I was pretty sure my promotion had something to do with sleeping with my manager
Q. Hello people. I've been at my current place of employment for three years now. I consider myself a trust-worthy, hard and efficient worker and have been working hard towards a promotion. I've always been slightly distracted by my manager. She's only...
A. 30 March 2009: Use email to document her statements that are indicating you can get more promotion from sleeping with her.
Print the emails and go straight to a lawyer & your companies HR department. Sue your company for damages. Cash in.
This might so... (read in full...)
My husband is having an erectile problem. Help!
Q. In the past 3 times that my husband and I have had sex, his penis starts off hard but than it goes down- he tries to get it hard, and sometimes it does but once he goes inside of me, it goes down again. We never had this problem before, we wher...
A. 30 March 2009: Could be the economy. Hows his portfolio doing?
Mine's got me stressed. It's definitely not you so don't worry. Try not to make a big deal of it and spend some more time on foreplay. Next time it happens just sit on his face or somethin... (read in full...)
Phone records show my wife having an affair
Q. I found out by phone records that my wife was having an affair. she says it was not at all sexual. But she was in contact with this guy while I was out of the house, during work and other times. She even texted with him 26 times in one day after ...
A. 30 March 2009: If there where just platonic friends then why would the contact all of a sudden stop??
She probably is cheating and now has a cheap disposable cell phone that she uses to contact her fella.
You should contact the other guy and meet him. I wou... (read in full...)
My wife is going to sleep with another man tomorrow
Q. I do not have a direct question, I just want some love from the dear cupid community. My wife of 12 years has plans to sleep with an old boyfriend tomorrow. She is in another state visiting her mother. While there, she met up with this guy. Th...
A. 30 March 2009: You opened pandora's box with your wife whom has only had one sexual partner. Your crazy brother. Totally crazy. No going back now. Start looking into divorce lawyers.... (read in full...)
B/f wants to know some of my b/f tricks!
Q. I have givin blow jobs before, but not to my new boyfriend. He wants to know some of my tricks. What should i tell him...
A. 26 March 2009: Just blow him already!! (if you are comfortable with that)
Whatever you do don't mention things you did with last boyfriends unless you are prepared to try them(at least once) with him.
Example of what a guy doesn't need to here "My last BF... (read in full...)
Why has she left it this long to tell me that? Could she be lying?
Q. I'm having the time of my life romancing an older woman. I'm 26 and she's 46. You have to see her to believe her. She's gorgeous and got a great personality. We met at a party, she's a friend's friend's friend's friend's Mum or something like that...
A. 26 March 2009: "Could she be lying?" YES! YES she could!!! People lie all the time dude. The most important reason to keep using condoms is STD's. Studies/reports show growing percentage of women in their late 30's-40's are contracting STI's/ STD's She has... (read in full...)
I hate my B-cups and I need to know how to make them bigger!
Q. ok im 15 and ive been in a B cup since the 5th grade and im a small B i hate the way they look Especially without a push up bra i mean my 10 year old sister is bigger than me {go ahead and laugh cause that is funny} my boyfriend trys to make me ...
A. 26 March 2009: Do pilates to keep your waist small and high reps with light weights & eat healthy. You should end up looking very much in proportion and very sexy to any red blooded male.
Most guys will have no issue with a small chest so long as you take car... (read in full...)
Could I ask my ex if I can stay at his apartment, he has a new girlfriend!
Q. I would appreciate some advice and feedback on this one. I am going away for spring break and will be in the city that my ex returned to four years ago. I have a place to stay for three nights but note that there is no train on the day I want t...
A. 26 March 2009: He probably wouldn't care because guys tend to use logic when making decisions (you save money, safe etc) Girls on the other hand tend to use emotion (more often) when deciding so his GF might play it like she's cool and then lose it on the poor ... (read in full...)
Secret rendezvous with my ex's mum, is that OK?
Q. It was my birthday yesterday and my ex-girlfriend's Mum called me to wish me happy birthday. We have always got on so it's not unusual for her to call me. During the call, she said that she was preparing a surprise for me and would send it to my ...
A. 26 March 2009: Her fault. Not yours. You should go for it. Time is non refundable. Should be a great experience. Just don't tell your ex.... (read in full...)
Can casual sex between friends work or is our friendship heading for disaster?
Q. My best friend and I hang out together alot. She's always over at my house at the weekends, she stays over on Friday and Saturday nights. Last Saturday, she was over as usual. We were watching a film on the settee. At the end of the film, we were...
A. 26 March 2009: Don't label it at all bro!!!
You have a great relationship built on friendship & trust and now it has moved on to another level that you are both enjoying. Don't stress just let things progress as they already have. Don't label it it's stupid j... (read in full...)
She is unsatisfied in sex with her husband
Q. how do I know a woman i am looking for sexual relationship is also interested because she is unsatisfied in sex with her husband...
A. 26 March 2009: You are in India right?? You run serious risks f****g around with another mans wife in ANY culture; especially one that still takes marriage so seriously. ... (read in full...)
8 years of marriage..6 with no intimacy!
Q. Help!!!! I have been married for 8 years, six of which have been void of intimacy. My husband can't even hold my hand or give me a hug!!! We have had sex once in six years !!!!!!!!!!! We have had counselling which has in no way helped. I hav...
A. 24 March 2009: Everyone's life gets turned upside down at some point. Divorce, abuse, death etc... these things happen.
Thing is you're not happy and if you continue in your unhappy relationship it's possible that that will rub off on your daughter and she coul... (read in full...)
I think he wants to trap me!
Q. Help plz!! Today was the first time I had sex with my boyfriend. He didn't use a condom. He said he wasn't going to nut inside of me. I gave him a rag to use when he pulled out. So he claims he used the rag. But when I was cleaning up the room I ...
A. 23 March 2009: Are you people CRAZY!?!?!?!
Pulling out doesn't work!!!
"We agreed kids were nowhere in our future. But what should I do?"
Are you serious??! Use condoms!!! This is not his fault honey. It takes two to tango and you hold domain for your own ... (read in full...)
Is it my imagination that she might be turned on by this older man?
Q. Is this my imagination or is it real, that’s my dilemma? I have been married for six years and we have 2 children and both me and my wife are successful in our work, I have my own IT business and she is physiologist. We are both 29 and she is...
A. 23 March 2009: I don't think your wife is cheating.
Albeit the freakishly hung piano teacher is really something to think about.
I think she probably is getting some kind of mental stimulation from the piano teacher but the most important thing is that sh... (read in full...)
I really want to be in porn!!!
Q. I really want to be in porn. It's my dream. What do I do. I'm even on chatrooms where I meet up for all sorts of sex with all sorts of people and send photos of me. Everyone says I'm a stunner and I really just really want to be a porn star. Advice ...
A. 23 March 2009: Make friends with someone else in the business (female star not a male producer) Learn from their mistakes and ask them for advice.
You shouldn't be sending pics out over the internet. Remember the internet is a reservoir of information and thos... (read in full...)
Jealousy inducing wife
Q. I am a married man coming into my 1st anniversary with my wife. Even though we made it this far, we have issues. I am laidback when it comes to a lot of things, but I can be jealous. It takes quite a bit I think, to bring it out though. My wife ...
A. 23 March 2009: She is cheating or is going to cheat. FOR SURE!
Suspicion haunts the guilty mind. that's why she freaks out at you if you add a girl to your friends list etc...
A married woman I worked with sent me naked pictures to my cell phone 2 years ag... (read in full...)
8 years of marriage..6 with no intimacy!
Q. Help!!!! I have been married for 8 years, six of which have been void of intimacy. My husband can't even hold my hand or give me a hug!!! We have had sex once in six years !!!!!!!!!!! We have had counselling which has in no way helped. I hav...
A. 23 March 2009: Was he intimate when your where dating??? Is this really new behavior? Maybe he is sexually submissive and wants you to force him into sex. Maybe he's gay. Maybe he's cheating with another woman. You have to talk to him. Not us. Explain what ... (read in full...)
My husband gropes my best friend when he's drunk!
Q. Please help!! My husband and I went to the Island for Spring Break 2009. We all got relevantly drunk but apparently my husband surpassed his limits. My best friend told me at the end of the night that my husband had groped her ass and tits while we ...
A. 23 March 2009: He was probably just hammered and thought he could get into the threesome or something. I say relax. While it's not acceptable behavior I don't think it's worth ending a marriage over. At least you know he's not gay :)
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I was too drunk to remember what I'd done!!!
Q. I'm 14, my sister is 15. She's dating a 16 year old who has a 14 year old sister, 24 year old brother and a 26 year old step brother. My sister's bf had a massive birthday party for his 16th and I was invited as I'm friends with his younger her ...
A. 23 March 2009: You got date raped. I don't know the sitch in the UK but in Canada if you didn't consent to anything and they took advantage of you (A MINOR)by feeding you alcohol until they had their way with you.
Don't expect men who behave like this to be ho... (read in full...)
Is this intimacy?
Q. Is this intimacy....? I went out with this guy who ive been seeing, and we got pizza and was eating it in the back of this car, I was leaning on him, he was sitting behind me and my back was leaning on his chest and his arms were around my waist ma...
A. 27 November 2008: It's not really a case of "he must like you to behave like this" but surely the more obvious sign is that you have both been seeing each other for a while! It sure looks like he likes you. Try asking him. Guys appreciate direct communication ... (read in full...)
He wanted me to stick my finger up his bum! Why?
Q. my bf and i was having sex the other day when he wanted me to stick my finger up his bum, why did he want me to do this, he said he liked it mut my nails where to long, i was going to do it again last nite but he said no why did he want me to do it...
A. 27 November 2008: Finger in the bum can be lots of fun; especially during a BJ. Lube up[ and put a condom over your fingers; use 1 finger at first and then two; insert and make a 'come hither' motion gently massaging his prostate. He'll go nuts a have a very powe... (read in full...)
What does he mean by "it wouldn't bother him if I cheated?"
Q. help me untangle this weird love thing I am in please... recently I got together with a guy and its been great... we were talking the other day about a whole trust issue thing and he mentioned to me that if I cheat he wouldn't bother chasing me or ...
A. 27 November 2008: He has most likely been cheated on in the past. Men tend to romanticize women in their heads. It really takes us by surprise when we get cheated on and it really fucks us up. (Obviously it also hurts women when they get cheated on and that sucks ... (read in full...)
Why can't he work harder to get my parents' approval?
Q. I am a very ambitious 21 year old girl from India. My parents are both doctors and have always been high achievers. My relationship with my boyfriend started when I was just 16 and this is our 5th year now, he was my class fellow. My family is one ...
A. 27 November 2008: Hi there, I can feel for your situation. I am a white guy living in Canada. I fell in love with an Indian girl; we spent 4 years together and moved in with each other. She was from a very affluent family and I am Irish('nuff said). There wa... (read in full...)
Any ideas on giving my guy a blast, with great oral sex?
Q. My partner says he has never came from getting head. What can I do to make this happen? Any ideas to send him over the top?...
A. 15 November 2008: spend a lot of time at the head. Make eye contact. Talk dirty. Pay attention to the balls. Take your time. All else fails.... pinky in the bum :)... (read in full...)
Stuck in Purgatory
Q. I think I am the biggest idiot ever born. I think I really fell for a man I met online. I have been talking to him on and off for well over a year, we have lost touch for a couple weeks and lastly for a few months but when we talked again a few ...
A. 15 November 2008: Are you 100% sure he's not married?
You may have set yourself up for a let down here. Give it some time though; He may just not know exactly what to do or say next and it's tripping him out. Wait until he makes contact with you; in the mean tim... (read in full...)
Was he just being nice, or is there something more to it?
Q. I'm asking for your advice. A guy I know, who works at the same place as me, spent 2 and a half hours chatting to me through facebook chat. He was chatting from 2230 till about 1am. He has to be up at 5am for work. We get on really well, always ...
A. 14 November 2008: He most likely likes you. I would spend time talking to a friend but not that much time if I had to work early. If he is single and not gay then he is probably most definitely into you.... (read in full...)
Does the areola size really matter?
Q. ok so heres the thing, im happy with my body and i like how things are portioned overall but theres one problem. My breasts are a 36C and i like the size but my areola [the part around my nipple] on them are like 2 inches and kinda dark sometimes ...
A. 14 November 2008: No way man!! Your man is gonna be so stoked about 36c's that he would never care about the size or your areola. Take it from me A GUY! Just learn to love your body for what it is as there is very little you can do about it.
I can seriousl... (read in full...)
I just found out I'm pregnant from a one-night stand! What should I do?
Q. hello everyone and cupid, im 18 years old and my adult life is goin great, but sepemtember, my friends, azlynn and alanna, invited guys from murfreeboro, of course they were from a band called [moderator removed identifying details]. We all got a ho...
A. 14 November 2008: Look very CAREFULLY AT ALL OF YOUR OPTIONS!!!!!
Get the STD test immediately; consider the implications of having the child. This is your choice and your choice only and it's one that you are sure to reflect on for sometime regardless of the choi... (read in full...)
If he really does love her then should I feel threatened by this?
Q. Hi. I've known this woman at work now for about 2.5 years and we have started dating for the past 12 months. Our relationship has grown out of friendship. Anyway, the other day she told me that she thinks that someone else (who may not know about me ...
A. 14 November 2008: Just play it out. Take buddy out for some drinks or bowling; meet him on a man-to-man level, ask him for some advice about work to stroke his ego a bit; let him know honestly and straight up where you stand with your woman. He'll respect you and ... (read in full...)
Should I politely tell him to go away or should I throw caution to the wind and meet up?
Q. About 7 months ago I started temping at a company I worked at 6 years ago. A couple of weeks after I started I got an e-mail from a guy I used to work with saying hiya how are you, saw you in the canteen, you're still hot, are you still single. I ...
A. 14 November 2008: Seriously way to go. Stand firm by your decision.... (read in full...)
Should I politely tell him to go away or should I throw caution to the wind and meet up?
Q. About 7 months ago I started temping at a company I worked at 6 years ago. A couple of weeks after I started I got an e-mail from a guy I used to work with saying hiya how are you, saw you in the canteen, you're still hot, are you still single. I ...
A. 13 November 2008: It takes two to tango but still he is a sleaze bag. The only reason the sex sounds like it's going to be good is because he gradually got you to divulge more and more details over time. It really wouldn't be very difficult for someone to ... (read in full...)
Husband open with me about having sex with other men !!
Q. Hello Again, I have posted before and you guys gave me very valuable and insightful information.... but I am still wondering if I am doing the right thing. I have been married for 25 years, have 3 children + 2 foster boys that are all freshmen...
A. 13 November 2008: I tend to agree with old fool. He has totally opened up to you and I don't think that he'd leave you.
He does have a 'kink'. I have read that some people believe that specific kinks in people can be their personal way of living out early ch... (read in full...)
I ejaculate quickly and there is nothing I can do about it!
Q. I am 20 and I don't know if I will ever get a girlfriend. I ejaculate quickly and there is nothing I can do about it! I don't know what to do anymore I am going crazy! Girls all want sex, but that is nothing I could ever give to a girl! It sucks and ...
A. 13 November 2008: Buddy don't worry about it; tons of guys cum quickly. In fact most guys probably only last a few minutes. You are young and as you get more experience you will understand your body more and you will be able to control it more.
In the mean tim... (read in full...)
He's started saying I might be a lesbian because I hardly ever come during penetrative sex!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for nerly 3 years now and i hardly ever come during penatrive sex but do all the time on my clit hes now started saying ooohhh you mite be a lesbian i now am reading into it but dont no what to think i am open minded ...
A. 12 November 2008: Next time you are giving him a blow job; strick your finger in his ass. He will love it and cum harder than he has ever before.
When he's done suggest that he might be gay and see how he feels about that HA!
Hun, if he's been your BF for thre... (read in full...)
Are me and my wife over?
Q. A few days ago I went exes (we're just friends now) place had a few beers and was I too wasted to drive home. I called my wife to ask her give ride home. When she got to the house (she wasn't too happy that I was drunk) my ex told her come then it ...
A. 12 November 2008: smarten up buddy and man up to your wife. Show a little respect; apologize and stop hanging out with the ex if she's going to do shit like this. C'mon now; give your head a shake.... (read in full...)
Do you know anybody who quit drug addiction?
Q. Do you know anybody who quit drug addiction? Do you know what made them quit? Do you know how did they got into it? Do you think drug addiction a disease or a choice? My child is very sick, but I can't do anything, all attempt failed. D...
A. 12 November 2008: Depends on the drug they are using. Typically though the addict only stands a chance of being helped if the addict deeply and truly wants help. If they are happy in their addiction you are beating your head off a wall.
Some people need to hit r... (read in full...)
How much does it cost to be tested for std's?
Q. I'm a sexually active young woman, and I haven't been tested for STD's in over a year. I haven't been back, because I didn't feel like there was a reason to, after all, everything seems fine as I don't have any unusual symptoms. But the last guy I ...
A. 12 November 2008: In Canada we have free health care; so we don't pay for STD tests. I've heard though in parts of Seattle and San Fransisco that you can get free STD test at some gay nightclubs. Maybe check that out.... (read in full...)
Weird orgasm!
Q. It's crazy, I've never felt like this during an orgasm with any girl.. but with my girlfriend it's different when I cum, it seems like everything goes completly numb or starts to tingle and I can't move at all!! Is that normal or what??...
A. 12 November 2008: Hey buddy,
Don't sweat it bro; it feels good right? I have had sex with very many women; only about 3 women have ever been able to do this to me and most of the time only from performing oral sex on me; but sometimes will happen when she is on to... (read in full...)
He's got a secret cell phone, could he be cheating on me?
Q. I think my husband is having an affair! my husband has a cell phone that i "accidentally" found out about! he says his mom gave it to him. he hides it ALL the time, and if i ask to see it, he gets mad. the one time he let me hold it for a ...
A. 30 October 2008: Cheating or selling drugs.. seriously that's the only two reasons he'd have another phone short of being a secret agent. And he doesn't sound Bond smooth.
If I where you I would buy my own cell phone(even if you have one) and keep it secret f... (read in full...)
Guys, what do you really think about breast implants?
Q. Hey guys, is this true? http://www.implantforum.com/men.html I always thought the MAJORITY of guys hated fake breasts. Is this true? I'm small and natural, and well, I've toyed with the idea of getting implants because frankly, I don't feel se...
A. 27 October 2008: They're awesome. If you want them get them done. Get a good doctor and spend extra to get exactly what you want. They're awesome though. Guys love them.... (read in full...)
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