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hi, im kassie and i enjoy helping people when and if they need it.i live in the united states i enjoy i very much. what makes me tick is aggravating me constantly and acting very immature for your age but other than that i am a very nice person and oh so sweet! i love to read and do crossword puzzles and draw clothing matieral becase i want to be a fashion designer.My relationship status i have no clue i know what i want in a man but i just have the tendency of falling for the ones that is really not my type.so that makes me unlikely to find me a boyfriend that i can understand and adore.like most 18 year old have boyfriends i have friends with benefits (im sick of it!)so i am currently single and want to fall in love like real bad by the time i turn 23 can anyone help me?

Is it okay to have sex when your period is on?

Q.   I know that this is sort of a nasty question but I need to know is it okay to have sex when your period is on? Does it really matter to men that it is our time of the month when they want to have sex, because I told this dude I'm talking to it is my ...

A.   11 April 2008: well i did it!!!! i sort of liked it and i sort of didnt but i told my bf if it feels good to him then it feels good to me. Thank you so much on your advices!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Having a baby now when I'm so young but need to for health reasons?

Q.   I'm 16 and i want a baby now with my boyfriend who i've been with for 3yrs. i was told that because of a mutation in my genes as i get older it would be harder for me to give birth to a healthy baby. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and i want ...

A.   3 April 2008: i was once just like you i wanted to get pregnant but thank god i didnt.you cant make your boyfriend get you pregnant if he dont want a kid and thats just how boys and men are. Girl im go tell you like this (sex cant make him like you and a baby ... (read in full...)

He has problems with condoms and I have problems with the pill, are there any alternatives?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and we've been having sex for about 5 months. At first we used condoms eveytime but a lot of the time he would go soft just after he put one on. We stupidly did it a few times with him pulli...

A.   3 April 2008: whatever you do always use protection esspecially if you dont want a child.yes you should go to the doctor for a checkup to see why you are having side effects.also tell your boyfriend to always keep his condom on! i hope the best for you and if you ... (read in full...)

How do I pursue a real relationship with a background like this?

Q.   My problem is I have been meeting the wrong dudes since the 9th grade and all they wanted was sex. I was young and naive and just wanted to see what sex felt like so I ended up opening up my legs to a bunch of ugly horndogs. Then the whole school ...

A.   2 April 2008: thanks guys you are all so helpful!!!... (read in full...)

I love him but the way the relationship is going is making me unhappy... I want a little more from him!

Q.   Hi!! me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now, when we first got together he was wonderful always took me out always paid me compliments and so on.. but now none of this happend it was my birthday on saturday and he said that ...

A.   1 April 2008: i think its quite ironic that men calls first to admit they made a mistake then comes crawling on hands and knees to make it right.i would tell him about his self and tell him about the snapping at you need to stop and when on a date tell him you ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and getting ready to have sex but I'm embarrassed about stretch marks!

Q.   Im sixteen years old,and a virgin.I think in the next couple months around summer time my best guy friend and i are going to lose our virginity to each other. He's seventeen. But im very insecure about my body,i have stretch marks on my stomach and ...

A.   27 March 2008: honey you shouldn't worry about it i have stretch marks on my thighs and trust me men do not care.i was nervous too bcuz i had stretch marks but my boyfriend at that time told me i was beautiful and that he dosen't care about that.so i hope your ... (read in full...)

We've "made out" even though he says we are "just friends! Is this dating?

Q.   i have a guy friend recently he would hold me close to him, and we would hold hands. when he was asked if he liked me he said just as friends. well we've kissed and made out. does that classify dating? ...

A.   27 March 2008: i would say no bcuz just bcuz you kiss somebody dosen't mean you 2 are a actual couple but be careful girl he might be just trying to get in your pants!!!!!!... (read in full...)

I'm a girl and have this huge crush on another girl...how can I tell if she likes me?

Q.   I have this huge crush on a girl, but I'm also a girl. By her signs, I think she might of liked me too. I think about her like all the time. This might be kinda stupid but is their any way to find out if shes thinking about me too? I mean, i ...

A.   26 March 2008: you should just try talking to her as a friend and be there for her through anything.and then there is not a way to know if she thinks about you only if you be not only her friend but best friend and just see where it leads to.... (read in full...)

Picking up on the wrong vibes or do I actually like her? How do I know if I am gay/bi?

Q.   how do i know if i am gay/bi? im engaged to be married next year but there is this girl at college i cannot stop thinking about. she'd be more of a supervisor or something i dunno. but i find her really intimidating when she comes near me or ...

A.   26 March 2008: hi! you should just keep your composure maybe get her phone number and be her friend first then later on maybe you will find out if she has feelings for you! i hope the best for you!!!!!!!GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)

He has a child with his ex but what worries me is that he pays the ex much attention, jumps at her calls to carry out her wishes... any ideas?

Q.   PLEASE HELP I've known my current bf since the tuesday before feb 14th and been going out with him for about 4 weeks, but one thing's bugging me, he has a 3 year old with his ex gf,he goes round to see the kid most nights and leaves when the chil...

A.   26 March 2008: hey i think you should feel the way he feels sort of bcuz yes your children always and should come first.but if he loves you with the ex and without the ex he loves you but also remember that there is a child involved so he loves them too.... (read in full...)

I am 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend where did I go wrong?

Q.   ok im twenty years old and ive never had a boyfriend. sometimes i feel like such a freak.. i kissed a guy i really liked (when i was 18) but pulled away each time he used tongue because i was afraid to be a bad kisser. im a people person, very ...

A.   25 March 2008: i can relate to you bcuz i have not had a boyfriend in 4 or 5 years and they say i am pretty and why i am single i tell them that my heart got broken in the sixth grade i know i was young but i felt that i was in love and in the end he cheated so i ... (read in full...)

A thought for women

Q.   After reviewing some post here on dearcupid.org, and seeing a few TV shows about how women (not all) feel about sex and their men. Some things we hear are “feel like I’m a slab of beef”; “sex on the brain”, among others. What women don’t ...

A.   25 March 2008: i feel you on that brotha i adore guys like you very truthful and have very much honesty!!!!!... (read in full...)

Communication in relationships

Q.   I have been reading and have replied to some of the problems about relationships and most of them seem mostly to be a problem with communication. Talking to your loved one is the most important thing to make a relationship work, if you're not honest ...

A.   25 March 2008: i so totally agree on that bcuz i can relate to such a problem, i haven't had a boyfriend in so long bcuz when we didn't communicate we didn't have trust so our relationship went downhill bcuz i found out that he cheated on me.ever since then i ... (read in full...)

I cant stop thinking of him! Am I going crazy?

Q.   i spent the night over my friends house for 2 weekends straight.a lot of dudes came over one was cute, but i ended up having sex with one of them we only did it 5 times together,he was the best sex i have ever had! he really likes me but i think ...

A.   25 March 2008: i think you guys are so right im go try to pursue a relationship with him if i can very soon bcuz i have never felt this way about no one before!... (read in full...)

I have been single for three years as I am very anti-men. Is anybody else going through the same??

Q.   hi, Hope you can help because i havent got a clue. I've been sinlge for the last three years and its all down to me. I get asked out on dates a lot but im just not interested; it feels like i hate men when i was speaking to my mom about she sa...

A.   24 March 2008: hey gurl i know what you going through i have single for about 3 or 4 years and the longest relationship i have had was 2 weeks then i just turn to men for just sex no strings attached.now that i am older and wiser now i no longer do those things ... (read in full...)

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