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writes:So you’re looking to get back your ex boyfriend. Well where do you start? I know from personal experience it can be confusing. I remember I just felt like running up to my ex and telling him I loved him! This is bad by the way (we’ll talk more about that later). So I decided to make this guide based on all the stuff I learned that worked to get my ex boyfriend back. Tip One: Break ContactIf you’re always around him trying to talk to him, or worse, trying to convince him to “like you” you’re in trouble. If he knows you miss him, he’ll think he can get you back whenever he wants. People always want what they don’t have and this is especially true for relationships! Make him think he cant get you back even if he wants to, and guess what? He’ll start wanted you back!Tip Two: Love Is an EmotionThe key to getting him back id realizing that love is an emotion, not something you can reason with. A guy will never be “convinced” he likes you, and any effort to do so will backfire! So never tell him why you guys should be together. Instead focus on what makes him feel attracted to you.Tip Three: Flirt a Little!So we want to make him feel attracted to you, right? And you’re not going to like this but no one likes someone who is moping. That means you’re going to have to “fake” being happy, especially went he’s around you. Don’t be afraid to flirt with some guys. Trust me, I can’t tell you how much attention my boyfriend gave me when he saw me with another guy. This works like magic!Tip Four: Do Something NewTake up something new and interesting. Then tell your friends about it. When you’re ex boyfriend learns that you’ve been out and about doing new things, he’ll think you’re not only over him, but also at an exciting time in your life. You’ll have him begging for YOU to come back to HIM in no time!So please keep your head up because there is always hope to get him back! For more steps go to my hubpage about getting back an ex boyfriendhttp://hubpages.com/hub/getting-back-your-ex-boyfriendGood Luck!Ashley
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reader, KRSMouse  +, writes (24 April 2010):
I think to say you shouldnt try to win an ex back because you 'broke up for good reasons' is a bad statement, as people break up for all the wrong reasons all the time! Sometimes people just need space, especially if they are having problems with their family / work pressures / etc. Sometimes a little time apart is all it takes for you both to realise that you should be together. The advice given by the author here is pretty sound. When me and my boyfriend broke up last summer, I held off from having any contact with him, admist his 'commitment freak out'. I spent the first week moping and publishing my misery on facebook for him and the world to see, and it didn't get me anywhere. A week on and I decided to take a new approach. Rather than appear miserable and therefore unnattractive to be around, I thought better to make it appear as though I was having a great time, so as he would feel he was missing out. I went out with friends to get me through it, and I smiled through the pain for all the photos. I made it look as though I was having an amazing time, although the truth of it was, most of the night was spent crying and thinking about him.A week later and he came back to me, ensured he was in the same club at the same time as I was and we sorted things out. We're having a tough time at the moment due to his family, but on the whole, we've been happy since.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 Trying to get an ex back is pointless and stupid.
You broke up in the first place bacause you wernt compatible. At the end of the day you still arnt, because you are you and they are they.
You will just make eachother unhapy and break up again.
Dont waiste your life, meet someone new
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): i dont think anyone should try to win an ex back. He/she dumped u! But i do think u should cut of contact... so u can gt over it. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): Thankyou so much for this, im having this exact problem with my ex boyfriend, it's been like three months and i cant get him out of my head, i really need some help.
I dont see him too much, and when i do we hardly make contact, were friends with some mutual ones so its complicated.
I realllly want him to see what he's missing and realise how good we actually were together.
Because im young im slightly addicted to facebook, and well thats the only contact we really have, and i know he's been checking mine a lot, so i want to show him im happy through that, put photos of me and new people, will this work?
Im really wanting this guy back, ive never felt like this before
xxx
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