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writes:So I met this girl while I was away for a weekend. I straight away liked her and we hung out a little and I seemed to think got along. The issue is at the time I thought she was 16 or 17 to then find out a few days later when I got home 15. We've only talked so theres no issues there.I do have a crush on this girl but I dont know what to do. We talk and im going to get to know her better but I already really like her.we have kind of planned to meet at a event in a different city with friends on both sides and im not going to do anything as I dont want any legal bomb dropped on me and I dont want to pressure her into anything.I think she likes me I mean we've hugged a few times as friends as a goodbye plus her family were there and they didnt have any issues with a hug. The event were meeting at she seems to really want me to go and to another one next year to celebrate her 16th. And the one this year has offered me a place in her 2person tent which is hard to refuse as a place to sleep when I dont have a tent or money for a hotel. I really dont know what to do....so I'll recap as that probably made nosence...Im 19 and like a girl from a different city whos 15. She wants me to come to a event in which has offered a place to sleep and for anotherevent next year. I really like her and her parent seems pretty cool who I got along with too.Help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2014): Just be very careful. Make sure her parents understand this and do not have any sexual contact with her. Alot of girls do alot of silly things these days and making lies up could bring you a lot of trouble, so be very careful about what your doing until she is 16.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (1 October 2014):
 By all means continue to make friends with her. But this line "And the one this year [she] has offered me a place in her 2 person tent which is hard to refuse as a place to sleep when I dont have a tent or money for a hotel. " worries me - you'll both be tempted and she will still be 15. You can buy a one-person tent for as little as £30. Not as much 'fun' as sharing but not risking breaking any laws.
Her family are OK with a 19 year old friend giving her a hug in public, but I doubt they'll like the idea of a 19 yr old man with a crush sharing a private tent with her....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2014): Since I do not condone 19-year-olds tromantically pursuing 15-year-olds, my only advice is to seek her parents' approval - that means being honest with them about dating their daughter.
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reader, Katie-Lynn  +, writes (1 October 2014):
 I believe dating would be fine and that the more intimate stuff such as sex should come a few years later and according to how the laws in which you live at are like. Best of luck to you!
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