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writes: Hi, I want to have sex, as I'm an 18 year old virgin, but when it comes to having sex, I get dead nervious and try and think of anything to make me have more time! Cause I'm really scared of losing my virginity help me plz ppl!!! .... x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2006): if u have any douts bout sex then dont have it. you can only lose it once so u should wait. im the same as u, 18 a virgin an im scared 2 have sex. when the times right though u wont be so scared. u just need 2 wait for the right time an the right person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): If you are hesitant to "lose it"...then wait off. Wait until you are more sure if it is something worth doing. It is your choice, your body, your feelings.
Eventually, you will do what you will and when you will...just wait until the uncertaintly leaves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): 18 old? where do people get these crazy ideas from, it's perfect age, i had to wait until 22, not through choice
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reader, Alasmar +, writes (21 August 2006):
DO NOT LOSS YOUR VIRGINITY FOR NOTHING.
You are 18 and you have managed to stay a virgin, so do not loss it for nothing. You are still very young, life is a head of yiou, and when you merry, you will have sex as much as you want.
My advice to you is to WAIT until you merry and you will be very proud of your self, you will make your husband (spouse) by the name of God also very proud of you and you will make your parents proud of you.
If you are desperate, then I suggest that you find the right man to be with and merry him by the name of God.
You just do not know how a man feels when he marries a virgin woman and knowing that, his wife (spouse) have never been touched.
God bless you
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reader, kt  +, writes (20 August 2006):
 hey, dnt worrie, im 16, sex scared me to death, it was always on my mind, i kept thinkin dat im neva gona have it, because im to scared. but just recently i have fallen in love with a guy and suddenly im not scared anymore. i dont know how, but im just not,i was so scared at one point bt now im ok with it.
you prob think that 18 is quite old, bt its not! just wait till u find that special someone. sex isnt something you have got to do. its something youve got to experience with someone you love. youll find someone one day.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (20 August 2006):
 I think you should follow your instincts. If your body is telling you that this is not right, then it isn't right. Don't worry that you're 18 and should have done it by now, that's rubbish! You do it when it feels right for you and that obviously isn't at the moment or with the person you were with.
I hate it when people make others feel weird because they haven't had sex by whatever age. It's pathetic. It's something so special and it should be perfect. Is this really how you imagined it to be?
I doubt it, so sit tight and wait for the right time, then it will just happen. Find the right guy too, maybe that has something to do with it. It will be so much more memorable if you wait, I promise.
Good luck
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