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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and currently live together. He comes from a pretty messed up family and has therefore had a lot of difficulty in relationships. Our has been plagued with conflict..him being dishonest about his past, not sticking up to friends when necessary, etc. I have felt like the past 2 years has been spent with him learning even how to be in a healthy relationship. It has gotten better. He's a good guy... intelligent, funny, hard worker, caring but I dont feel like he has anything to offer me in the way of growth. Meaning I feel like I teach, lead, etc. He says he feels like I'm a step ahead of him on everything. Is it time to go?THANKS MUCH FOR THE ADVICE!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (16 September 2007):
Sounds to me like you have a good thing going. Do you really want a guy to lead and take care of you? Would you be content to follow your man?
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reader, kt  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 if you really want this to work give him oppertunitys to go first or to do something. i know that in a way this is still the same but by doing this he could build confedence to do it on his own in future.
hope this helps xc x
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