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anonymous
writes:It was my birthday yesterday and my ex-girlfriend's Mum called me to wish me happy birthday. We have always got on so it's not unusual for her to call me. During the call, she said that she was preparing a surprise for me and would send it to my phone. I thought it was going to be something daft and funny. About 45 minutes later, my phone lit up. The message had arrived. I opened it and it was a short video of my ex's Mum naked and doing something explicit to herself! Towards the end of the video she said, "I'll be round tomorrow night and you can have your present. It'll be our little secret and nobody will find out." I almost choked on my birthday cake to say the least!While I admit that she is gorgeous for her age and that I have always had a crush on her, I got really aroused by the video. I haven't called or text her but she has sent me a message saying she'll see me at 7pm. I don't think I'll be able to resist her. I know what some of you might think but I'm single and she's single so there'd be nothing wrong in us having some fun if nobody will find out, would there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): It's not about your ex dictating your sex life, it's about you deciding not to ruin the relationship between a mother and a daughter.
I guess it depends on how good the relationship between your ex and ex-mom is, but you're kidding yourself if you think that no one will ever find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): She has no respect for herself, and betraying her own daughter, what a shame. Well, while you at it, pick up some prostitutes and have a threesome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): I say go for it! Yes, I’m a girl and I say life is too short. Both of you are single consenting adults. Hope you have a fun time too!
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (26 March 2009):
Her fault. Not yours. You should go for it. Time is non refundable. Should be a great experience. Just don't tell your ex.
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reader, ErinPatterson  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 It is not your fault but that is so not cool for that woman to do that to her daughter. I mean being a guy its not your concern but try to find that lil ounce of like something and dont do it..its just plain weird for a mom to like send someting like that to one of her daughters ex boyfriends..it reminds me of that movie with Jack Nicholson..lol..good luck,,
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Ok, if an ex girl of mine started seeing or just messing around with my dad, yea it would be wierd. But you know, that has no bearing on what my ex does if she and I are not even friends anymore. It would be an issue with me and my dad only. So if your ex and her mother have problems it's no bearing on what you should do. Thats between them. So like I said, if there is no friendship or future thoughts of you and your ex being together, then go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): Do it for all the guys who wish they had the opportunity!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): It's not like he's cheating on his girlfriend with the mom. That would be wrong. In this case, he's single and so is the other woman. His ex may be jealous. So what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): this is not about his ex i agree, but some lines should not be crossed.
he needs to decide whether he can live with the aftermath. nothing is so easy as just a few moments of stolen pleasure. he will be found out that's for sure.
he did admit that he is interested the question is , will his fun have consequences and how he is going to deal with people finding out. I just did.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (26 March 2009):
I love this. The guys are all for it and the girls are dead against it. It shows you the difference in how guys and girls think. The bottom line ladies, he is not with his ex anymore which is why they call it an ex. And unless he and his ex still have feelings for each other or think they me be together in the future, there is no foul in this. He has no obligation to his ex to not be with her mother unless they are still friends. But if not, he should go for it and have fun plain and simple.
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reader, guppypig +, writes (26 March 2009):
Again, I would just note that Anonymous and Ginalolabridga seem to be responding out of irrational prejudice. Neither can explain why your ex can dictate your sex life.
Do you tell your ex whether or not she can sleep with someone? Then why should it bother you what she thinks?
Have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): so sordid!!!!!!!!!!!. what an ugly picture.
leave the OLD lady alone. she has no respect for herself. Imagine your ex's response when she finds out. a few minutes of lust with ex mamma, may just damage you for good. this woman (cannot call her a lady)wants some action. are you going to give her some but will you keep your self respect and BACK OFF.
You don't have to be home at 7 tonight my dear. just remember she IS OLD, surely you can get someone closer to your own age. sure you are tempted but oh no.............. such an ugly picture.
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reader, guppypig +, writes (26 March 2009):
Go for it. You are both consenting single adults, and an ex-girlfriend has no claim on your sex life. An older woman can be a wonderfully invigorating conquest; at her age, she will probably be more experienced, communicative, and relaxed. She may enjoy your energy and stamina.
Best of luck!
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