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writes: Well i dont no were to start. im in love with my ex bf kieran, but im now with matty, but matty is a strange person. me and matty got 2geva fine and for the first 3 weeks everything was brilliant no arguments nothing. but then one night time me and my friends was drinkin and i got realli out of my head .. and all i kept sayin was i want keian i want kieran. so my friends rushed and got kieran and he come. i was suprised he come as the night before he told me he didnt love me anymore. but a week later my friends fell out with me and spread a rumour that i got off with someone the night i had been drinkin. I'm 13 and i no its wrong to drink but uve gota do it sometime. matty told me he belived me but then he quickly changed his mind. now he wont tell me if he is with me or not i keep askin him and he says i dont no .. and that is all anyone can get out of him this had been going on for three weeks and i just dont no what to do. i want to be with my ex-bf who treats me with respect and luvs me 4 who i am, but he is with somebody else someone who is preety and givs him what he wants. i dont no what to do whould i finish wiv matty and wait around 4 kieran or should i stay wiv matty, when he is using me like this. PLEASE HELP Ps: i think kieran still luvs me other wise he wouldnt of come when i asked 4 him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): look, im 16yrs. old and im in love w/ my ex also. even though he left me, for some reason something's makeing me hold on as well, heres my advise to you. if you love him, and cant see your life with out him dont give up!!! if it was meant to be it will happen!! but dont go dating other guys, donig this shows him youve moved on and dont need him.keep your lines open but dont look despret. and yes your only 13 therefore you have a long life ahed of you, but also realize this, no ones promised a 2morrow.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
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First of all, I'm not too sure about matty. If his opion of you changes that quickly just because of some rumours then I don't think it'll last.
Second, Keiran may still love you but you know what boys are like about these things. He's probably just too shy to admit it. Give him time.
If you get rid of matty, enjoy being single and wait for Keiran to come around. If you stay with matty, it could either make Keiran jealous and want you back or send a signal out to him saying you're taken. GOOD LUCK xxx
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reader, Suzie767 +, writes (10 April 2006):
 Hi i agree with kt. enjoy your youth and it will all work out for the best in the end. Im 22 but i remember being 13 how confusing it is. If he still likes you he will get back with you
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reader, kt +, writes (10 April 2006):
 well first of all i think you should let go of matty. its not fair on him if you are thinking of some one else as well. doing this would as let kieran know that do love him and no one else.i know exactly what your going though at the moment coz im 16 and im in love with some one how don't love me in the same way, and there is only two things you can do1)wait for him. i know that doing this might seem like forever but you can do it if hes worth it.2) if you feel like you can't wait forever for him, you are going to have to move on.either way good luck, and just remember your only 13! you've got your whole life a head of you to worrie about boys so just relaxgood luck!!
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