This, in my mind, has broken my trust for my fiance.
Q. I am very much in love with a man and we are about to get married quite soon. I have been married before and I bought my first husband a very expensive watch which he left behind when he left me. I gave my fiance the watch to sell for me as he know...
A. 28 March 2009: Yeah i think your over reacting big time. Look at it this way, the watch is a symbol of your previous marriage. Which i assumed until i continued reading your post, that you were well and truly past. Clearly not. So what if some one else you know... (read in full...)
Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?
Q. I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around ...
A. 19 March 2009: Well if your that crazy about him why havent you asked him how he feels? Sit down and have a chat, or else withstand more months of this.
I cant tell you how you feel, only you know. Get your feelings out in the open and work from there. If he st... (read in full...)
Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?
Q. I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around ...
A. 19 March 2009: But if he knows how you feel, and if he was in any way a good friend and conscientious of your feelings, he would have told you his feelings straight away. It seems to me as if hes shy or just doesnt feel the same way for you.
I dont want to sound... (read in full...)
What do you think is his purpose?
Q. hey there, me and my ex boyfriend broke up last october 13, 2008. i really cried hard because i really love him, even though he hurt me for several times, i still love him. now, i wanted to befriend him, when we talked via im, he told me that he regr...
A. 16 March 2009: Maybe he actually does want to do all these things? He could be genuinley sorry for the hurt, and wants to make up.
Or else, he could be just looking for sex. You wont know until you speak with him.
Another thing, if it is sex hes looking for,... (read in full...)
Is this a good idea?
Q. Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weev bin goin out for five months now, and in a few days itll be our sixth month, this one's gonna b special cuz its also my bday! I need to kno if this is a good present idea, im gonna buy her a meaningful ring, not too ...
A. 16 March 2009: Oh arent you lovely! So nice to see some young romantics.
But just please dont get down on one knee. Foolish. Your not getting married. Get her a knecklace is my idea. ... (read in full...)
Dont know what to do!!!
Q. I am 17 years old. My bestfriend and I dated for about 6 months, but we've known each other for about 3 years. Well we broke up, but now were just bestfriends again. Well anyways, her ex that she dated for a year, and lost her virginity to is stil...
A. 16 March 2009: Get some straight answers from this girl. Seems like shes playing you both for fools. If she keeps this up, shell soon have no one.
Tell her you like her and dont understand why shes going off with her ex. If shes not having any of it, move on,... (read in full...)
How do I convince her to forgive me and just move on?
Q. okay so here is the story.. my 2 best friends were dating and one day me and the guy went out and something happend. i was going to tell the girl but one of my "friends" went and told her before me. so now she doesnt trust me. she doesnt even ...
A. 16 March 2009: Why should she be your friend? You toally misplaced her trust. You dont deserve to be her friend?
You need to get your priorities right mate. You accuse your 'freind' of telling her first, before you did. Well they are more of a 'friend' than you... (read in full...)
How can you stay with someone for 18 months and then BANG, go back to the ex?
Q. Ok, ive got it, hes gone bak to the ex, hes rebounded but 1 thing that plays on my mind is how could u be with some1 for at least 18 months and pretend that u r happy and in love with this other person and stay within the relationship knowing that ...
A. 16 March 2009: Hahaha, this behaviour is not just down to the male species, plenty of women do it to.
Sometimes, when we leave a relationship, certain types of people feel the need to jump right into the next one. Without thinking may i add. They may get alon... (read in full...)
He keeps me hidden from all of his family...
Q. Hi I live with a man named Bill and we are having a baby due in April. He says he loves me but I am thinking he is playing mind games with me. He keeps me hidden from his friends and family. He hardly ever wants to take me out. He tells people he is ...
A. 16 March 2009: Well obviously you do have sex, your pregnant hun. Find it hard to have sympathy for you, why are you still with this man? He has HIT you. And your unborn baby for that matter. If he hits you once, he WILL hit you again. Get out, dont look back, ... (read in full...)
Guilt about sexual attraction
Q. Dear Friends, I'm in a very bad state of guilt, 10 years ago when I was 13 years I had a sexual attraction towards my mom and I ended up acting on it like smelling panties, peeping at her and once tried to grope her when I was sleeping next to her ...
A. 16 March 2009: Yeah, wonderingcat is right love. I studied this condition in Psychology at Uni. Oedipus Complex is a condition introduced by Sigmund Freud. It explains that with males, there is an intense attraction to the mother and a strained relationship with ... (read in full...)
Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?
Q. I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around ...
A. 16 March 2009: It sounds to me as if hes justcomfortable being friends with you. I mean your doing all the things that you would do in a friendship, going to town ,etc. I dont think you should listen to others, they only have an outside look in. Listen to your ... (read in full...)
How do I tell the father that I'm pregnant?
Q. I'm 18 and definitely pregnant. my mom and dad knows but the father doesn't know. how do i tell him also i used a condom but I'm sitting here pregnant?...
A. 16 March 2009: Right why do you have to tell him you used a condom? Correct me if im wrong, but surely seen as it was a male condom, HE was the 1 that used it.
My advice is to ring him up, ask to meet in person. Maybe at your house or his, this way if tensions... (read in full...)
Will the pregnancy test results be accurate?
Q. I wonder if anyone could help to put my mind at rest. i had sex on tuesday and he didnt cun inside me but i know precum can still get you pregnant. i did a pregnancy test on friday and it showed nagative which i am relieved about. will this be ...
A. 16 March 2009: That makes no such difference. Without hormonal birth control and witout the use of a condom, you CAN get pregnant. Why would you have sex without protection in the first place?
And no, i doubt the test would have been accurate. Friday is too s... (read in full...)
Should we keep our TWINS a surprise?
Q. My husband and I are pregnant with twins, this is our third pregnancy and it will be our last. We were thinking about keeping the TWIN part a surprise until they are born. We will be having a planned c section and were thinking that the he could ...
A. 16 March 2009: Well why would it upset them? That would be a bit strange. If anything it would be a welcome surprise. Some women may guess though, so be prepared! Listen, you're going to be pregnant for 9 months love (well I don't know the gestation period... (read in full...)
Never saw him cum..pregnant?
Q. I never saw my ex partner pre cum and he always pull out..... Is there a chance i can be pregnant?? I never saw any coming? Please help.... ...
A. 16 March 2009: What? You never saw any coming? That doesnt make a difference love. Clearly your not old and mature enough to be engaging in sex, seems you aint got a clue.
Whilst NOT on birth control and WITHOUT a condom, you CAN get pregnant.
So be smart, ... (read in full...)
Surprise in the bedroom!
Q. Hey everyone...=] Me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary is coming up next month. We've agreed to not buy each other anything ( We are saving for holidays which will be soon after!)So instead were gonna get a take away, movie, the usual.. Howe...
A. 12 March 2009: Em ok thats not really what i had in mind...Done that before and didnt get the best response..Haha!... (read in full...)
What does sex feel like?
Q. I'm not trying to be a smart aleck or anything like that; just naturally curious. I am a 25-year old female virgin (call me old fashioned but I plan to wait until marriage to have sex). I cannot wait to have sex and was wondering what it fe...
A. 11 March 2009: Hi =]
I may not be the most experienced, iv only had sex twice: with my boyfriend and then an old friend beforehand. I remember my first time as being painful enough but not anything agonising. I kinda likened it to ripping off a plaster,... (read in full...)
Should I be worried? She's hopefully not pregnant...
Q. Me and my girlfriend where having intercourse and i finished in a condom and then she wanted to keep going so just to be on the safe side i put another condom on with spermicidal lubricant and it came off when i pulled out but with this condom i ...
A. 9 March 2009: I really think you will be fine, as long as you were wearing the condom and you pulled out before you ejaculated.
but, to be on the safe side, give her the pill. It wont do any harm.
Well done for being so considerate, but maybe you guys s... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant since I didn't get my period yet?
Q. I dont know what to do. I normally get my period the twenty third of feb and today is march 2nd and i still havent gotten it. I have had sex this month but it wasnt my first time and it was safe. My period isnt always on time but its never been this ...
A. 2 March 2009: I doubt youre pregnant love..Sometimes our bodies just decide to act up! Anything can cause it- stress, your diet,illness(as in a bad flu).. If the tests were negative then your fine. Can you feel cramps? If you do your possibly just going through a ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy? Or normal?
Q. Using the contraceptive, depo provera. Got the shot on the 2nd day of my period( A thursday). Had unprotected sex the monday after. Now, 2 weeks later, im having cramps and what looks like a light period. Does it look like a pregnancy or is this ...
A. 2 March 2009: Took a pregnancy test this morning, im nto pregnant, thank god. Im starting to think this bleeding is an irregular period, still have the cramps and the bledding. However its not enough of a period to have to wear a pad, this might sound ick but its ... (read in full...)
Too paranoid? Or should I be concerned?
Q. well im on the contraceptive injection , Depo-Provera. I got the shot last thursday, first day of my period. I had unprotected sex the monday after. the injection has a 99.7% protection rate, but if i took a pregnancy test now would i be abe to ...
A. 1 March 2009: Yea im thinking maybe its the stress that brought this on, or else its just an irregular period, common with this injection. Thanks for your help over the last few days though, youve helped me put things in perspective. Thank you!... (read in full...)
Too paranoid? Or should I be concerned?
Q. well im on the contraceptive injection , Depo-Provera. I got the shot last thursday, first day of my period. I had unprotected sex the monday after. the injection has a 99.7% protection rate, but if i took a pregnancy test now would i be abe to ...
A. 1 March 2009: Ok so im a bit freaked out. I think i had a period today?
I know bleeding or spotting(which i guess was what this was) is common with this injection, but are the cramps? This has to be a sign im not pregnant! ... (read in full...)
Too paranoid? Or should I be concerned?
Q. well im on the contraceptive injection , Depo-Provera. I got the shot last thursday, first day of my period. I had unprotected sex the monday after. the injection has a 99.7% protection rate, but if i took a pregnancy test now would i be abe to ...
A. 25 February 2009: I went to my college doctor today. She said i should be fine, but i wont know until i take a pregnancy test.... which i wont be able to take until the next week and a half or so..I feel fine, but thats nothing. would it be ok to use spermicides ... (read in full...)
Too paranoid? Or should I be concerned?
Q. well im on the contraceptive injection , Depo-Provera. I got the shot last thursday, first day of my period. I had unprotected sex the monday after. the injection has a 99.7% protection rate, but if i took a pregnancy test now would i be abe to ...
A. 25 February 2009: Im not worried about getting stds seen as iv only had sex with my boyfriend and hes only had it with me, we are together years. I noticed that as soon as i got the shot my periods went, along with the pain. While i shouldve waited to adjust to the ... (read in full...)
Jealous and mistrust is playing a big part into our relationship
Q. Right well this isnt really a life or death situation but any feedback,as always,greatly appreciated... Im with my boyfriend a year the nd of april.However, weve been childhood sweethearts,so we know the ins and outs of each other. The only ...
A. 25 January 2009: Yeah,your right. Thank you so much for your answer. really helpful! Just shows jealousy doesnt sprout from nowhere. il try your advice, thanks again!xx... (read in full...)
He said he wants "space" but then calls me at crazy hours! Does he still have feelings for me?
Q. Hi! Me and boyfriend broke up because, he said he wanted space and feel not ready to be in a relationship. It's only been a few days he contacted me again telling me how I was doing.etc. We are still friends and we go out together usually. Wha...
A. 27 March 2008: it seems like this guy doesnt know what he wants...its like yeah ok maybe he does want space,hes young and entitled to it..as if he told himself right ill be prepared 4 whatever happens whether she goes off with someone else or whatever..then he ... (read in full...)
How do you know if your first love was meant to be? - please enlighten me!
Q. this is gonna be quite long so here goes..(sorry!) id just like to know do you ever forget your first love?like,is it real? im 17 but ive been on and off with my first love since i was 11...it only really kinda ended there last week..well so i...
A. 27 March 2008: ok well after reading that its made me think twice about my guy..
he's never ever cheated,but yes we argue..we're headstrong...yet id still run to the end of this earth for him!oh how sad..
yet it saddens me that he might only be one of many,a... (read in full...)
We can never find anything to say to each other?
Q. Hi, After a hard journey trying to talk to this girl I like, i was told to get her MSN address and talk to her on there. The thing is, i can never find anything to say. The conversation just dies straight away, ive tried talking about interests,...
A. 27 March 2008: yeah,sorry mate but it looks like youve got a sack of potatoes there...
of course she could be just shy!seems like your trying everything you can..maybe when you feel the conversation dying ask her what she wants to talk about..if you still ge... (read in full...)
Do I have a drink problem?
Q. ok, right a few nights ago i was drinking(alcohol) while watching T.V and I got a bit pissed and I started crying a hell lot! Is that normal? (it's not the first time it happened either!) Also, my friends think I have an addiction to alcohol, ...
A. 27 March 2008: yeah,i get you im not the emotional type either..i dont mean to pry,but does your mum have a problem with drink?im not saying that whats i got from your reply,its just your problem might stem from that?please,correct me if im wrong..
you say your... (read in full...)
Do I have a drink problem?
Q. ok, right a few nights ago i was drinking(alcohol) while watching T.V and I got a bit pissed and I started crying a hell lot! Is that normal? (it's not the first time it happened either!) Also, my friends think I have an addiction to alcohol, ...
A. 26 March 2008: hiya..
im around your age,and iv just come out of a similar phase..well it was only a phase for me,fortunatley..
i started drinking at a young age(14)regularly..you get into the habit at the weekend,out with all your mates,havin a la... (read in full...)
I told my mates we'd had sex, now I'm worried my gf will break up with me!
Q. ive been going out with my gf for about 5months now. and the other night we had sex and we did use protection dont worry, but now shes avoiding me a bit and im worried she'l break up with me. but i think shes annoyed by the fact that i told all my ...
A. 26 March 2008: hiya
right well im a bit older than you,and a girl...so trust me i know what im talking about its happened to me and plenty of my mates..
there was nothing wrong with telling your mates,sex is a big thing at your age.its part of growing up an... (read in full...)
I'm curious about what people think about making noise during sex...
Q. So this might be a dumb question, but I have always wondered: How much noise do you make during sex? Do you moan, scream, ect? And if so, do you only do it when you are having an orgasm or the whole time? Also, do guys find it attractive if a ...
A. 26 March 2008: hiya
i think men like it when their partner makes some kinda noise..but to be honest its not about conforming to what they want but rather how you feel,if you like it,etc.
lets think of it this way..if you were in their pleasuring someo... (read in full...)
Did any of you think about sex so much at 15?...
Q. I'm 15 and I think about sex a lot .... is that bad ? did any of you think about it at this age ??? please tell me your thoughts thanks :) [Added] this is kinda weird to ask but I'm going to try to ask the best way I can . when I'm masturba...
A. 25 March 2008: hi,im a 17 year old female and i still think about sex a lot!in fact its an important foundation of all my relationships..(with guys)..if theres no chemistry there then it doesnt work for me...anyway which is totaly off the point!!
after you hit ... (read in full...)
I need a boyfriend and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hey I am 13 and I have never had a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. Please help me....
A. 25 March 2008: hey anonymous... i was 13 not so long ago(4 years to be exact..) i know most of your friends are probably dating already,you hear gossip but yet you feel left out.. first of all i wanna say that there is NOTHING wrong with u,as most girls th... (read in full...)
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