in the past. Only within the marriage, or has she been with other men before? Is she somewhat younger than you? Hopefully I don't sound ... (read in full...)
I would never want to be 'the other guy', so how do I go about putting my feelings on hold?
Q. I am a 29 year old man who has never been married or anywhere near that point. The problem is well i have this friend who i talk to every single day before i go to work. She makes me smile and we flirt like crazy. The problem is that she is marr...
A. 14 April 2008: If you think you can carry on in a friendly manner then you should feel fine and comfortable to flirt, and not feel guilty about finding joy in her company. If it gets to the point where you don't think you can find the patience any more or that you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a bad pot head, am I stupid to stick it out?
Q. My boyfriend is a bad pot head and sometimes he is the sweetest ever and other times he flips out on me for no reason. I have told him its over a few times but he always ends up coming round my house. Often in tears. So I feel bad and give him a ...
A. 7 April 2008: Do you smoke pot yourself? Just wondering.
Me, I never smoke(d) pot, but I dated a few guys who did. While their company was enjoyable enough and I learned a little on how to be in a relationship...these guys are all deadbeats and a waste of time.... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of going back into something with a guy who just doesn't love me enough.
Q. How often does a guy call if he's really interested in getting back together? My ex told me he wants to try again - that he thinks he's matured and things could be different. I told him I needed to take things slow and have some time to think about ...
A. 7 April 2008: Go for it, girl! I hope that you address your issues, honest and open before getting into anything, but if he was the love of your life than this is definitely something worth fighting for, especially if it is something he has come to YOU about! ... (read in full...)
My health is being effected by my breakup--please help!
Q. Please help me, I have been crying for the past four hours. I am having a hard time "getting over" me ex. We were together for eight months, most of that time it was long-distance, but we were pretty much head over heels for one another right wh...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey everyone,
Thanks for all of the well thought replies, I do appreciate it.
For a time at the beginning of the year I did not seek out therapy, which put an ultimate hault to any recovery I was making and this is around the time our relatio... (read in full...)
I have a cousin who is 17 and hotttttt!!! I want to have sex with her!
Q. hi, i have a cousin she is 17 and hott. i want to have sex with her. when i was 8 we kinda just rubbed and felt each other. I jack off to pictures of her. what do i do? please....
A. 7 May 2007: First and foremost, stop wacking off to her pictures. This is nonsense and you know it. In fact, stop looking at her pictures completely for a while--this will ween your desire to further temp yourself. Once you take yourself out of that position ... (read in full...)
Please help, I feel my relationship is dead.
Q. Dear All I feel my relationship is dead :( Basically, I was in love for the first time with an amazing girl. I had never loved someone like I did her and I'm not one of your average under sixteen teenagers who has an alleged 'girl friend' eve...
A. 1 May 2007: I think you are stressing out over nothing. Take it easy! You are so nervous! It is obvious with your diction that you're more than the average "under sixteener" which also adds a lot more to your train of thought, in turn causing you to stress out ... (read in full...)
I'm angry at him for pressuring me to take my pants off, after I said NO! Any thoughts?
Q. I'm so confused. I am 18 years old and about 2 months ago started a relationship with a guy. We met through university. Anyway, he is my first real bf, my first kiss etc. Hes had 2 girlfriends before me and I assume hes had sex with them, but I ...
A. 16 April 2007: Sounds like you guys are not at all on the same wavelength. Does he know about your sex history, or lack thereof? I suspect he doesn't realize just how big of a deal this is for you, so when you get the chance to be alone, but not exactly in a place ... (read in full...)
I drunkenly cheated on my girlfriend. Do I tell her?
Q. Hi,I'm a 27 year old male and have been with my girlfriend for a year. After my 1st real love 4/5 years ago I had been single for about 3 1/2 years - i can't simply go out with anyone for the sake of it. Then I met my current girlfriend and it's ...
A. 7 April 2007: You have to tell her. I know it's hard, but in this sort of situation when you know it was the drink...? The sooner you can tell her the better. It's fresh on your mind just how disgusted you are with it, and your girlfriend will see that. If you ... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty and horrible for doing this behind her back, should I tell her?
Q. Hi, I'm a bad person, don't judge too harshly. I'm on vacation in England at the moment (I'm from America), and I'm visiting family. I've been spending lots of time with my cousin Diana and her fiance, Jesse, because they're close to my age and we...
A. 6 April 2007: No, you're exactly right with everything you've done so far, and everything you've taken in and decided from the situation. There's no need to tell your cousin, because soon you'll be far away and you won't have to worry about it. Nothing happened ... (read in full...)
I want to wait until marriage until I have sex, But im getting tempted lately as I love my BF, what do you think ?
Q. I want to wait until marriage to lose my virginity, for religious reasons, some, but mostly to protect my heart and out of fear of getting pregnant. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 years, and he's great. Lately, I've been thinking of ...
A. 5 April 2007: Have you talked with him about this? Also, does he have the same views as you, even if he's not a virgin himself?
Right now I think you're definantly not ready, and I believe that yes you are connected enough to engage in it and emotiona... (read in full...)
I've lost my confidence and mojo!
Q. I really dont know what to do. Normally I am a happy postive person who's always helping other people out. but lately i haven't felt like this person at all, I've felt this way for quite a while now, although others can't see it as i hide it well ...
A. 5 April 2007: Do you have a parent figure you can go to about this, or a mentor? Tell him or her about what you've been feeling, and let them know that even though they've seen you happy and carrying on fine, you're actually having thoughts that are continuously ... (read in full...)
The lad denied sleeping with me when the girl that doesnt like me asked him, everyone will think im lying!
Q. i slept with a lad and a girl who doesn't like me found out she rang him and asked him if it was true and he denied it.i feel that everyone is going to think i'm lying what shall i do? help...
A. 5 April 2007: ...Why was this being spread around in the first place? It sounds kind of shady...
But I'd advise just to keep cool and nonchalant about it. I don't really think that kind of talk should be office news in the first place, but as long as you keep... (read in full...)
He doesnt work, he spends his dole money on drink, so when it comes to going out I have to pay!!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend 1 year and 4 months. (We dont live together)I Only see him at weekends because we live in different places. The problem is he drinks. He doesnt work. When he gets his dole money the 1st thing he does his spend it on al...
A. 5 April 2007: Hmmm...I have a few questions, like how old is he? Does he live with his parents? Or is he supported by some sort of wealthy family from far off?
It sounds like this guy is probably interesting, but when it comes to responsabuity it's not his mant... (read in full...)
Im 17, she wont be 16 for 2 months, she wants to have sex, should we or should we wait ?
Q. I am 17 and my girl friend is 2 months away from being 16 and she wants to have sex. i think we should wait a while but she dose not want to wait. I am not going to lie I want to do. What should I do. ...
A. 2 April 2007: Make her wait. Why? A number of reasons. Sex is something to be shared, it is a gift that two people give to one another. If she wants sex, and is demanding sex when you feel that your relationship is not yet ready for it, she is obviously more i... (read in full...)
From the age of 7 I have had sex with my brother!!! I now think he loves his wife more than me and its killing me!!
Q. I had a sexual relation with my brother since 7 years at that time both of us were not married. I got married 4years ago and am having a child. my brother got married an year back and his wife too is expecting now. He stays far off from me and ...
A. 2 April 2007: This is something you need to get to a counsellor about and talk with. You're both married, so it's really not an option to sleep with anyone BUT your spouses from now on. It would be helpful to know how old your brother was when you were ... (read in full...)
He calls me names when things aren't good between us! I don't want to leave him so what should I do?
Q. me and boyfriend been going out for 2 years and i love him so much, but we agree almost everyday. i dont know what to do anymore but i cant leave him. he calls me names but when things are good it's good. when it's bad it goes over the top. i need ...
A. 2 April 2007: I'll be blunt: This isn't going to change. You don't deserve to be treated this way or called these names because it is ALL because of his insecurity with himself. Two years is a long time, but if things haven't already changed, I'm sorry to tell ... (read in full...)
With my boyfriend for 2 yrs, Sex is painful, I'm still a virgin, worried my relationship will end because of it! Please help!
Q. hi im 23yrs and have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs,we love each other very much and have a srtrong relationship only i have one major problem im finding it very painful to break my virginity weve tried loads of times but it hurts me to much,im ...
A. 2 April 2007: There are a number of things you all could do, if sex is really something you are wanting to happen. For one, hopefully he's done his research and can spend a long time heating you up before-hand. Also, perhaps you could share a glass or two of wine ... (read in full...)
With this measurements would you say Im fat ?
Q. Am i fat? I'm 5'7''. My Bust- is 34 My Waist is 27 My Hips- 38 My inside leg- 21 ...
A. 2 April 2007: No you're not fat. But fat, again, depends on your perception fo the word. I said it because based on the measurements you've listed. Mostly, though, I associate a fat person as someone who sits around and does nothing, no games, no projects, no ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if this time I really am " in Love " and its not like just like before ?
Q. hi im 20. ok i know this question gets asked alot recently but im not sure what to do. I dont know whether im in love or not and i know everyone says that when ur in love "you just know", but i feel like i am now but ive felt like this in the past ...
A. 2 April 2007: Love comes in many faces. Every person is different, and which each individual in the world you take on a seperate roll than with anyone else, even with lovers. If you feel like you love a person and genuinely enjoy who they are, what they're about ... (read in full...)
Our sex is getting boring, but I dont want to lose him as hes not making me complete, so how can we change this ?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are very sexual, yet I think that is all he thinks about now. I enjoy the sex, but it is gettin boring. We are stickin to the missionary position and I'm startin to lose feelin of it. He isn't "big down there", yet I love him so ...
A. 2 April 2007: Among other things, I'd simply advise not having sex as much. Ever heard the phrase "a party's not a party if it happens every night?" Because it seems that sex has become pretty regular for the two of you, it's more tooken for granted and not ... (read in full...)
Do I wait it out or give up?
Q. Do I wait it out or give up?? I have fallen very seriously for a close friend of mine... but he has a girlfriend of 2 1/2 years (I've only known him about 6 months). I know he likes me; we spend A LOT of time together, he constantly texts me, and ...
A. 30 March 2007: This is a bad situation. Try to not feel "that way" for this guy, because even when long relationships break up and a partner immediately hits it off with someone else there's scandal. Believe me, I know.
As long as he's with his girlfrie... (read in full...)
I dumped her and now find, I want her back. But she will not agree to this. How do I win her back?
Q. I finished with my girlfriend a couple months ago after a argument we had been together a year. After a few weeks of not being in touch I really missed her so decided to get in touch and we met up but she told that I had left it to late and she did ...
A. 30 March 2007: She is wounded from what happened, whatever it was. Not she finds it hard to open up again. This was a great loss for her, and she is afraid of losing more. But if you're confident that you can spare her life grief and you can make her happy, ... (read in full...)
She goes abroad for 15 months soon..should we break up or do I stay hopeful she'll come back to me?
Q. my girlfriend and I met at university and have been going out for just over a year. We were really good friends for a while before taking that next, daunting step into a relationship. I am in real need of some advice. Although we have only known ...
A. 30 March 2007: Hey there--wow, sounds like a lot of stress your putting yourself through! I hope that this is not on your mind so much right now and that you're able to enjoy this time you have with her NOW instead of worrying about the "what ifs" of the future. ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me! I'm hurt so should I leave her alone or contact her?
Q. should i try to contact her? hi there, was seeing this girl for about 7 months. we were getting on well and i thought happy. we went away for a long-haul holiday and we had loads of fun and romance. 2 days after our return, she txt me to say sh...
A. 30 March 2007: I agree with Dagwood on this, in regards to what you should do. But I have something else to contribute. Your romantic get-away sounds like it was a blast, but perhaps for her she began realizing just how close the two of you are getting, and may... (read in full...)
She said lets move on, but still wont stop contacting me!? Im confused!
Q. Hi just want some advice on a relathiship with my now ex-girlfriend. I lived in Ireland and came to visit my gran while here i met a girl, she said she would like to get to know me so it would be better if i moved over here to England, i dd and when...
A. 30 March 2007: She was just being polite to you. She's not interested in getting with you again, but it sounds to me like she moved on way before you, since romanticism is still on your mind and she seems to've not been thinking along those lines for a long time ... (read in full...)
I told her that I wanted us to move on...but she still calls me! Does she not get it?
Q. If you are a girl and your ex-boyfiend says its time to move on say in a text or Email. Would you move on or would you still phone him, even though he says move on? I thought move on means move on its over leave me alone, just that my ex-girlfriend ...
A. 30 March 2007: I don't know that I can believe you are the age listed if you used those words, and especially through something like a text message. Nonetheless... "Move on" can be more versatile than you think. Sure it could mean time to see other people, bu... (read in full...)
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