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... Send *ada101 a private message | | | *ada101's profile:Im 21 years old I live in new york. I have a 4 year old. Im havein my 2nd child is on the way.I go 2 school L.P.N can't wait till im done with schol so I can make better money. Thanks god that I have a boyfriend that help me a lot with kid,bills,school and when im feelin done all I have 2do is tk 2 him and things work out better. My mother and I don't mix 2 much that long story fother in dominican rep... so it always been me doing things 4 my self untill I found my bf it been me and him but if he is gone 2morrow I know ill be ok. I don't love my life but I know its the only 1 I got so im working on makein it better everyday and that makes me happy. Will power is what its all about |
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Unsure if I should go meet this guy! Help!
Q. hi this 19 yr old guy (and im 13) likes me and i like him back and he is planning for me to go to america to meet him when im 18 and im unsure whether to go coz of age differences and that ive never met him before, Sounds like a really sweet, ...
A. 8 April 2010: he sounds to me like he is a bad man, no 19 year old should be talkin to a 13 year old. Most of the times people are not who they say they are on line. If he was so nice why is he lookin to talk to a young girl. In america there is a lot of people ... (read in full...)
I'm preganant but wonder what future there is with my boyfriend.
Q. Have you ever thought to yourself "why you are with this guy or girl" well soe times when my boyfriend is a sleep I look at him and start to think "why am I with you, do you even love me, why do you do the things you do, why do you act like you ...
A. 5 April 2010: Thanks I see what your saying ... (read in full...)
I'm preganant but wonder what future there is with my boyfriend.
Q. Have you ever thought to yourself "why you are with this guy or girl" well soe times when my boyfriend is a sleep I look at him and start to think "why am I with you, do you even love me, why do you do the things you do, why do you act like you ...
A. 5 April 2010: Funny thing my bestfriend is going to drive me crazy with her bf bs and after that I started to stress myself out. Started thinks to much bout my bf bs ... (read in full...)
I'm preganant but wonder what future there is with my boyfriend.
Q. Have you ever thought to yourself "why you are with this guy or girl" well soe times when my boyfriend is a sleep I look at him and start to think "why am I with you, do you even love me, why do you do the things you do, why do you act like you ...
A. 5 April 2010: Soon567 no I don't think so. He pays most of the bills in the house so if he did moved out it would be less $ for him to spend on me. ... (read in full...)
My g/f wants me to skip my brother's wedding for our anniversary
Q. Dear readers, I have quite the tricky situation on my hands and I would like to know what you guys would do if you were in my situation. Here it goes. Me and my girlfriend began dating on October 8th, 2008. We've been relatively okay, except we ...
A. 5 April 2010: How old is she 12! That just so stupid and selfish. How could you not go to your brother wedding. My boyfriend and i don't know what date we started going out. We just know what month. So we just pick whatever day in that month that we both are not ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble coping with my emotions and feel like I'm in a void
Q. I'm deeply hurt, and I feel void. I've been feeling like this for a while, like my life is empty, like I wish my life wasn't so dull. I can't cope with my emotions. And last night, something terrible happened. I was with my, now I suppose, ex boyf...
A. 5 April 2010: Frist of all what you did in the past is the past. You wasn't with him when you did whatever it was that you did. you have to start loveing yourself befor you start loving sombody. Find yourself. What's wrong. What happend that makes you think that ... (read in full...)
Will our baby have a birth defect? No judemental answers please.
Q. im having a relationship with my 1st cousin. I love him so much i would die for him and he would for me the thing is we want to have a baby but im afraid it might be born with a birth defect. I know what people are thinking were sick and its gros ...
A. 2 April 2010: Good luck on your preg..... im 16 week perg... myself but not with my cousin. But to tell you the truth you should be ok.. Even if you have a baby with somebody that's not family. Somthing can still go wrong or nothing can happen.. So just go on ... (read in full...)
I have a 4yo and am pregnant, how do I improve my life for my children and me?
Q. Im 21 years old I have a 4 year old baby girl and im 16 weeks preg... I want to be sombody in life. But I don't know were to start. I fished high school but don't know how if my reading math ext is really bad. I want togo to school but I don't know ...
A. 1 April 2010: Thanks everybody for your help... I started looikin on line for schools. And I think I want to tack this CNA class.. I found a school that is $600.00 I just have to wait untill I have my baby till then im going to try to put up the cash. I know it ... (read in full...)
What can I say to my friend, she keeps asking me for help and I don't know what to say!
Q. Ok I was reading a post on here with a friend and her boyfrind well I asked him if " lets say if you was married but are not together with your wife and have a new girlfriend but still married and one day you cheat with your wife but liveing with ...
A. 31 March 2010: Ohh and I was the one that just found.. She just told... (read in full...)
What can I say to my friend, she keeps asking me for help and I don't know what to say!
Q. Ok I was reading a post on here with a friend and her boyfrind well I asked him if " lets say if you was married but are not together with your wife and have a new girlfriend but still married and one day you cheat with your wife but liveing with ...
A. 31 March 2010: My friend is 24 and her boyfriend I think is like 34 to 36 I think... (read in full...)
What can I say to my friend, she keeps asking me for help and I don't know what to say!
Q. Ok I was reading a post on here with a friend and her boyfrind well I asked him if " lets say if you was married but are not together with your wife and have a new girlfriend but still married and one day you cheat with your wife but liveing with ...
A. 31 March 2010: You know that's what I keep on telling her. But he said he will when he gets the cash. but I think he is just full of it because its been to years together... (read in full...)
What on earth is up with my teacher and the food?! please help
Q. My teacher brought in cake/sweets for our class because it was end of term. He does this usually, it is really lovely of him he has brought in things like Krispy Kremes for our year 12 (like 11th grade?) sixth form class before, and only us not the ...
A. 31 March 2010: Just let it go... when I was in high school I used to have a teacher like that. Always had sweets,food, I always used to eat it but one day I was just not feeling like it.. So because I never said no befor he asked me like 5 times.. I guess he ... (read in full...)
Lies or not?
Q. K. So I don't know where to start . I'm 16 and she's 15 . We were going out for almost five months it was starting to get ... Irritating. We were both just being stupid and getting angry at each other. So we decided to take A little break.oh and ...
A. 31 March 2010: I would just let her go.. She lie, calls the other boy, he sends her text saying thanks for calling her back ext just move one. There are other fish in the sea don't worry bout the spelling... im on my cell phone sidekick so I know how the typos are ... (read in full...)
Pregnant ex has completly shut me out!
Q. Can you al please help me. Long story shory, I met the girl of my dreams in Nov 09. We got on so well together. That well that before we knew it, we had each others names tatooed on each other as she wanted a symbol of us. We had separate houses. ...
A. 31 March 2010: Don't send her sh*t... do you know if she is keeping the baby if she is still preg.... wait and see if the baby is yours ... (read in full...)
Do I come clean or leave the reason for the break up as is?
Q. Okay so I have made a mess of things and I just want to try and do the best I can from the mess I've made! I've been dating this guy for about 6 months and it has been really good and I have NO complaints, this guy is almost perfect.... He has been...
A. 30 March 2010: Whats pulling you back to him is that wanting to have the perfect family dady and momie together. If it didn't work out the frist time with your ex why come back to him... and 6 years and this was rocky what makes you think that the 2nd time is ... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband comfortable with the idea of me having sex with other men?
Q. My husband and I have been married for ten years. I think that i have a healthy and realistic view of sex. I have told him that if he ever gets bored with our sex life that he is welcome to sleep with other women. He of course told me that he ...
A. 30 March 2010: Ok your lucky a$$ hell that he doesn't want to cheat. Some woman on here are trying to stop a man from cheating and you want hime too the world is so crazy this day. That a no no ... (read in full...)
He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house
Q. I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have ...
A. 30 March 2010: Just let him go... I have you ever thought of the fact that maybe he just lives with you because the his wife doesn't want him to live with her. He might not have were togo that why he is still with you. Puting his name in your house would be stupid ... (read in full...)
Can you give me one good reason why I shouldn't just dump him?
Q. I love this guy with all my heart; he's my first love, and every time I think about us breaking up I just start to cry. We began our relationship online in 2008, but since he and I were both under 18 and living on opposite sides of the country, we ...
A. 30 March 2010: Just let that boy go. He likes playing chat games to much for me....... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 30 March 2010: Well he can for give you but trust when I say he will never forget. Even if he does for give you things will never be the same. I look at it like this it was over when you started cheating. ... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 27 March 2010: I think it will work out, my grandma and jose used to date when they was 17 and 20 my grandma moved so they had to stop datein... funny thing that they sow each other 5 years ago and have been together for 5 years now.. Jose is now 85 so do the ... (read in full...)
Help me win my ex back before she ruins her life with alcohol poisoning and one night stands!
Q. hi there, i just got dump by my girlfriend, after a 2 yrs relationship..well mostly its my fault, not that i cheat or an big major asshole phychopath but mostly i am way too busy workin and i dont put enough effort to spend time with her...and i ...
A. 27 March 2010: Well if you think that it will work then try to talk to her stop by the cafe and talk to her but try to stop by at a time that you think she might be by her self but it looks like she doesn't want it to work out ... (read in full...)
How can I stand on my own feet and support my family?
Q. Dear cupid, I'm a 24 year married Indian woman who has a one year old child. Two years back I got married to a man who does not take any decision on his own but always depends on his mother for anything, however trivial the issue may be. The prob...
A. 27 March 2010: Well frist of all I would like to know if you live in the usa my sister has 2 kids and now lives by herself has a good job with no help from her kids fother the frist thing that she did was get daycare for the kids she couldn't pay for it at the ... (read in full...)
He posted online for male sex partners! Is he just bi-curious?
Q. I have recently discovered that my boyfriend has been posting m4m ads on craigslist. For some reason, this is more comforting than m4w. But that's another story... I don't know if he's acted on any of these (I only know of three) but why is he ...
A. 27 March 2010: Its not nasty for him to like both sex but it is nasty for him to do it with people that he doesn't know. If it was me I would be askin this ? I would be lookin for a new boyfriend ... (read in full...)
It seems he doesn't want to have sex with me and is so distant... what's going on?
Q. I don't know what to do. Im 21 years old my bf is 39 I been with him for almost 3 years and we live 2gether im 3 months preg... and sometimes it feels like we don't have nothing 2 talk about and he is still married I asked him 2 end the marriage and ...
A. 25 March 2010: thanks for your help well I think I know what going on with him. Well a few months b4 I lost my job. And now he lost his so because of that he is thinking bout bills all the time... I feel so bad bout that fact that I don't know how 2 help because ... (read in full...)
Would I be imposing if I went to the funeral?
Q. I've been with my BF for about 7 months. I've met his family and we're quite serious. I met his grandmother last week and I've just found out that she died yesterday. My BF told me about her funeral and then said 'you're welcome to come.' Was...
A. 18 March 2010: You should go and be there for him it will show him that your gonna be there for good times and bad ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant and want to keep the baby
Q. hi my name is desiree and i stress every day its so much drama that go on in my life i been through alot and im having a baby and i no im kinda young but i think i can handle it because i carry myself as a young ladie dont get into no more drama and ...
A. 18 March 2010: Honey if u want 2 keep ur child then do so because @ the end of the day its ur body ur feelin that a are going 2 b hurt if u don't keep this child but allso just 2 let u know ur life will change a lot lots im 21 years I have 4 year and if I could ... (read in full...)
Three months later and she still won't introduce me to her family.
Q. My girlfriend is 19 I'm 30! That has been going for 3 months. Her family knows me, 3 close friends of her know about her and me but she won't tell her family about her and me, she won't let me meet her other friends! She says she don't want to be ...
A. 18 March 2010: Judged or rejected sounds like she has some growin up 2do the age-difference does bother her seems that she is insecure of the relationship im 21 and my bf is 39 I been witjh him 4 almost 3 years. After 2 moths into the relationship he know all my ... (read in full...)
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