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writes:I have been married for almosr six yrs. we have three young children together. We have had a few big fights which resulted in him moving out for a while, we always get back together, but we don't move back in with eachother right away, he treats it like a vacation, and this time he's showing me that me and our children are not the priority in his life. he only sees the children for a feww hrs on saturdays, he wont take them overnight or for the weekend because he knows I will go out with my friends. Which Im not allowed to have friends, girls or guys. He is very negative, always says that everyone is stupid and never wants to go out and do anything because everything is stupid...I notice that when we are together I can feel anger inside of me that is not there when we are seperated/ living apart and not talking. I also notice that I have little patience towards my children and yell at them more when me and my husband are together...Should I just walk away, for my childrens sake and for myself I love him so much but Im not happy and my children deserve better?????
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reader, Latino201 +, writes (7 November 2010):
Hi sweetie. you have answered your own questions. You man treat time away like a vacation. He is selfish and does not want to give you a break to have some free time. It sounds to me you have a husband who is immature and unfortunately a bad example for your kids. It sounds like you would be better off alone, your children will benefit and he can see them when he earns it. Sounds like you are a devoted and understanding woman, finding love again will not be difficult for you.
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