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Is this intimacy?

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Question - (27 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mmaxbaby writes:

Is this intimacy....?

I went out with this guy who ive been seeing, and we got pizza and was eating it in the back of this car, I was leaning on him, he was sitting behind me and my back was leaning on his chest and his arms were around my waist massaging me.

I get mixed signals from this guy whether he likes me or not, surely he must like me to do this?

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A male reader, FromMars United States +, writes (28 November 2008):

Its hard to say. It depends on how you respond to his moves. He may like to be with you adn confortable with you and he just tries to shows it out. This does not mean, he loves you. But the other ways may be true.

Talk to him directly or indirectly. Ask him what he thinks about you. Read his body language.

All the best!!!

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A female reader, Gypsii United States +, writes (27 November 2008):

If you're getting mixed signals, then you need to check in with him to see what's up. That is, he may be interested in pursuing you sexually while you may be misinterpreting the physical contact as indication of something more developing. Men and women communicate differently so the best thing to do is have a talk with him about where things are. You may be on the same page and then again may not be. Either way, the responsible thing to do is find our where you both are on it.

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A male reader, InterCntlCHmp Canada +, writes (27 November 2008):

It's not really a case of "he must like you to behave like this" but surely the more obvious sign is that you have both been seeing each other for a while! It sure looks like he likes you. Try asking him. Guys appreciate direct communication because we have no clue what you are thinking.

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