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writes:Okay, im now a junior in highschool, and ive liked this certain girl since my freshman year, i dont know why, but i do soooo much. I got a job at a grocery store, and then she started working there, but the twist is that she started talking to one of my good friends, they started dating and only dated for a month. She tells my stuff like, she doesn't know if he is what she wants for a boyfriend. She started flirting with me for a while, and still does. everyone thinks she is still with her old other boyfriend, but she tells me she isn't. Ive even tried to walk out of the situation, but it seems that makes it even stronger, im confused! I pray about what to do. Man I like her so much, and I need your help! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe said this exactly "Our friendship is more veluable then a relationship, I like u but id rather be ur friend" is she rejecting me?
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reader, Rey +, writes (27 May 2008):
 Great news, man! I'm glad somebody is doing okay on the girl scene. Okay, so you guys went out for drinks I'm assuming just the two of you alone. For the next time I'd choose something easy and stress free. Ask her if she wants to go to the movies and what she wants to see. then afterwards go for drinks to loosen you up if you're still nervous. During all of this when in doubt just ask lots of questions about her and what she likes, etc. Then the more she reveals about herself the more you have to engage her with. This will make kicking it with her a lot easier. Once you zero in on something you both like its easy. Make sure you listen well and it might not hurt to watch the movie "Hitch" with Will Smith. there's a lot of good dating pointers in there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe went out the other night, drunk a little, lol, and now she wants to go out again, whats the next move?
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reader, Rey +, writes (24 May 2008):
Life is too short to not go after the things you want. You say she flirts with you and confides in you so you've got a good shot. I say, go in slowly. Next time you guys are flirting tell her you have a crush on her and see if she responds. Then take it from there and ask her to go do something. Carpe Diem, Seize the day, bro! The only thing worse than failure is regret.
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reader, Miss sunshine  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 waterloo sunset is right! the only way to get this of your chest is to ask her out. even if she refuses you won't end up wondering what might have happened if you have asked her! and it is a good time now that she is flirting with you! what more do you want? she gave you the green light. now its your turn to make a move... good luck ;)
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reader, jezman  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 you like her alot.
do you want the feelings to go away? why?
maybe you think that because she dated your friend it would be wrong of you to like her.
its not wrong and if shes flirting with you then she definately has an interest in you.
you said that she says to you that her relationship with your friend is over yet other people claim its not.
she probably doesn't want to ruin any chances with you by saying that she is in a relationship.
you've just got to get to know her more thats all. find pass times that you both enjoy and just spend more time with her. you will form a greater bond and thus eventually you will be able to express you're feelings :)
keep us updated on the situation :D
best of luck
Jez
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (23 May 2008):
 Tell her how you feel
You'll never know how she feels otherwise
If you don't want to do it to her face then you could tell her over msn or something???
If she doesn't feel the same then at least you can move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): If you like her that much then why dont you ask her out, but remember if you do go out and you finish, then it could become tricky at work. But, live a little and take the bull by the horns and ask her out for a drink. Go on, you know you want to.
take carexx
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