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I'm a 22 year old female, living in England. I believe that a problem shared is a problem halved, and I am often the friend that people come to for straight up honest advice. That aside, my own life is full of dramas, and I'm terrible when it comes to my own problems, hence you find me here!
I hope that I can help some of you with your problems, and I hope in return you help me with mine!
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Does needing space mean learning to live without me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have written on here before, and its always over the same thing. My turbulant relationship with my boyfriend. When we are together we have the most amazing time, we are so so happy. He is always telling me how much he loves me...
A. 19 March 2011: Thanks for the advice. In answer to why do his family hate me, its just his Mum mainly. She liked me when I was a sales assistant in a clothes store, as soon as I got my job now (building engineer) she just turned. I think she feels threaten... (read in full...)
B/f puts his job before me!
Q. My bf currently puts his job before me. I can deal with this for the time being, but I am more worried about the future. If he's always going to put his job before me, Im not sure if I want to be with him. Please help. :(...
A. 12 December 2010: It depends entirely on the job. I am in exactly the same situation. My boyfriend constantly puts his job before me, I get cancelled on atleast twice a week. I wouldn't mind if he were a doctor, and had to go save a life, but he's a barman!
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Should I just be friends or should I persist and give it more time to see if this turns out to something serious?
Q. About 3 weeks ago I met this girl in the school that I'm attending. Were both in the same program and taking the same classes. She has a baby that is 1 year old. We really hit it off from the beginning and the chemistry was great. The second week ...
A. 12 December 2010: You've only known the girl 3 weeks, give it a chance! You have to remember that not only has she just come out of a 4 year relationship (so probably her emotions are all over the place) but she has a baby to consider. If you like her, then just ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any advice on how to kickstart a relationship after having a baby?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly three years and we have a four month old daughter together. Ever since our baby was born my girlfriend has stopped showing me any form of affection (including sex). When I try to talk to her abou...
A. 12 December 2010: I don't think telling her you have a problem is necessarily the way to go. I'm assuming its her first child, after having a baby your body takes some time to heal and get back to normal. Maybe she isn't feeling confident and wants a bit more time ... (read in full...)
Is she trying to pressurise me into getting engaged?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three years - and much of our time is spent in domestic bliss - at home life is ideal. But until we are "engaged" she insists that our lives are kept separate - I have to go on holiday alone - go to ...
A. 12 December 2010: I think you need to explain to her that you don't feel comfortable with the idea of marrying her until you know her friends and family. Maybe she is afraid you won't like them?
Either way, make sure she knows that one day you would like to marr... (read in full...)
Should I wait or go for it with him now?
Q. Ok Im thinkin of getting into a relationship with an older married man, his wife is very ill and will soon pass away, and he is very lonely and is looking for a friendship and possibly more, should i go for it or tell him friendship only? i want to ...
A. 12 December 2010: His poor wife! If I were you i'd think about how you'd feel on your deathbed if you then found out your husband who should be supporting and caring for you until the end, was dating a much younger woman!
That aside, if he wants to cheat on her,... (read in full...)
I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they have the real thing right in front of them.
Q. My boyfriend looks at porn all the time when he is not with me. I know because he has google chrome and it shows the most visited web pages when you go to open a new tab. It's sickening. I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they ...
A. 12 December 2010: I know the feeling! My boyfriend gave me his phone to answer calls etc on a year or so back while he was getting tattooed, and as I browsed, I found some horrendeously graphic videos that he had obviously watched online and recorded onto his ... (read in full...)
Fiance has issue with me going to rock shows alone
Q. I'm a new time poster - long time lurker to this site. So my fiance has an issue with me going out and doing things without her. The two of us have lived together for a year and a half (been together 2.5yrs) and the longest we went without see...
A. 11 December 2010: This is a tricky situation. I can see where she is coming from, I know I can be a bit the same with my boyfriend. Its not that you've done anything wrong, but if someone has messed you about and hurt you in the past, you will always remember it, ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend 3 days late and freaking out!
Q. Hi, I am 18 years old dating my girlfriend of 19. Last month she got her period on the 8th. Between then and now we had sex once with protection on and I didn't ejaculate inside her. We checked the condom afterwards and there was no hole or a tear. ...
A. 11 December 2010: I lost weight a couple of years ago, and as a result, didn't have a period for several months! Your cycle is really sensitive to changes in weight. It really does sound like you are worrying over nothing, if she has got pregnant from what you have ... (read in full...)
Because of his parents, I am always on the outside looking in
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. Its not been an easy relationship, his Mum can't stand me and as a result I've been banned from entering their family home for some time. There is no reason for her hate, she's just a possessive ...
A. 11 December 2010: i'll try to give you some more information in as brief a way as i can...
his mum liked me for the first year and a half. i worked part time in a shop while i studied. then i got offered a professional job. i took it, and since then, she just... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me because his mother won't agree to our marriage! He says he loves me!
Q. I hope everyone is okay... I just really need some advice, the whole night i was awake and feel so distraught and I have just come here for advice and some kind ressauring words, just to make me stronger again or anything from anyone i would ...
A. 11 December 2010: I have been and am in exactly the same situation with regard to family loyalties as yours (With the exception that I'm not of Indian origin!). Alike you, my boyfriend is extremely loyal to his family, and does as his Mum says, despite being a grown ... (read in full...)
My relationship is a real mess... I need your help!
Q. hi, well i need some advice on what i can do about my 4 year relationship, I met my partner 4 years ago, at first we were happy and it was as if i was dreaming, my bf took my then 7 month old son like he was his own, and to this day he has alays...
A. 29 April 2010: to be honest this relationship sounds just awful. i would get out right now and take your children with you, as its only a matter of time before he turns on them too. in time you will find someone else who treats you nicely, but in the meantime ... (read in full...)
Could this scare away any future relationships?
Q. Ok I have to be honest here. I'm 26 and I am a virgin and I never had a real g/f before. Now there's nothing wrong with me and I am attractive. For 6 years I've been in school getting my bachelors studying architecture so for those of you that don't ...
A. 29 April 2010: there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, i study architecture myself so i understand how demanding it is. if i were you though, i'd be honest. if someone cant love you for who you are, then they are not worth your time anyway. better to be ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to date my ex's friend?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and he has moved on with another girl already. The thing is i now have developed feelings for one of his Bestfriends. I have known him all my life and we have some history. I'm not trying to get back...
A. 29 April 2010: you and your boyfriend broke up, so who you see now is really non of his business! especially given that he left you. if he doesn't want to be with you then he shouldn't care who is, so i'd just go for it.
my boyfriend is one of my ex's best frie... (read in full...)
We are madly in love, but due to his Mother hating me, he has not contacted me for days
Q. I have asked this question a few times on here, but as the situation keeps updating, I feel the need to re-issue it. To cut a long story short, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. His mother hates me, but refuses to explain ...
A. 29 April 2010: That is what I want him to do, to stand upto her. I know he will have to someday, as I know her hating me is nothing personal at me, it wouldnt matter who he was with, its a jealousy thing, she feels threatened by him having another woman in his ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to get rid of all my pictures and letters from my former girlfriend who died in my arms, is she in the wrong here?
Q. I have been dating a young woman for a few months. She is very sweet and I care very much for her. She came over to my apartment when I wasn't home yesterday and my room mate let her in. She went into my room and found an old year book I had ...
A. 28 April 2010: she is definitely wrong. if another girl was writing you love letters now, then that would be wrong, but it is common to keep things from an ex, especially given your situation. you are not holding onto them because you are not over her, but ... (read in full...)
Is my ex-boyfriend trying to hurt me?
Q. I'm in the process of getting over a break-up. I recently told my ex that being friends with him straight away was not going to happen for me, and that I need time to be just me. He said to contact him when I'm ready but I dunno if I'll ever be....
A. 28 April 2010: i dont think it sounds like he wants to hurt you, i think he is just desperate to have some involvement in your life, and if you dont let him in, then he will try and find another way in, through your friends. you need to talk to him and tell him ... (read in full...)
I feel second-best to his best friend and am worried she'll take him away!
Q. For three years before he met me my boyfriend was in love with his best friend. She didn't feel the same way. He told me about her early on in the relationship, and said they had sorted things out between them and he didn't have feelings for her ...
A. 28 April 2010: In keeping secrets from you, he is being unreasonable. You should talk to him and tell him that you don't have a problem with them spending time together, but that maybe it would be nice if he took you along too, tell him that if she is so ... (read in full...)
Should I get out of this relationship?
Q. Hi all. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. In this time we loved each other -- I still do, and she does but there is problems, which I'll explain ahead -- and we even had a baby boy (4 months now). There is a lot going...
A. 27 April 2010: you should only leave her if you want to, not because of your families. after all, there should only ever be two people in a relationship. if she says she likes someone else and you truly love her then you need to talk to her and make her ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me more than he has loved anyone but cant be with me because his mother hates me!
Q. My boyfriends mother hates me. She has no reason to, and if he asks her why, she responds by shouting at him that she doesn't want to talk about it. On wednesday last week she banned me from their family home (she did last year for 4 months)....
A. 26 April 2010: leaving him really is not an option, although i understand what you mean, when you say he has chosen. his mothers interference isnt that often. its just that he believe everything in life should be easy, and when a problem occurs, even one as ... (read in full...)
Help! How do I convince my boyfriend to marry me?
Q. Cinderella power! I have been with my boyfriend for last 1 year. we both met in college as we were studying in same college. we entered into friendship a healthy and good friendship, then after 3 months later we both fell in love with each other, w...
A. 24 April 2010: To be honest, it sounds like you have plenty of problems to sort out before you get married! I'd stop even thinking about getting married for the time being, you have only been together for a year afterall, and focus on trying to have a good happy ... (read in full...)
How to Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend- 4 Steps
Q. So you’re looking to get back your ex boyfriend. Well where do you start? I know from personal experience it can be confusing. I remember I just felt like running up to my ex and telling him I loved him! This is bad by the way (we’ll talk more about ...
A. 24 April 2010: I think to say you shouldnt try to win an ex back because you 'broke up for good reasons' is a bad statement, as people break up for all the wrong reasons all the time! Sometimes people just need space, especially if they are having problems with ... (read in full...)
His mother hates me and controls him!
Q. I am almost 22, and have been with my boyfriend, my third 'long term' relationship, for about two and a half years. We have an amazing relationship when it is just us, he got around a bit before me, but I was the one he chose to settle with. We ...
A. 24 April 2010: I can appreciate what you are saying, that he may not be the one, and that I should cut my losses. But I am someone who will fight all the way for what I want, and what I know he wants too. He is not just my boyfriend, but my best friend, and I ... (read in full...)
Fiance thinks he might be missing something by having sex only with me!
Q. me and my boyfriend been together for 5 years and we are getting married this summer i have been his only girlfriend his entire life he feels insecure because of that and he is constantly wondering what it would be like to be with another female ...
A. 24 April 2010: If you really love him and trust that deep down, he loves you back, I'd open the relationship up. Go out separately with friends and tell him he can do what he wants. But make it clear that you will too! Odds are he wouldn't be able to go through ... (read in full...)
When we're apart I just don't feel happy!
Q. After two years together and a couple weeks without communication, we decided to stay together. He talked to some friends, and he came to the consensus he should stay. On the night of our talk this song immediately came on, "You're my Best Friend",...
A. 24 April 2010: You talk about letting the past two years go to waste, but if you are not happy, perhaps you should consider that more years spent in this relationship will also go to waste! Odds are if you're miserable and wanting out, then you'll break up sooner ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me again, how do I get over him finally?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need a little advice..my boyfriend broke up with me last night for the second time in a year. The first time was because we fought over summer break and he needed a breather and so did I. We are college students or I am now..anyway, ...
A. 24 April 2010: Your boyfriend doesn't sound too unlike mine. He is one of those that thinks a relationship should be 'easy' all the time, when the sad reality is that everyone has problems. One of my closest friends, having been with her boyfriend for a year and... (read in full...)
Can you REALLY forgive someone after they cheat?
Q. Is it ever possible to have someone cheat in a relationship, and then really forgive someone? If you really forgive that person in your heart, can you still live happily ever after?...
A. 24 April 2010: Some people need to cheat, in order to realise what they have already got. If someone cheats once, and realises this, sometimes it can improve the relationship. The problem begins if they cheat again. This marks that the relationship isn't ... (read in full...)
His mother hates me and controls him!
Q. I am almost 22, and have been with my boyfriend, my third 'long term' relationship, for about two and a half years. We have an amazing relationship when it is just us, he got around a bit before me, but I was the one he chose to settle with. We ...
A. 24 April 2010: It was I who posted the question, in view of the responses I decided to sign upto an account. I was able to see my boyfriend tonight for a little while, although he was supposed to be working. What you mentionned, hpoco, about independance, is ... (read in full...)
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