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writes:Heyy .. My boyfriend of 5 months and I had some trouble, due to his mother over our whole relationship. he always fought with her to tell her to back off and leave me and him alone. Before we started dating me, both he and I and his mother were great, we would go for walks together and id always be there to help her out when ever she needed me, but when we started dating she didnt want to like me anymore in her words.The past 2 weeks i barely got to see my boyfriend, he lives 3 houses away from mine. there were 2 deaths in his family within the last week, so i told him to stay with his mom and keep her company and told him to be strong and things will get better and that i will always be there for him. Just recently (yesterday - July 8th 2011), he came to my house and i hugged him and i didnt want to let him go, but we went for a walk, and we talked and everything was going great! he has a curfew of 11;00pm, because his mother doesnt want us to be together for long.At 10;30pm we walked to his house and he didnt want to let me go, like everytime i tried to leave so his mom wouldnt see me, he would grab me and pull me back and he would kiss me. A few mins later i was walking down to my house and i seen his mom in her car pulling into their drive way,and so i texted him saying good timing your moms home and that i love him. My next door neighbour wanted me to go to the store with him so i did, and i got a text message from my boyfriend saying " We cant see each other for a while. dont complain, dont call just listen". I texted him back asking what he was talking about and to explain because i was really confused. He then texted me saying " Will you stop messaging me im done fighting for you". I then replied asking what he was talking about again because it was getting more and more confusing. So His last text message to me was " Im not fighting for you anymore our whole relationships a *** up, stop texting me". I had to text him back, i couldnt resist so i texted him back saying " I love you no matter what, and im sorry i cause you and your mom to fight, but ill always be here for you and sorry i know you told me to stop texting but i needed you to know this, you dont have to reply but like i said i needed you to know this. I love you". He hasn't talked or messaged me since, i have no idea what he meant by hes "not fighting for me anymore and that our whole relationship is a *** up" . Did he just break up with me? or am i missing something?. Sorry this is so long, but i find the more the information, the clearer the question is which then leads to a clearer answer. So thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): I'm afraid yes he did just break up with you. Also I'm not sure if I would want to be with such a mummys boy if I were you anyhow. He has done you a favour by showing his true colours now, dumping you in such a cruel way and proving that mummy really does always win.
Are you sure there was no fight between you and his mum at any time? Did you hurt her son in any way? Did you ever bad mouth his mother?
If not then let it go and find a nice boy who is open to meeting a nice young girl. I fear this boy will never be able to have a girlfriend.
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reader, janna03  +, writes (10 July 2011):
maybe he got jealous with when u went to store with your neighbor coz thats so weird, a guy wont respond like that and wont say things like that all of sudden. there is something wrong that made him hate u, and give up just like that, you better find it out.
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reader, Jay_xxxxx  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 There is two reasons he could have sent that text, one the way he was with you before you left could have been his way to say goodbye as he has been left with his mother for a long time without you being there and she could have been driving him nuts and he decided enough was enough and that could be the reason for the text saying 'Im not fighting for you anymore our whole relationships a *** up' his mum could have been putting all these things into his head.And the last could be that his mum had his phone Try going around when his mum ain't there and talk to himI hope it all gets better soon Jay x x x
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (10 July 2011):
sorry to say but yes this sounds like he has broke up with you sounds like his mam has got to him that much he,s broke up with you to keep her happy also you went to the shop with your neighbour was your neighbour a lad? if so maybe he has gotten jealous good luck
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