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writes: Ok this new guy asked me to the prom and i said yes so prom is in 4 days and my ex found out and now he is being all flirty and he kissed me... i still have really strong feelings for him and he said that if i touch this new guy at prom then it is totally over i dont want that! i want to have fun but i want my ex back... what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): He's totally yanking your chain, seeing how far he can push you to go back to him. He doesnt want you to enjoy yourself...and no doubt he will be 'touching' his date. He is just being a mean ex, and is totally using you for his own enjoyment. Its over for good unless you want to be his doormat, which is what hes treating you like at the moment. He's just having his fun. Leave it be and enjoy your new guy. There IS life beyond this shitty ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): you should tell him to leave you alone, i mean this has got nothing to do with him, unless of course you still like him?
anyway you should give this enw guy a go see what he is like!
tel lyour X to get a life and move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): tell your ex he shouldn't have dumped you if he was going to have a problem with your dating other guys. tell him you're going to the prom with this guy and that you intend to have a good time. and that's all.
my guess is, he's just being manipulative - he doesn't really want to date you anymore, but he doesn't want to have to deal with your moving on. it happens to everyone.
if he's serious, though - if he still has feelings for you and wants to be with you again - your having fun at the prom won't spoil that, no matter what he says. he'll get over it.
that said, it'd be dumb to get physical with this new guy before you know what you want. don't make out with him in front of your ex (you might do well not to make out with him at all, unless you really want to), and definitely don't do anything with him that you haven't done with your ex.
but my advice would be to put your ex out of your mind until after the prom. go and have fun!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): go have fun- he is just trying to bring you down- he sees you having fun and he is jealous- if you give in to his odvious wining, then it will be you who always gives in on anything and take from me- a divorced woman who learned the hard way
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (2 May 2006):
 your ex is your ex in opther words he was something in your past. It is basically none of his business whether you are allowed to enjoy your slef or not. tell him not to start behaving like a jealous prat and to get a life. Tell him that yohe doesn't own you and your his past and you are entitled to have as much fun as you like withwhopever you like and tell him if he does not like it to get lost.
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reader, kt  +, writes (2 May 2006):
 ask your ex, 'why cant i touch him, do you want me back or something?' this will get you the answer and make him extra jealous because you are concidering this new guy, jealousy will make him want you more. everyone wins lol
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