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*ada101
writes:I don't know what to do. Im 21 years old my bf is 39 I been with him for almost 3 years and we live 2gether im 3 months preg... and sometimes it feels like we don't have nothing 2 talk about and he is still married I asked him 2 end the marriage and he said that when he gets the money but that it shouldn't matter 2 me bacuase we are 2gether and he don't want 2 get married again but I do. And at times its like he is thinking about somthing and I ask him its always nothing when I ask him how he is feeling, its always nothing, before we used 2 have sex 3 to 4 times a week and now there are weeks that we don't at all. sometimes I try 2 have sex with him and he just turns the other way.He saids he loves me and that he wants 2 be with me but I don't know if that's the truth because I sometimes have 2 ask like 12 times 2 just have sex with him what do u guys think.
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reader, jada101 +, writes (25 March 2010):
jada101 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for your help well I think I know what going on with him. Well a few months b4 I lost my job. And now he lost his so because of that he is thinking bout bills all the time... I feel so bad bout that fact that I don't know how 2 help because im 15 weeks preg... and because of that getin a job is not going 2 happen so everythin is on him. I think he is happy bout the baby but he thinks bout not haveing a job and the bills so I think we are both scared. I don't know how 2 make him feel better so this is hurting me 2..... plz tell me how I go bout this I hate seein him this way and I hate feelin this way..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): If he looks as if hes thinking about something...thats because he is!
I know how frustrating it is when a partners behaviour changes and you know theres something wrong but they wont say what. Im afraid the only thing you can do is keep asking. Without knowing whats wrong theres little you can do to fix it. Ive a feeling what ever it is, its something you may not want to hear. Hence his silence.
He might be thinking about his past and feeling down. He may not be happy about the pregnancy. You didnt say if it was planned or not. It could be many things but the important thing is, you have to get him to talk.
Maybe even speak to his friends, ask if they know of a reason he might be unhappy. If you could get a hint of whats bothering him it would be a place to start. Good luck x
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