I'm sick and bored of every day. I've never been in love and I'm turning 22.
Q. I'm sick and bored of every day. I've never been in love and I'm turning 22. I'm sick of going to lectures, studying, and then coming home. Every day, nothing happens. I don't meet new people because I'm too big of a loser to go out socializing. ...
A. 8 November 2010: I have 1 single answer for you. SALSA!!! Let me tell you. I had a friend who was geeky as hell. I mean this guy is like 4'11 and about 100 pounds. He was so depressed 1 year ago. I went out dancing with some buddies and there he was! Surrounded by ... (read in full...)
My married lover wants me AND her husband! What do I do?
Q. hi, i am sumit and I would like to ask a question. I am a 26 year old man, unmarried but I have a married girlfriend and I can't live without her, thing is she doesn't want to leave her husband OR also me. what do I do? Please tell me urgently......
A. 7 November 2010: REALITY CHECK: You do NOT have a girlfriend. You are helping a woman cheat. This is wrong on so many levels and also dangerous. Leave her and stop being so easy. If she gets a divorce and wants to date.. fine. If not, move on. Easy as that. ... (read in full...)
I Can't let my escort/girlfriend go...
Q. I don't know where or how to start. I am so emotionally messed up. I'm 40 years old and I met this girl who is an escort and fell in love with her. The first time I slept with her I knew nothing about her life of prostitution. She was a 27 year old...
A. 7 November 2010: Man, you don't make this easy. Listen, if you care for her as a person, you might do her some good by being a friend. She does seem like a scam artist. Many women who are escorts have a past and emotional issues. No one just decides to become an ... (read in full...)
I HATE my body... Help!
Q. I hate my body, it's horrible and one sight of myself can make me deppressed. I have a boyfriend and i'm scared to sleep with him because i don't want him to see my body. I weigh 10 stone and my stomach is much bigger where as my legs are thin. I ...
A. 7 November 2010: OK, Listen no one is perfect and beauty comes in different forms. The psoriasis is treatable a visit to a dermatologist should do the trick. It sounds like this you are nervous and have lacking a bit of confidence.Thin legs are actually GOOD.. most ... (read in full...)
What do I tell her when I ask her out?
Q. Simple question. Do I tell her exactly how I feel, or do I just ask her out? Or both? Thank you....
A. 7 November 2010: OK Mcfly. Do NOT tell her how you feel. It will be over before you get started. Instead ask her out somewhere, it's OK to ask her out on a date. Your mission is to LISTEN, Laugh and have fun. Let her do the talking and ask the questions. Unless she ... (read in full...)
I can't cum with a condom on! Heeeelp!
Q. I can't cum with a condom on! i'm and 18 year old male and can't cum even after one hour of shagging... What could be the reason of this, illness, masturbation, condoms..? Will ultra thin condoms help me cum faster? Hit me with all you got! ...
A. 7 November 2010: I've had the same problem. Yes, try ultrathin condoms durex makes a good thin and sturdy one. Also, if you do a "jackrabbit" this might also be the cause.. which is jumping on our partner without much foreplay and plowing away. Instead, take your ... (read in full...)
He's married but separated, is he taking me for a ride?
Q. hi im a 28 year old woman in love with a 32 year old guy,we have been dating 6 months now and its really intense from the start,here is the problem: he is married but separated from his wife for the last 2 years they have lived apart in differen...
A. 7 November 2010: After reading all the replies. All I can add is this: If you insist on staying with this man then at least give him an ultimatum. If he continues to be abusive even ONCE you will LEAVE and you must mean it. ... (read in full...)
Our work schedules clash!
Q. I'm not sure whether to break up with my boyfriend and would appreciate your advice. We've been together 7 months. At first he was working days like me and we used to see each other on a Friday night, which was good because neither of us ha...
A. 7 November 2010: Better suggestion. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Even if you only see each other once a week, make the best of it. If you are in love and see a future with this man then this is just a test of devotion. There are many ways to keep in touch, ... (read in full...)
My work took my wife away! How do I get her back?
Q. I am lost for what to do to get my wife back. We have been separated for over two weeks now and we still live together. I have been depressed for a long time and I believe this has gradually deteriorated things between us. I had been looking for a ...
A. 7 November 2010: Lost One, I feel for you bro. It might be too late at this point. I believe she suffered a lot when you moved several times and she was cut off from from friends family. Like anyone who has something they love taken away, she is now compensating for ... (read in full...)
Who is this strange man?
Q. a man started texting me that i dont know.it turned out that he knows my brother and girlfriend so must have got my number off their mobile although they say they dont know him by the nickname he gave me. he also knew my name and address and what i ...
A. 7 November 2010: Listen closely. Do not pay any attention to this person. Nothing good came come of someone who is playing these games. Let me tell you, I've been in IT for 15 years, you can find out a LOT of information about someone just by using google and their ... (read in full...)
Return to wife? Pursue divorce? Stay separted? What to do?
Q. Well, I'm wondering what I should do now. I am in a long-term marriage of over 25 years but for many of those years felt very lonely. My wife and I had drifted very far apart and it seemed like we had very little in common any longer except fo...
A. 7 November 2010: I'm 47 years old. I had a similar experience with my X girlfriend. I finally made the decision to leave about 11 years. All I can tell you is that i wish I had at least some of those years back. So much time and romance was lost. I met and married a ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with her stresses in life which mean I don't get as much attention from her as I would like?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 1 year off and on. She has a 2 yr old son and is in nursing school and has two jobs. She is usually stressed out a lot and because of this she has broken up with me twice and then later wanted to get back ...
A. 7 November 2010: Tough one. I'm wondering why she is working 2 jobs? I'm assuming she has to pay her own rent and children are expensive. If I were you,I would look into a babysitter once in a while.. someone who she trusts, maybe a family member. Offer to pay for ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but I'm not happy when we are together
Q. I have been married for almosr six yrs. we have three young children together. We have had a few big fights which resulted in him moving out for a while, we always get back together, but we don't move back in with eachother right away, he treats it ...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi sweetie. you have answered your own questions. You man treat time away like a vacation. He is selfish and does not want to give you a break to have some free time. It sounds to me you have a husband who is immature and unfortunately a bad example ... (read in full...)
How to achieve orgasm with a long thin penis?
Q. Well, I have two men. One of them turns me on because he knows how to make sex and plus his penis is the right size and it's thick, but with him all is about sex. My other man is very romantic and he takes all the time kissing and touching me, but ...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi, yes... there is something you can do. Do not tell him anything but take him to an adult store after a date or a romantic dinner. See what he thinks of cock-rings and other sexy toys. My wife and I have 2 children and she has a pretty large ... (read in full...)
He says he CAN'T marry me!!!
Q. i trust him but he broke my trust but now I'm very worried what to do? i have to marry someone else but please please tell me how can i hide this from my futur husband that I'm not virgin. plssss plsss dont say that i should tell him the truth.... ...
A. 7 November 2010: Let you in on a secret. Most men cannot tell if a woman is a virgin or not! Some women don't even bleed. But more concerned with your stance on lying to your man. A relationship is based on trust.. not your vagina. If you believe he will leave you ... (read in full...)
How can my wife be so loose when she never had children, and supposedly not much sex?
Q. I have a very personal question, sometimes I am very confused about it. When I got married to my wife, according to her she have not had any man in her life in last seven years. Before that she had only one short relationship(three months). It was s...
A. 7 November 2010: The answer to your question is:
There is NO specific size for a vagina. I will let you in on a personal detail. I have dated many women and even had several escorts (while away on business - used protection!) and Vaginas are all different size... (read in full...)
Penis is too short for sex!
Q. Ladies, would you seriously consider having an ongoing sexual relationship with a guy whose erect penis isn't long enough to reach the end of your vagina? By 'end', I mean the point at which anything longer would cause a longitudinal stretch. Is s...
A. 7 November 2010: Dude, it does not matter. Sex is not only about penis size. I have about 7.5 and I have to tell you, some of the women I've been with thought it was tiny while others thought it was huge. So, it all depends on the ladies. All women are different ... (read in full...)
Husband has me under lock and key I'm not happy but worry about our son
Q. my husband and i dated for about 2 years , found out we were pregnant, got married when i was 5 months pregnant had a beautiful boy,about 10 months after we had our boy we separated for about 7 or 8 months and durring that time i started to see ...
A. 7 November 2010: I have to be blunt here. You both need to grow up. You had a child are both are not embracing parenthood and missing out on one of the best things in life. Seems you are both very selfish people. I can only recommend that you go out somewhere quiet, ... (read in full...)
Do guys accept small breasted girls?
Q. I am a very petite girl with small breasts size cup A. My boyfriend told me he love me for who I am and always kiss and fondle with my small breasts but I feel so sad for him as I think that he loves bigger breasts. I start to feel ashame of ...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi there. I have tons of friends and lived in NY most of my life. Do not make decisions for any man. There are different reasons why men love women of all sizes, shapes and colors. One thing I have noticed is that men that love women with small ... (read in full...)
Is she using me? What should I do?
Q. My girl friend and i have been dating for a while now,. i want to know if my girl friend is using me, she's not very supportive when it comes to money. she wouldn't spend a penny of her. She knows i don't have a job, and i'm focusing on school more ...
A. 7 November 2010: OK, how do you deal with a girl like this? We'll give her back what she gives you. Tell her you do not feel comfortable giving her money if you are not married or committed. Tell her you care for her and need to know how your relationship will go ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'll end up in love with him and he'll start going out with his ex again
Q. I don't know what to do. I recently started liking a guy from work. He became my friend and we talked and hang out together outside from work. He just got out of a bad relationship turns out his girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend and ...
A. 7 November 2010: Reality is, he is being very honest by saying he still has feelings for her. This is normal, what would you expect after a relationship with someone. The thing to do is keep talking, be in the game. He will see less of you, so he will probably miss ... (read in full...)
How do I be confident around girls?
Q. Hi guys. I've been waiting for soo long, everyone tells me to wait, the right girl will come. That was almost three or four years ago. I'm sick and tired of this. Some advice on how to be confident around girls would be appreciated. THanks!...
A. 7 November 2010: Arutha, I say stuff a sock down your pants!. kidding.
You will never know what a woman or anyone is thinking. There are women out there who love hairy boys, Skinny ones, crazy ones. Just be yourself, be confident, make lots of friends and have... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband back?
Q. How do I get my husband back? My husband and I have been married for almost 13 years. The marriage has had some pretty rough moments and I screwed up big time on 2 occassions by putting my friends first. I thought I wanted out, but I DON'T! He ...
A. 7 November 2010: Girl, if he ain't married it's never too late! lol. Honestly. I would approach it this way. Call him. Do not get all emotional or apologetic. Just tell him you miss talking to him and would like to go out as friends. Maybe dinner and a movie, maybe ... (read in full...)
Did anyone know immediately "Thats the girl I'm going to marry!"?
Q. Helloooo... Just a bit curious is all :) Haven't got a girlfriend, haven't for some time, still I'm quite happy where I stand. Yet a few joke that I'm more likely to marry then anyone else due to my understanding of girls... Lol. Did an...
A. 7 November 2010: YES, it happened to me when I first saw Selma Hiyak! but seriously. It will just sneak up on you. when I met my wife I was on a date with an amazing looking girl! Hot as hell. But you know what.. I felt like myself around my my wife when we first ... (read in full...)
We have nothing to say to each other anymore?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for 11 months. we used to talk for hours about everything, laughing and smiling, but now we just have nothing to say. we don't make each other laugh or smile as much, and we've talked about it, but we don't ...
A. 7 November 2010: Wow, you are so young! If you think about it, most conversation come from sharing experiences, as a couple and as an individual. I'm not sure what you guys do day to day.. but does not sound like you are having much fun. I suggest you go out and ... (read in full...)
Do I keep trying with my marriage... or do I give up?
Q. I am married and a month ago I was gonna get a divorce but we talked let our feelings out he promised to change and so did I. We were doing good but yesterday we had an argument but instead of being a simple argument he exploded telling me I've ...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi. I can only give you advice based on my own experience. I have a 17 year old daughter from a previous relationship. We were together 11 years and were both very angry and fought all the time. I can honestly tell you that change does not come ... (read in full...)
Broken hearted, he's become a player, how can I get him to fall in love with me?
Q. this is the thing: i like this guy a lot. he has a broken heart and he's become a player, even his friends are worried about him because he's not like that. i have a broken heart too, but i solved it from a different approach: faith, so i'm good ...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi, by being there sexually, you are being part of the problem, not the solution. I've been in that situation more than once. The women who give it up, I just considered another notch on my belt. He will either stop being a player when he feels he ... (read in full...)
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