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I'm only 10 and my friends are talking about sex. I don't understand!

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Question - (18 May 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am only 10 but all my friends are talking about blow jobs. . .

But i dont know what they are could someonw please help me so i know what my friends are talking about ?

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A male reader, jay27 United States +, writes (8 June 2008):

Is this some kind of joke? If this person is really only 10 what the hell is he/she doing on this site?

The subject raised though is a serious one---the earlier and earlier age at which young people pick up sexual information. One of my sons is 17, the other 14. When each was 12 I had the traditional father/son talk about life and sex. In both cases, especially with the younger one, I think they could have told me a thing or do. They knew all about the genitals, both male and female, and how copulation was performed. Although neither had had sex (I'm pretty sure they weren't lying about this) they both had been masturbating, and yes they even knew about oral sex. Well I could go on but the point is that the earlier children learn about sexuual practices the more time there is during the school years for sexaul pressures to build. My 17-year-old has actually talked to me about having sex (he was careful to say he would use a condom) but so far I think I have steered him off. But realistically I know it won't be long.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008):

Forget about this stuff baby, you got strange friends. You wanna go out and do something more interesting.....

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntI remember thinking I was the last to know about these things. When I was in the last year of junior school (aged 10-11); everybody was asking "Do you know what....means?"

Believe me, they don't know from hands-on experience. They only know because they read it, or have an older brother or sister.

In fact they only mention it, because they only just found out themselves!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

I really don't think we should be telling a ten year old girl what a blow job is and how to perform one... It's rather inapropriate.

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A male reader, john wayne United States +, writes (19 May 2008):

its not kissing its when a girl

sucks and strokes a mans penis with her mouth and it feels great.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008):

Your too young to be talking about that!! It's hard for anyone to really tell you what it is.

I know saying your young is patronizing, but now, even when I'm 15 we're too young to be having sex.

It's not sex as such, but it's oral. Look it up on google on something.

By the way your friends are...just a tad weird. People around your age are really irritating sometimes because they try and act older than they are. Don't try and do it, your not allowed to do anything, and your too young. Your 10 your still a child for gods sake!

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A female reader, lotsofgiggles123 United States +, writes (18 May 2008):

lotsofgiggles123 agony auntwell idk what it is but i do have some websites where you can look it up: avert.org

ask.com (look it up) wikipedia.com also look it up i hope this helps bye!

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntwhen your that young, sometimes especially girls they want to be older than they are

So they were make up, dress different and talk as if they were older.

Though i think 10 is too young to talk about it, its harmless just dont do it at age 10. Also if your uncomfortable with the topic of conversation just exit it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008):

Oh heck, this is so difficult. Your so young, I don't want to be the one to break your innocence. But it's not fair that everyone's talking about something and you don't understand.

A blowjob is a sexual act. It's when a woman kisses a man's penis. She puts it in her mouth and keeps kissing it until the sperm (white stuff to make babies) comes out.

Not all women like doing it, but all men like it when women do it to them. Don't feel ashamed about not knowing this stuff, when I was your age I didn't know where babies come from. I thought you telephoned the doctor and he brought the baby to your mum.

Don't worry that your friends know more sex stuff than you do. That's their hobby, that's what their interested in. When the time comes, they'll be telling you that they had sex early and are doing stuff with their boyfriends. They'll also be moaning to you about the diseases they catch or the fact that they got no money bec

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A male reader, jezman United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2008):

jezman agony aunti think its best if you ask your mum about those things before you go to anyone else. have you spoken to your mum yet?

your friends have obviously found out about sex before they should have...dont let yourself get pressured into talking about blowjobs if you dont feel comfortable with it.

keep us informed :)

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A female reader, carolinecooper United States +, writes (18 May 2008):

carolinecooper agony auntHello!

10 is really young...maybe it's just for kidding!

You're young but it's life,someday you'll learn!

It's not really bad to talk but don't do this at your age!

Maybe you need to talk with your mother,and she'll say what you can do and what you can't.I keep thinking that 10 is too young!!!

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