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We can never find anything to say to each other?

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Question - (27 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ndy1603 writes:

Hi,

After a hard journey trying to talk to this girl I like, i was told to get her MSN address and talk to her on there.

The thing is, i can never find anything to say.

The conversation just dies straight away, ive tried talking about interests, music etc but it dosen't work.

She also replies to most things I say with "lol", which shows she obviously isn't interested.

Thanks

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A male reader, Aredas Switzerland +, writes (27 March 2008):

Aredas agony auntHey, It was probably me who recommended the MSN adress, heres a list of some things to talk about if the conversation starts to die (or, as lezlie said, ask what she wants to talk about):

What music does she like

Has she seen any good movies recently

How was her day/weekend

What is she doing for the holidays if one is coming up

Is she doing anything fun on the weekend

how's life, if not good, ask why

Sorry I'm not in the most creative of moods so i can't come up with much else, and sorry for the conversation block you're having.

Good luck mate

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A female reader, Jmo United States +, writes (27 March 2008):

Jmo agony auntMaybe getting to know her through the internet isn't the best idea. Is there any way you two could get together in real life? I know I'm an incredibly articulate individual in person, but when it comes to communication through type I'm pretty brief and boring. Maybe it's not your interests that are interfering, just the medium in which you try and share them. Just a thought.

-Jmo

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A female reader, lezlie Ireland +, writes (27 March 2008):

yeah,sorry mate but it looks like youve got a sack of potatoes there...

of course she could be just shy!seems like your trying everything you can..maybe when you feel the conversation dying ask her what she wants to talk about..if you still get nothing,take pride in the fact that you tryed but shes not the one for you..

go out and find a girl who talks and whom you have something in common with,by the looks of it you deserve it!

xxx

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