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writes:I'm not trying to be a smart aleck or anything like that; just naturally curious.I am a 25-year old female virgin (call me old fashioned but I plan to wait until marriage to have sex). I cannot wait to have sex and was wondering what it felt like, especially for someone who's never done it before. Painful? Strange? Wonderful? Ladies, what does it feel like when he enters you?Sorry, strange question. Reply to this Question
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (12 March 2009):
 From both points of view., Artian
Certain penis shapes and sizes feel better for me than others.
I have been told by partners before that I feel a certain way.
One friend of mine could barely manage sex with her ex because she was naturally so tight. But now she and her husband have amazing sex and fit together perfectly.
Point being, on both ends, shape and size largely predicts how things will feel. I'm sure you can take on guy, have him sleep with 5 different women, and he can tell us how they felt different from each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Hello.
Good for you on waiting. I'm waiting to, I'm also saving my first kiss and everything!
So I don't know what sex feels like but I just wanted to say thumbs up on waiting. There are so little who do that, so again GOOD JOB!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): I know your wanting to have sex really bad, and that's all fine and Dandy! I am a male and don't know what sex feels like for a woman. I just wanted to commend you on staying a virgin for how long you have! I think its great, especially in this day and age!
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reader, artian  +, writes (12 March 2009):
 Hey I'm a little confused with your answer there jess??
'The feeling of sex can largely be determined by the shape of the vagina'
is that from the male or female point of view?
My guess its from the male because how would one woman know what another woman feels like when having sex by the shape of a vagina. Only a male could feel that difference surely.
on the basis of how would one man know how another man felt during sex only a woman could feel the difference between different penis'.
Don't mean to be a critic but that got me thinking (",)
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (12 March 2009):
My first time didn't hurt at all. I had been fingered before, which tore my hymen a little bit, so perhaps that is why.
To me, sex feels amazing, and it's an intimate bond that you just cannot express with words. I truly feel so close to my BF when we have sex.
For every woman it is different. Since you haven't had sex, you can't answer whether you're naturally tight or looser, deep or shallow. The feeling of sex can largely be determined by the shape of the vagina.
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reader, artian +, writes (12 March 2009):
Sorry, Don't mean to be a smarty pants either.
But, If you cant wait to have sex why plan to wait!
and why make it harder for yourself with the curiosity questions that might make you be unable to wait and ruin your plans but if you cant wait they are already in ruin yeah!
Seriously, I think that is a good idea as long as you marry when you are good and ready for the right reasons.
Best wishes and good luck for the marriage.
Some say sex feels like when you are in real need of urinating but cannot get to the toilet and the feeling is building strong then you eventually get there and it feels amazing and you cannot help gasp or sigh with relief.
But of coarse much better with another person than a toilet and urine. lol
But then again what do I know I'm a man! So, I'll skip the entry bit and leave that for the women although what I've already said has been said by women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): I've heard that its usually painful the first time. My first time it only hurt for the first minute or so but was ok after that. If you have been fingered or used toys it isn't that different of a sensation overall, just more intimate and more fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): It was very painful the first couple of times. But that goes away. To be perfectly honest clitoral stimulation is far more enjoyable for a woman and much more likely to produce an orgasm for you than penetration, so if you really want to save yourself for your big day why not just engage in this form of sexual pleasure.
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reader, lezlie  +, writes (11 March 2009):
Hi =]
I may not be the most experienced, iv only had sex twice: with my boyfriend and then an old friend beforehand. I remember my first time as being painful enough but not anything agonising. I kinda likened it to ripping off a plaster, quick and a little painful. After your first couple of times, your body will adjust to sex and you will be fine. As im on hormonal birth control along with spermicide, i dont use condoms. The feeling is amazing. However, and im aware im not that experienced on top of the fact that im still young, sex is best when your in a loving relationship. Good for you for waiting till marriage. Im sure it will be worth the wait! Good Luck=]
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