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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:today at school there was a little argument between my freinds i just sat there and let them get on with it becasue i thought it was silly.then i got dragged into it and my freind called our other freind (who wasnt in the argument either) "you are fat and anrexic".i said to freind "dont say that,thats not nice i wouldnt say that".then she said to me "you look like you dont eat anything" i am thin but not anrexic (becasue i eat a healthy amount of food).i got really upset and i am hert.she then said "thats a good thing".(how can not eating be a good thing).i never said anything back because i didnt want to stoop to her dirty level.then afterwoods she insits she was only joking.and she said "you take everything to heart" then at dinner i was eating a sandwhich she said "oh look your eating" (which she has scene me do many times).i am so upset i cant even look in the mirror anymore!.what should i do should i just ignore her or get even?help please. Reply to this Question
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reader, Teenage-Rebel +, writes (24 May 2008):
 Ignoring what she says might help. Have you tried talking to her?
If that doesn't help ignore her and/or talk to someone about it and how you feel about the situation.
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reader, jezman +, writes (22 May 2008):
 does she know that she hurt you?i was bullied when i was young but then i arranged a meeting with a teacher and the people who were bullying me, i cried in that meeting and then they realised they were hurting me, i havn't been bullied since. ignoring her won't solve the problem but if you want to stay friends with her then i wont advice ignoring her :)you have to confront her about this, i can see from how you explained your question that you are definately mature and you know what you're talking about. yo will definately understand me then when i say that in any argument there is no point in getting worked up (especially with your friend) because it will only upset or provoke the person you are talking/ arguing to. keep your cool when you confront her so you can get your point across clearly. keep us posted on how this goes :)jez x
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reader, babymamma626  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 Maybe you should find better friends! I'd ignore it and find people who don't act like that. First of all girls are the meanest of any sex men can be mean but girls just know how to push another womans buttons and somehow alot of girls get thrill and excitement out of it. The girl who started the "argument" is obviously a loud-mouthed little girl who bases herself on appearence. GET OVER IT...getting even will only cause this scene to get worse! TRUST ME! IGNORE IT.
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