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... Send *t a private message | | | *t's profile:hi im 15/16 yrs old. i know thats quite young to be giving out advice but i really like helping people. i have been though quite alot in my life; i was bullied when i was young but i got though it and i have had alot of trouble with boys. ive gone though alot of stress with my exams and have had trouble with my friends. there have been other things to, and along the way, i have picked up some great tips! i have been a nobody and i have been a somebody, and i know the goods and the bads to both. i know how different people need different advice and i can see other sides to a story that other people might not see.
when i am older, i would love to do something like this.
my friends class me as mad! but as someone who can listen. my main goal in life is to become a sucessful journalist!
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My wife says I neglect her and that God wants to end the marriage.
Q. My wife over the last two years says I did not show her any affection. We have two children and after a days work and looking after the kids when I get home I am so tired that I have obviously overlooked her needs. She later confessed to having a 5 ...
A. 27 February 2008: hi, i doubt that God would want you two to divource. in the Bible (as you probably know) it says that once two people are married and have had sex, they are one person. i think your wife is hiding behind this excuss. most churches can giv... (read in full...)
Help needed for long distance relationship and religion issues?
Q. There are two main conflicts in my love life. 1.) My man in the moment does humantarian work all over the world; so we try to cumminicate as much as possible, but this has been going on for 5 months already and I am just aching from being away ...
A. 27 February 2008: hi, im a christian myself and of course sex isnt just for reproduction! the Bible describes it as two people becoming one body! if sex was only for reproduction God wouldnt have made it ...you know more than that! he shouldnt force you to do ... (read in full...)
My mother says the Bible does not approve of interracial relationships. How can I prove her wrong?
Q. Im engaged to a black man, and I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him, hes just like me in every way. My father is racist, and my mother claims that she is just "against marrying out of your race" because of her "religious ...
A. 27 February 2008: hi well your mothers wrong about the bible saying that. it says love everyone! Martin Luther King was a PASTOR and look what he did! also it says in the Bible that God loves all his Children equally, and he made Black people too didn't he. it ... (read in full...)
My mother says the Bible does not approve of interracial relationships. How can I prove her wrong?
Q. Im engaged to a black man, and I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him, hes just like me in every way. My father is racist, and my mother claims that she is just "against marrying out of your race" because of her "religious ...
A. 27 February 2008: hi well your mothers wrong about the bible saying that. it says love everyone! Martin Luther King was a PASTOR and look what he did! also it says in the Bible that God loves all his Children equally, and he made Black people too didn't he. it ... (read in full...)
He says he feels like I'm a step ahead of him on everything. Is it time to go?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and currently live together. He comes from a pretty messed up family and has therefore had a lot of difficulty in relationships. Our has been plagued with conflict..him being dishonest abou...
A. 16 September 2007: if you really want this to work give him oppertunitys to go first or to do something. i know that in a way this is still the same but by doing this he could build confedence to do it on his own in future.
hope this helps xc x ... (read in full...)
Does he still care?
Q. Hoping someone can help me through my confusion. My boyfriend and I broke up at the end of June. I needed time to get over him but really I am not over him yet. I still think about him all the time. I did contact him a couple of weeks ago. I go...
A. 16 September 2007: im sorry to tell you this but you have to let it go. i was in a situation very similar to this last year. i found it absolutly imposible to get over a guy. he got a new girlfriend but he kept cheating on her with me, each time i thought he loved me ... (read in full...)
My bf has to have a beard b/c of his religion, but I hate beards! I want him to cut it!
Q. I love my boyfriend so much, but he's got a beard and long hair, he has to have it this way because of his religion, but the thing is im not a fan of beards, but he can't cut it. I really hate beards ! It just makes him look older and my friends ...
A. 16 September 2007: love him for who he is not what he looks like. give him a break youre only making his life harder by making him choose between his religion and you.... (read in full...)
Is it true that nice guys finish last?
Q. Is it true that nice guys finish last? i am one of the nicest people, and pride myself on the fact that no one really hates me. I cant be mean, i just dont have it in me. i will stand up for myself, but i will not bully anyone. If anyone drops ...
A. 16 September 2007: no way!! i adore nice guys!! there are two types of guys bad boys and good guys. i personally prefer nice guys but i know that some girls like bad boys. dont be put off that there isnt a girl showing interest, there will be a girl that comes ... (read in full...)
Could it be hes simply lost interest now that I am available ?
Q. Ive recently broken up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, but ive developed feelings towards a lad that i live with, we get on really well and he told me when i had a boyfriend he really liked me, but i wasnt up for cheating or anything so we ...
A. 26 April 2007: hey theres loads of reasons why he could b acting weird like mayb he neva wanted a relationship so becuase he knew u were in a relationship u were safe to flirt with. he could have been jealous of your bf and wanted to break u up. he might have just ... (read in full...)
I know hes bad for me, but I want him all to myself, I love him!!
Q. as i told you about the boy iv liked for years he is 18 and im 15 , he only just started ringing me i ring him all the time and he rings me all the time he always says are you gonna come and meet me, he has never really been in a relationship ...
A. 28 February 2007: love is an amazing emotion, its really addictive, especially your first love, but what makes love so complicated and hard is having to make the horrible decision - is this right? sounds like your falling into a big black hole, and the longer you l... (read in full...)
Does my best mates BF like me, or am I feeling the vibe because I'm Jealous ?
Q. hi i really need help!!!! my best mate has started seeing this guy who is really cute and i feel stuff for him but he is relly confusin me as wen we are watching the tv he look at me and wen we are alone he cuddles me and the other nite he br...
A. 28 February 2007: well, its hard to be sure at this time. but i doubt anything will happen when your best mate and him are still together. its at times like this youve got to sort out your priorities, which should be your best mate. i understand that you really l... (read in full...)
Is there life after death? Is there hell and heaven? Is there reincarnation? Do we wake-up, and find out we're all aliens?
Q. hey this is a very wide question but hopefully itll mean i get more peoples opinions on it!! what you think happens when people die, is there life after death? my dad died recently and i cant help thinking whats happened to him so i'd like to know...
A. 28 February 2007: hey, sorry to hear about your dad. i am a christian so i do believe in life after death and heaven. i dont know if you are christian but i believe that although your body can die your spirit can't and im 100% sure your dad is watching over you, ... (read in full...)
I did things on webcam at the age of 12, now I regret it. How can I forget it?
Q. since i was 12 ive done bad things i used to show boys on cam myself naked, now i really regret it. how can i forget about it? was it illegal? i used to do it cos i was ashamed with my body and they used to say they loved it even tho i was flat c...
A. 6 October 2006: hey, well i cud b very hard to forget about it. i think the best thing to do is just come to terms with it. things i regret and im ashamed of, i just think about them and the reason i did it, and try and convince myself that it wasnt that bad. or ... (read in full...)
18 year old virgin but scared of having sex!
Q. Hi, I want to have sex, as I'm an 18 year old virgin, but when it comes to having sex, I get dead nervious and try and think of anything to make me have more time! Cause I'm really scared of losing my virginity help me plz ppl!!! .... x x x ...
A. 20 August 2006: hey, dnt worrie, im 16, sex scared me to death, it was always on my mind, i kept thinkin dat im neva gona have it, because im to scared. but just recently i have fallen in love with a guy and suddenly im not scared anymore. i dont know how, but im ... (read in full...)
I thought this guy liked me... did he?
Q. Hello. I'm 18 years old I don't have a boyfrind infact i never had one. I always though it was because i didn't have huge boobs (b cup here) and i'm only 5'3. There was this one time when i was dancing with a guy at a birthday party (he didn't d...
A. 9 July 2006: hey charlotte,
to be honest, i dont think he is tryin make you jealous, i just think he is a nice guy, who like flirting. i do think you should get over him, because he sounds like hes happy with another girl.
getting over someone isnt easy, n... (read in full...)
I'm so self-concious of my mole on my back..that I won't wear strappy shirts and bathing suits. What can I do?
Q. this is a strange question but, i am 16 and i hate wearing strappy tops or bikini's/swiming costumes cos i have a big dark mole on my back. to me i think it is really big and people will notice and go yuk. but it is on my back on my shoulder and ...
A. 4 June 2006: dnt worrie, people have loads of things they hate about there body, everybody does. dont let it get you down, people proberly wont notice anyway. if its really bothering you i think you can have it removed, my mum had one removed, so just talk to ... (read in full...)
I need flirting tips! Got any good tips?
Q. hi i am 14 and i have just recently had feelings for my boy mate. i want to see if he fancies me too by flirting wiv him (i will also ask him out soon but not yet). i want to see how he reacts if i flirt wiv him, the only problem is i have never ...
A. 4 June 2006: dnt worrie about it, there are loads of ways you can flirt wiv boys.
*when you speak to him stand a little closer than you normaly would
*mirror his actions when you are speaking to him this kinda forms a conection.
* keep moving, but not too much... (read in full...)
Aged 15 and never had a boyfriend
Q. hi i'm 15 and i have never had a boyfriend and no-one as ever asked me out before! why not? whats wrong with me? i am average looking. does anyone fancy me or has anyone EVER fancied me????? are the boys just shy to ask me out? (i have asked people ...
A. 17 May 2006: hey,
dont start stressing yet! your only 15, just because no-one has asked you out yet, doesnt mean no one ever will. just enjoy life being single. enjoy the freedom and everything now and stop looking for love, love will find you. just be conf... (read in full...)
Ex wont let me have fun, What should I do??
Q. Ok this new guy asked me to the prom and i said yes so prom is in 4 days and my ex found out and now he is being all flirty and he kissed me... i still have really strong feelings for him and he said that if i touch this new guy at prom then it is ...
A. 2 May 2006: ask your ex, 'why cant i touch him, do you want me back or something?' this will get you the answer and make him extra jealous because you are concidering this new guy, jealousy will make him want you more. everyone wins lol... (read in full...)
Should I reach out and make the first move?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 9 months now. This is the first serious relationship that either of us have had, and so there has been a lot of...exploration in the physical realm. In the beginning, I often got upset about what ...
A. 2 May 2006: erm this is a tuff one. well i would make the first move, BUT, not a big first move, you dont want to scare him off. you never know he might not like making out or he might get shy when he gets affectionate, he might even think that you dont like ... (read in full...)
I need advice, I'm lookin' at girls in a different way now...
Q. im only 15 and im starting to look at girls in a not so friendly way i still like guys i just dont know what to do can any one give me advice?...
A. 2 May 2006: its normal!! i read up on this and it say that everyone at this age looks at the same sex in an intimate way at at least one time in your teenage life, because its at this time when you satrt to become sexually aware. so your mind will natually look ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure what to do about him, can anyone help?
Q. Hi I've known by boyfriend since July 2005 but have only been dating seriously since December 2005. We have been getting on great and he wants us to go on holiday together soon and has already bought my birthday present even though it's not until ...
A. 2 May 2006: i think that he needs sometime alone to get his head together. what he is going though would be hard for anyone. maybe he knows he wont be able to give you the right amount of time and attention, so he wants to leave it for awhile. my advise is just ... (read in full...)
Am I supposed to let her financially ruin me while I just sit and hope that she comes back!?
Q. Mr. nice guy or let her learn from her decisions!!! For the past 3 and 1/2 years I have been with my girlfriend. We have been happy, and we have had our problems. In the past 6 months or so she has been getting irritated in the fact that we bot...
A. 11 April 2006: wow thats a big question!
well i think that the problem here is - lack of comunication, big time! your relationship cant work ifshe doesn't know what you are going though and you dont know what she is going though. tell her that you are going thou... (read in full...)
Why am I always too shy to take the next step!?
Q. What's wrong with me? I'm 18, at uni, i'm smart and pretty and popular BUT I've never had a boyfirend! When I was at school my parents were really strict and didn't want me taking up any guys on their offers but now i'm older i feel ready to date! ...
A. 11 April 2006: dont just rush into a relationship because you can! maybe you cant take the next step because your not ready. you have been banned from boys your whole life and now suddenly you want a boyfriend. try taking it slower. find a guy and be friends with ... (read in full...)
How old should you be to have sex?
Q. i am looking for a boyfriend how can i find one and how old should a girl have to be before she have sex...
A. 11 April 2006: legally you have to be 16, but i think you are only old enough when you are ready (as long as you do it safely) ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex, but we both have someone. What should I do?
Q. Well i dont no were to start. im in love with my ex bf kieran, but im now with matty, but matty is a strange person. me and matty got 2geva fine and for the first 3 weeks everything was brilliant no arguments nothing. but then one night time me and ...
A. 10 April 2006: well first of all i think you should let go of matty. its not fair on him if you are thinking of some one else as well. doing this would as let kieran know that do love him and no one else. i know exactly what your going though at the moment coz i... (read in full...)
How does love feel?
Q. hi every1 i have a big question what does love feel like? thanks...
A. 3 April 2006: hi thanks i think i am in love, and i cant get him off my mind, the problem is i dont think he feels the same way :(... (read in full...)
I cry myself to sleep because I'd *love* to be a teenager in America... And not stuck in this miserable Northern, English dump
Q. Hiya I don't know what do about this, but I'm really unhappy. At my school in a poorer area of Northern England, the girls are all really bitchy and unkind and the boys don't want to know you if you aren't a slut. At the beginning of Y7 (my firs...
A. 3 April 2006: hi,
the truth is, no matter where you live, there is always going to be problems. even in america. don't believe what you see on the tv or what you see in books, most people play for the camra but in real life it could be quite the opposite.
som... (read in full...)
Snogging...how do you do that? Advice needed.
Q. please help i dont know how to snog someone and i have never done it before but i really want to can u help me ?...
A. 31 March 2006: hi, my first kiss was before i was ready and i totally regret it! im still not that keen on it now. so wait untill your ready!! also before my first kiss my friends all told me to practise on my hand, believe me this dont help either. all you need... (read in full...)
If my friend finds out I have a crush on her boyfriend, it's going to be a disaster...
Q. I am in a lot of trouble. I have this crush on my best friend's boyfriend and I don't want her to find out, otherwise our friendship will be over. I think he is dead cute and a lovely personality. Please someone help me! What shall I do?...
A. 19 March 2006: no one can help there feelings towrds someone but in this case you have to hide them, as the old sayin goes - boys come and go but friendship lasts forever. you never know it could just be infatuation, if not wait till they end it and its safe.... (read in full...)
Is he just not that into me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years. For the most part it is okay but it is more comfortable than a real relationship. I understand that he needs to hang out with the guys sometimes but for a long time now he seems to be avoiding ...
A. 18 March 2006: all guys need time with friends, but when he sees more of them than with you, its proberly time to move on. a relationship can't last with a situation like yours. stop wasteing time with him and find someone who deserves you!
good luck!!
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No sex, just sucking... Is this wrong?
Q. I'm a 15-year-old girl and going out with a guy only a month younger than me. He's a total sweetie and we've been going out for three months. We've made out and he's felt under my bra. But he wants to take my bra off. No sex, but sucking... I'm not ...
A. 9 February 2006: hi, if you think you are to young then you are, thats my opinion. just tell him. i know it wont be easy, but you will get over him alot more quicker (if he takes it the wrong way) than you will get over the memory. and you never know he might be... (read in full...)
One reason I worry about being single is that I might be thought to be gay!
Q. Would like to hear from single women in their 40's if possible. Do you have fear of being alone when you get older? Do you feel lonely to not have a man? I am for the first time alone in many years and am afraid to not have a man! I am not real fem...
A. 1 February 2006: who cares what other people think this is your life. dont be pressured into relationships, because it will only end in tears. just wait and turn a blind eye to the unwanted coments and the right man will find you.... (read in full...)
She still has feelings for her ex boyfriend and I don't know whether I should stay with her
Q. Im confused lately with my girlfriend of 4 mths cause lately i seem to be losing feelings for her....i swear i have not been cheating on her or anything to make her feel upset....But recently she just told me that before i came into the picture, she ...
A. 1 February 2006: this is a very confusing story! if she still has feelings for him, well there isn't alot you can do about that. ask yourself what do you want? do you love her enough to stay and make this work, or have you had enough with competing for her whole ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm not interested...
Q. my boyfriend thinks im not intreasted in sex or any other sexaul activities! how can i change this?...
A. 20 January 2006: the best way to let him know is to simply tell him.
tell him that you want to move your relationship on to the next level.
but just remeber that their maybe a reason for him denying your intreset he might be scared him self.... (read in full...)
Was it really the age gap between us that made him break up with me, or was it something more?
Q. I just broke up with my first serious boyfriend. He's 18 and I'm 15, and everyone was telling me to break it off with him because it would end in tears etc but we kept on going because we were in love and were enjoying ourselves. His reason f...
A. 20 January 2006: hi,
i think that you should just be there for him as a friend. he sounds like he has a lot on his mind and he needs you there as a friend. just remind him that it will get better and that you are there for him.... (read in full...)
What advice can I give my heartbroken friend?
Q. Hiya, I am very upset because one of my closest friends has just split up a with a boyfriend that she has been going out with for a very long time. I knew she loved him very much, and he loved her. They had sex, and my friend's sex drive became...
A. 20 January 2006: hi,
this must be hard for your friend. the only reason that her ex is swearing at her is because he was hurt too, and he is dealing with it though verbal violence. she should appollogise to him. this won't be easy and it might not even mend thin... (read in full...)
Do I pursue her when I know she wants me despite everything?
Q. im a lesbian and a few months ago i got closer to my female housemate ive had a crush on for years, i never thought anything would happen because she had a boyfriend (who we also live with) and said she was straight so i could understand and t...
A. 20 January 2006: hi,
if i was you i would wait. she sounds scared and she does no what she wants. just wait untill she does make mind up. do not presure her. if she doesn't want it to happen and you do presure her you could end up drifting appart. just stay frie... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm moving too slowly for my girlfriend!
Q. Hey, I have a problem with being too shy with girls (it's the reason my last girlfriend dumped me). I can never work up the nerve to kiss the girl no matter how much i dig her or she digs me. I'm not saying I can't kiss them or move to the sequenti...
A. 17 December 2005: it depends. girls arent all the same, so some will like to move fast and some will like to move slow. it all depends on which one she is. but dont rush yourself into kissing its something you have to be ready for to make it specail, i did it too ... (read in full...)
Why won't my bf let me give him oral sex?
Q. Im sixteen and have been in a steady relationship for a month.I want to give my boyfriend oral sex but he doesn't want me to. What's wrong with me?...
A. 31 October 2005: nothing is wrong with you and nothing is wrong with him he might not be ready. xx
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